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Naked Reader Book Club Discussion: The Ultimate Guide to Sexual Fantasy and The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex (January 11, 7-11 EST)

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Contributor: Emma (Girl With Fire) Emma (Girl With Fire)
Congrats!
01/11/2011
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
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Originally posted by LicentiouslyYours
Woah! We lost internet and cable here for a few minutes, but I'm back now!

I see we hit 200 while I was away... woohoo!

This time, since we're so far past 200, the winner is the last person to post on page 7... Tori ... more
Congo-Ratz Tori!
01/11/2011
Contributor: Kristina Wright Kristina Wright
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Originally posted by Emma (Girl With Fire)
Alcohol is my favorite way to work into sex the first time around with anybody. Totally alleviates the anxiety and once you have had sex with somebody once, doing it sober the second time around really isn't such a big deal.
Very true. I think most, if not all, of my first times involved alcohol. Hmm... I swear I'm not a lush!
01/11/2011
Contributor: Kristina Wright Kristina Wright
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Originally posted by Dragonfirez
Kristina too many for this page!
Aww, c'mon. Share one?
01/11/2011
Contributor: Emma (Girl With Fire) Emma (Girl With Fire)
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Originally posted by Kristina Wright
Very true. I think most, if not all, of my first times involved alcohol. Hmm... I swear I'm not a lush!
Lol, neither am I.... anymore.
01/11/2011
Contributor: Kristina Wright Kristina Wright
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Originally posted by Tori Rebel
And you can get the black nitrile ones from tattoo supply places online
Learn something new every day... thanks!
01/11/2011
Contributor: Sammi Sammi
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Originally posted by LicentiouslyYours
Woah! We lost internet and cable here for a few minutes, but I'm back now!

I see we hit 200 while I was away... woohoo!

This time, since we're so far past 200, the winner is the last person to post on page 7... Tori ... more
Congrats, Tori!
01/11/2011
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
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Originally posted by Jul!a
Hmm, I've never thought about a cuff or anything like that. I'm looking forward to experimenting when we have our own place.
I don't think anyone would have any problem with you and he meeting at a hotel/motel for some loud raunchy sex! You are married it's legal now It could be a great potential for roleplaying the cheating spouses!
01/11/2011
Contributor: Sammi Sammi
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Originally posted by Jul!a
Ooh, that's another one of ours. We tried it out on the honeymoon. Our room had a gorgeous beachfront view, and was close enough that you could stand on the beach and see into our room. One afternoon we left the curtains open lol
Oh, I bet that was nice
01/11/2011
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
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Originally posted by Airen Wolf
I don't think anyone would have any problem with you and he meeting at a hotel/motel for some loud raunchy sex! You are married it's legal now It could be a great potential for roleplaying the cheating spouses!
Touche!
01/11/2011
Contributor: Kristina Wright Kristina Wright
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Originally posted by Sammi
The only fantasy that will actually happen is to do it against a large window in a hotel, where anyone *might* see us
That's a good one. Tried that once in a highrise hotel in a downtown area. I'm not an exhibitionist by nature, but I really didn't care if strangers saw me.
01/11/2011
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
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Originally posted by Sammi
Oh, I bet that was nice
It was. He went to close them and I was like "why?"
01/11/2011
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
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Originally posted by Airen Wolf
Start slow and with the lights off at first. Just get him nekkid and lay him down on the bed. Ask him not to move and then touch his body like you've always wanted to. You'll be wrestling him and ravishing him in no time!
I suck with belts and buttons.
My goal is to be sexy and seductive V-day night.
01/11/2011
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
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Originally posted by Airen Wolf
I don't think anyone would have any problem with you and he meeting at a hotel/motel for some loud raunchy sex! You are married it's legal now It could be a great potential for roleplaying the cheating spouses!
On that note you could do so much with that scenario beyod 'cheating' scenes or anonymous sex. Bondage can be so damn exciting in a hotel/motel room.
01/11/2011
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
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Originally posted by LicentiouslyYours
Woah! We lost internet and cable here for a few minutes, but I'm back now!

I see we hit 200 while I was away... woohoo!

This time, since we're so far past 200, the winner is the last person to post on page 7... Tori ... more
Congrats!
01/11/2011
Contributor: Kristina Wright Kristina Wright
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Originally posted by Tori Rebel
I just love all of the silent sacred-ness and all the dark gothic decadence of it. Apparently religious rites turn me on!
I love the taboo elements involved in sex and religion. Deliciously naughty!
01/11/2011
Contributor: Dragonfirez Dragonfirez
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Originally posted by Kristina Wright
Aww, c'mon. Share one?
I did the one on the beach
01/11/2011
Contributor: Tori Rebel Tori Rebel
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Originally posted by LicentiouslyYours
Woah! We lost internet and cable here for a few minutes, but I'm back now!

I see we hit 200 while I was away... woohoo!

This time, since we're so far past 200, the winner is the last person to post on page 7... Tori ... more
Woohoo! Thanks, you made my night!
01/11/2011
Contributor: Kristina Wright Kristina Wright
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Originally posted by Emma (Girl With Fire)
If you don't have sex in an actual church you can always throw up a few crosses and a ton of candles and incense somewhere in the house. It's not like there is any shortage of religious paraphernalia floating around the internet
So true! You could create your own little altar right at home... hmm... this is making me want to write a story...
01/11/2011
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
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Originally posted by Illusional
I suck with belts and buttons.
My goal is to be sexy and seductive V-day night.
You know what both my guys say is the sexiest and most seductive thing you can do or say? Apparently it's "OMG Hurry UP I am so ready for you! I want you so bad!" They are both wanting me to tell you that...

At any rate he's gonna be loving you and feeling all amazing. Relax and above all just ENJOY yourself.
01/11/2011
Contributor: Tori Rebel Tori Rebel
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Originally posted by Emma (Girl With Fire)
If you don't have sex in an actual church you can always throw up a few crosses and a ton of candles and incense somewhere in the house. It's not like there is any shortage of religious paraphernalia floating around the internet
LOL Funny part is, my house kind of already looks like that...I have lots of crosses and crucifixes and dark velvety gothic things...and lots of Buddhas but that's another topic entirely
01/11/2011
Contributor: Kristina Wright Kristina Wright
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Originally posted by Dragonfirez
Doing it on the beach with a beautiful sunset. One day hopefully
Do you live near a beach? Certainly doable! Just watch out for sand in sensitive places... eek!
01/11/2011
Contributor: Tori Rebel Tori Rebel
thanks all
01/11/2011
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
Quote:
Originally posted by Kristina Wright
So true! You could create your own little altar right at home... hmm... this is making me want to write a story...
We've done the whole 'living altar' ritual type sex...it's amazing!
01/11/2011
Contributor: Emma (Girl With Fire) Emma (Girl With Fire)
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Originally posted by Illusional
I suck with belts and buttons.
My goal is to be sexy and seductive V-day night.
Try taking baby steps. Force yourself to do one little thing at a time, all day long, you will be so worked up by the end of the night, nerves will be the least of your worries.
01/11/2011
Contributor: Kristina Wright Kristina Wright
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Originally posted by Airen Wolf
I am squirming to try out bondage in 2011. Sigel and I have some major trust issues in our relationship and the possibility of power play scares the shit outta me but turns me on frighteningly as well. So we are kinda flirting with the topic right ... more
Bondage is fun, but trust is a necessity. I hope you can work it out so that you can enjoy the experience! Just be sure you're comfortable with everything and communicate any insecurities you're having.
01/11/2011
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
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Originally posted by Airen Wolf
You know what both my guys say is the sexiest and most seductive thing you can do or say? Apparently it's "OMG Hurry UP I am so ready for you! I want you so bad!" They are both wanting me to tell you that...

At any rate he's ... more
I tried to do a sexy thing like that before, and take off his pants and I was stammering so much, and then I got on my knees and tried to undo his pants.
I was shaking so much, and they wouldn't come undone and I tugged and hit myself in the face.
He was like.. OMG are you alright?
And I hid in the bathroom and cried for two hours, lol.

Maybe I'll try unbuttoning my pants on the outside, lol.
01/11/2011
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
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Originally posted by Emma (Girl With Fire)
Try taking baby steps. Force yourself to do one little thing at a time, all day long, you will be so worked up by the end of the night, nerves will be the least of your worries.
Well what's a baby step to sexy?
I just want to make the first move and kinda take the lead.
He wants me to be on top but... yeah.
01/11/2011
Contributor: Kristina Wright Kristina Wright
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Originally posted by Tori Rebel
There might even be story potential in there somewhere LOL
LOL... indeed!
01/11/2011
Contributor: Kristina Wright Kristina Wright
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Originally posted by Airen Wolf
They have small 10-15 glove boxes for people who do insulin injections...or kinky folk...
Ahhh... good to know!
01/11/2011