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Naked Reader Book Club Discussion: The Ultimate Guide to Sexual Fantasy and The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex (January 11, 7-11 EST)

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Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
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Originally posted by Tori Rebel
That definitely sounds like it's something I should take a look at. We're pretty experienced as far as anal on him goes, but if I can learn even a little something else that we can enjoy together, it's definitely worth it.
I'll be honest I thought I knew about male genital anatomy but I learned so much from Ms. Taormino!
01/11/2011
Contributor: Jessica Elizabeth Jessica Elizabeth
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Originally posted by Sammi
Hi!
Hi Sammi! ^^
01/11/2011
Contributor: Tori Rebel Tori Rebel
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Originally posted by Airen Wolf
If you use a nitril or non latex glove with a cotton ball over the tip of the finger it makes everything extremely nice. In a pinch a well lubricated condom and a cotton ball work as well.
Tristan shows that in her Guide to Anal Sex for Men DVD - I haven't tried it yet but the girl that was in that scene had pretty long, sharp looking nails and there were no problems at all. Pretty impressive benefits from such simple items.
01/11/2011
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
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Originally posted by Kristina Wright
Did someone already suggest this and I missed it? I think there is a sampler pack of different lubes you can order on EF. I did that years ago and found a couple I really liked (and a couple I really hated!). Some lubes that come highly recommended ... more
I feel ashamed to admit my boyfriend isn't a big fan of lube, but thanks to this Liquid Silk gifted to me, I shall use it. And it's so nice.
01/11/2011
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
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Originally posted by Kristina Wright
Did someone already suggest this and I missed it? I think there is a sampler pack of different lubes you can order on EF. I did that years ago and found a couple I really liked (and a couple I really hated!). Some lubes that come highly recommended ... more
I am going to have to look that one up, it sounds like what we're looking for!
01/11/2011
Contributor: Jessica Elizabeth Jessica Elizabeth
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Originally posted by Kristina Wright
I think just liking anything anal is in the minority. There are a lot of inhibitions around anal sex, which is why I think Tristan's book is so helpful.
I agree. It took me forever to try anything anal, and even then it was under the cover of dark, by myself lol Happily my boyfriend enjoys giving anal play including analingus. LOL Yay me!
01/11/2011
Contributor: Tori Rebel Tori Rebel
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Originally posted by LicentiouslyYours
It's going so fast... I had to stop and count backward to see who wins the #100 post $25 Gift Card...

It appears to be Airen! Congrats!
YAY! Congrats Airen!
01/11/2011
Contributor: bzzingbee bzzingbee
Ah! I had to step away for a few minutes and I'm trying to catch up! I read the Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex also and loved how she covered EVERYTHING! My review will hopefully be done tonight
01/11/2011
Contributor: bzzingbee bzzingbee
Congrats Airen!
01/11/2011
Contributor: Sammi Sammi
Congrats, Airen!
01/11/2011
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
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Originally posted by Jessica Elizabeth
I agree. It took me forever to try anything anal, and even then it was under the cover of dark, by myself lol Happily my boyfriend enjoys giving anal play including analingus. LOL Yay me!
My boyfriend loves anal. It was a bumpy start, but I've grown to enjoy it.
01/11/2011
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
I got caught up talking to my mom and wow I missed a lot lol. Congrats Airen
01/11/2011
Contributor: Emma (Girl With Fire) Emma (Girl With Fire)
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Originally posted by Illusional
I feel ashamed to admit my boyfriend isn't a big fan of lube, but thanks to this Liquid Silk gifted to me, I shall use it. And it's so nice.
Well your bf isn't the one who it benefits is he Maybe he just doesn't like what he has used thus far. I don't really like most lubes (I am highly prone to vaginal irritation) but I have found at least one which does not bother my system and it is SO worth the hassle when you need it.
01/11/2011
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
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Originally posted by Kristina Wright
Gloves and a cotton ball? Did I miss something??
LOL Naw I was commenting that if you are afraid of being cut by a finger nail a glove with a cotton ball placed in the tip will prevent this from happening. It also makes the fingertip soft and squoooshy.
01/11/2011
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
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Originally posted by Emma (Girl With Fire)
Well your bf isn't the one who it benefits is he Maybe he just doesn't like what he has used thus far. I don't really like most lubes (I am highly prone to vaginal irritation) but I have found at least one which does not bother my system ... more
Which one do you use?
01/11/2011
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
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Originally posted by Illusional
Congrats Airen!
Whoa! Thanks
01/11/2011
Contributor: Jessica Elizabeth Jessica Elizabeth
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Originally posted by Illusional
My boyfriend loves anal. It was a bumpy start, but I've grown to enjoy it.
We really want to try anal-penile penetration but he's so girthy. Eventually we will!
01/11/2011
Contributor: Kristina Wright Kristina Wright
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Originally posted by Jessica Elizabeth
I agree. It took me forever to try anything anal, and even then it was under the cover of dark, by myself lol Happily my boyfriend enjoys giving anal play including analingus. LOL Yay me!
No kidding, yay! That's lovely!
01/11/2011
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
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Originally posted by Jessica Elizabeth
We really want to try anal-penile penetration but he's so girthy. Eventually we will!
My boyfriend's pretty girthy and it was... yeeeah.
01/11/2011
Contributor: Emma (Girl With Fire) Emma (Girl With Fire)
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Originally posted by Illusional
Which one do you use?
I use Muko Lubricating Jelly by Source. Its a medical grade lubricant which is probably why it doesn't irritate me. I want something natural though.
01/11/2011
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
Quote:
Originally posted by Tori Rebel
Tristan shows that in her Guide to Anal Sex for Men DVD - I haven't tried it yet but the girl that was in that scene had pretty long, sharp looking nails and there were no problems at all. Pretty impressive benefits from such simple items.
Oh sure it can be just fine but I was cut by a fingernail and it got infected and was just a mess. Once bitten; twice shy, ya know?
01/11/2011
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
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Originally posted by Kristina Wright
No kidding, yay! That's lovely!
Can I ask what's analingus? I'm a newbie to terms.
01/11/2011
Contributor: LicentiouslyYours LicentiouslyYours
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Originally posted by Kristina Wright
I think just liking anything anal is in the minority. There are a lot of inhibitions around anal sex, which is why I think Tristan's book is so helpful.
It's true, there are a tremendous number of inhibitions surrounding anal sex.. which I think for a few is what draws them to it.

While, as I mentioned, I am a fan of anal penetration, I definitely prefer to avoid fingers and tongue in that area. I've met a few people who are actually surprised by this; they think it's the best thing ever.

There's a wide spectrum of attitudes, but I think someone mentioned before, you should definitely be in favor of trying something before actually doing it. Trying it once is one thing, but if you don't like it.. there's so many other things to do!
01/11/2011
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
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Originally posted by Emma (Girl With Fire)
I use Muko Lubricating Jelly by Source. Its a medical grade lubricant which is probably why it doesn't irritate me. I want something natural though.
I'm ultra sensitive too, so I'll keep that one also.
01/11/2011
Contributor: Emma (Girl With Fire) Emma (Girl With Fire)
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Originally posted by Illusional
Can I ask what's analingus? I'm a newbie to terms.
Mouth to ass.
01/11/2011
Contributor: Jessica Elizabeth Jessica Elizabeth
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Originally posted by Kristina Wright
No kidding, yay! That's lovely!
OH totally! I was so nervous at first, but eventually he convinced me to "assume the position" and I haven't looked back since!
01/11/2011
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
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Originally posted by Illusional
Can I ask what's analingus? I'm a newbie to terms.
oral sex with the anus
01/11/2011
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
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Originally posted by Emma (Girl With Fire)
Mouth to ass.
Oh duh, that should've made sense.

Sorry, new antibiotics make me loopy lol.
01/11/2011
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
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Originally posted by Illusional
Can I ask what's analingus? I'm a newbie to terms.
It's like oral sex for the anus.
01/11/2011
Contributor: Emma (Girl With Fire) Emma (Girl With Fire)
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Originally posted by Illusional
Oh duh, that should've made sense.

Sorry, new antibiotics make me loopy lol.
sure sure, blame the antibiotics
01/11/2011