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Naked Reader Book Club Discussion: The Ultimate Guide to Sexual Fantasy and The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex (January 11, 7-11 EST)

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Contributor: Emma (Girl With Fire) Emma (Girl With Fire)
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Originally posted by Airen Wolf
That's right Girl, own up! LOL
We all started somewhere and some of us got our 'information' in some very bad places...
Yes, for instance, doing it the wrong way first. I recommend avoiding this.
01/11/2011
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
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Originally posted by Jessica Elizabeth
OH yay!!
Yes, finally I get to spend Valentine's Day with him. It's been two years.
01/11/2011
Contributor: bzzingbee bzzingbee
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Originally posted by Kristina Wright
I probably shouldn't admit this, but I have a bit of a glove fetish and have taken some of those pretty purple nitrile (is that what they are?) gloves from my doctor's office...
Hahaha....awesome. They do just leave them out....
01/11/2011
Contributor: Kristina Wright Kristina Wright
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Originally posted by Illusional
Cosmo and romance novels haven't been kind to me.


Worst thing I think I've done

I was hooking up with a older guy, and I thought I smelled way too.. "blah" downstairs.

So I wanted to "Womanize" it ... more
Oh... wow... no, no, no. That's just too awful! You poor thing!
01/11/2011
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
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Originally posted by Kristina Wright
I probably shouldn't admit this, but I have a bit of a glove fetish and have taken some of those pretty purple nitrile (is that what they are?) gloves from my doctor's office...
I've got some in blue..

But I bought them when I was using aircraft stripper to take the paint off my old Cadillac, lol. He's got his own box in blue because he got tired of mine choking his hands.
01/11/2011
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
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Originally posted by Alys
Wow, I think I might have just choked, I was laughing so hard... sounds like my younger self too
Yeah, he didn't go down long, but then... he broke up with me like a few days later, and then was like "No offense, but your kittykat tasted really nasty."

I was like.. WTF.
01/11/2011
Contributor: Tori Rebel Tori Rebel
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Originally posted by Illusional
Oh, we use vibrators. Never mouth yet, but he's expressed some interest I can't.

Although flavored lube or something yummy might..
The Cal Exotics Cherry Anal Lube is a good one to start with...it's nice and thick so it does provide a bit of a barrier if you don't lick it all up And it doesn't have much of a lube aftertaste either.
01/11/2011
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
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Originally posted by Tori Rebel
The Cal Exotics Cherry Anal Lube is a good one to start with...it's nice and thick so it does provide a bit of a barrier if you don't lick it all up And it doesn't have much of a lube aftertaste either.
Is there a strawberry?
01/11/2011
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
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Originally posted by Illusional
Airen, I just allowed him to see me naked with the lights on, after three years.

I just did intense, LOL.
Awww hun I understand. I've been with Sigel 20 years and having sex where he can see me is still a bit frightening. Bothmy guys prefer the lights on but ya I am still a bit shy. It gets easier though!
01/11/2011
Contributor: Emma (Girl With Fire) Emma (Girl With Fire)
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Originally posted by Illusional
Cosmo and romance novels haven't been kind to me.


Worst thing I think I've done

I was hooking up with a older guy, and I thought I smelled way too.. "blah" downstairs.

So I wanted to "Womanize" it ... more
Babywipe and an all natural sugarless body butter. You will be clean, smelling good, and supersoft! In fact I am going to be making myself some body butter with organic flavored oils specifically for this purpose.
01/11/2011
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
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Originally posted by Emma (Girl With Fire)
Babywipe and an all natural sugarless body butter. You will be clean, smelling good, and supersoft! In fact I am going to be making myself some body butter with organic flavored oils specifically for this purpose.
LOL. Send me some.

And I didn't smell nasty, I just smelled "linen cotton fresh"

I was only 17 guys... lol
01/11/2011
Contributor: Alys Alys
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Originally posted by Emma (Girl With Fire)
Babywipe and an all natural sugarless body butter. You will be clean, smelling good, and supersoft! In fact I am going to be making myself some body butter with organic flavored oils specifically for this purpose.
Sounds yummy
01/11/2011
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
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Originally posted by Tori Rebel
The Cal Exotics Cherry Anal Lube is a good one to start with...it's nice and thick so it does provide a bit of a barrier if you don't lick it all up And it doesn't have much of a lube aftertaste either.
I thought that one didn't actually have an intentional flavor, just a scent? I have the original tho, so I can't actually speak for it, lol
01/11/2011
Contributor: Kristina Wright Kristina Wright
We've been talking a lot about anal sex (yay for butts!), but let's chat about Violet Blue's guide to sexual fantasy, too. It's a terrific conversation starter for lovers looking to explore their fantasies.

Any fantasies you're just squirming to live out in 2011? How will you go about introducing the topic to your partner(s)?
01/11/2011
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
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Originally posted by Airen Wolf
Awww hun I understand. I've been with Sigel 20 years and having sex where he can see me is still a bit frightening. Bothmy guys prefer the lights on but ya I am still a bit shy. It gets easier though!
My boyfriend got lights on, for his birthday. I usually turn the lights off, lol.
01/11/2011
Contributor: Tori Rebel Tori Rebel
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Originally posted by Illusional
Is there a strawberry?
Not in that brand, no. They only make cherry and unflavored. For strawberry though, the Wet Body Glide isn't bad. It's a little tangy, and I think it's too sticky for intercourse, but it gets the job done if you need someplace to start! The Sliquid Swirls are very nice too, if you want something in a range of flavors that's good all-around.
01/11/2011
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
Quote:
Originally posted by Illusional
Cosmo and romance novels haven't been kind to me.


Worst thing I think I've done

I was hooking up with a older guy, and I thought I smelled way too.. "blah" downstairs.

So I wanted to "Womanize" it ... more
OMG OUCH! Ummmm your natural smell should be aphrodisiac enough for any guy. You should smell earthy and natural not fishy or like bread. Other than that keep it clean without using soap inside the inner labia as this can promote BV (bacterial overgrowth).
01/11/2011
Contributor: Emma (Girl With Fire) Emma (Girl With Fire)
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Originally posted by Illusional
LOL. Send me some.

And I didn't smell nasty, I just smelled "linen cotton fresh"

I was only 17 guys... lol
Thats a good smell in my book.
01/11/2011
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
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Originally posted by Kristina Wright
We've been talking a lot about anal sex (yay for butts!), but let's chat about Violet Blue's guide to sexual fantasy, too. It's a terrific conversation starter for lovers looking to explore their fantasies.

Any fantasies ... more
My biggest one.
I really really really really wanna get the guts to be bold enough to like.. initiate/ravish him

It's so scary, I've literally thrown up thinking about it.
I'm so shy, and I can trust him but... I'm so... shy.
01/11/2011
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
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Originally posted by Kristina Wright
I probably shouldn't admit this, but I have a bit of a glove fetish and have taken some of those pretty purple nitrile (is that what they are?) gloves from my doctor's office...
They sell them at Wal-Mart...just sayin'
01/11/2011
Contributor: staceejaxxx staceejaxxx
Fantasies? Hummm.....
01/11/2011
Contributor: Kristina Wright Kristina Wright
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Originally posted by Illusional
My boyfriend got lights on, for his birthday. I usually turn the lights off, lol.
Nice birthday present! I've found alcohol makes the lights on not seem so troublesome. Or a blindfold.
01/11/2011
Contributor: Tori Rebel Tori Rebel
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Originally posted by Jul!a
I thought that one didn't actually have an intentional flavor, just a scent? I have the original tho, so I can't actually speak for it, lol
I know they make unflavored and cherry... I don't know if they meant for the cherry to have a flavor but it definitely does.
01/11/2011
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
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Originally posted by Tori Rebel
Not in that brand, no. They only make cherry and unflavored. For strawberry though, the Wet Body Glide isn't bad. It's a little tangy, and I think it's too sticky for intercourse, but it gets the job done if you need someplace to ... more
Oooh thanks.
01/11/2011
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
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Originally posted by Kristina Wright
We've been talking a lot about anal sex (yay for butts!), but let's chat about Violet Blue's guide to sexual fantasy, too. It's a terrific conversation starter for lovers looking to explore their fantasies.

Any fantasies ... more
I want to try the dom/sub roles out. We've talked about it before, we just both feel really silly trying it out (even tho we know we shouldn't). I think also a big part of our unwillingness to try anything new right now is because since we do live with my mom while we save for a house, and she's right down the hall..
01/11/2011
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
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Originally posted by Emma (Girl With Fire)
Thats a good smell in my book.
Lol, it is a nice smell.
And I have a nice taste, I learned that years later. lol
01/11/2011
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
OMG off topic and totally funny...my daughter's MP3 shortened Ritchie Blackmoore oddly and it looked like it was calling her a 'Bitch'. She was pissed!
01/11/2011
Contributor: Kristina Wright Kristina Wright
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Originally posted by Airen Wolf
They sell them at Wal-Mart...just sayin'
Do they? I had no idea! I don't need a whole box, though... (I did publish a story about a woman who stole gloves to play with her boyfriend.)
01/11/2011
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
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Originally posted by Kristina Wright
Nice birthday present! I've found alcohol makes the lights on not seem so troublesome. Or a blindfold.
I drink vodka sometimes, but I am a mega worrywart.
01/11/2011
Contributor: Tori Rebel Tori Rebel
Quote:
Originally posted by Kristina Wright
We've been talking a lot about anal sex (yay for butts!), but let's chat about Violet Blue's guide to sexual fantasy, too. It's a terrific conversation starter for lovers looking to explore their fantasies.

Any fantasies ... more
Mine is kind of...well, sacrilegious. My boyfriend already knows about it and thinks it's great, it's just a matter of making it happen. I want to have sex in a Catholic Church. A dark one with lots of candles and that heady incense smell and lots of ritualistic decor. I'm not Catholic but I love the decadence of it all.
01/11/2011