The New Intimacy

Naked Reader Book Club Discussion: The Ultimate Guide to Sexual Fantasy and The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex (January 11, 7-11 EST)

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Contributor: LicentiouslyYours LicentiouslyYours
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Originally posted by Kristina Wright
Gloves and a cotton ball? Did I miss something??
They protect you from the evil of sharp claws in flesh!
01/11/2011
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
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Originally posted by Airen Wolf
oral sex with the anus
I don't know if I could do that,I'm so scared to give my boyfriend anal, I've done it once, but..
01/11/2011
Contributor: Tori Rebel Tori Rebel
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Originally posted by Airen Wolf
Oh sure it can be just fine but I was cut by a fingernail and it got infected and was just a mess. Once bitten; twice shy, ya know?
I completely agree. I'm very cautious not to cut him, and haven't so far, but if I ever do I'll definitely be going to the gloved method. We also don't do anything with fingers if I have any cuts, etc. that could get bacteria in them. We did use a condom over my finger the first few times but only because he was a little paranoid about things being messy which they really never have been.
01/11/2011
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
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Originally posted by Emma (Girl With Fire)
sure sure, blame the antibiotics
Lol
Okay I'm loopy and I don't know much sexually.
I admit.
01/11/2011
Contributor: Jessica Elizabeth Jessica Elizabeth
Quote:
Originally posted by Illusional
I don't know if I could do that,I'm so scared to give my boyfriend anal, I've done it once, but..
I couldn't do it to him, but he likes doing it to me So long as I'm clean of course. That's a post shower activity lol
01/11/2011
Contributor: Emma (Girl With Fire) Emma (Girl With Fire)
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Originally posted by LicentiouslyYours
They protect you from the evil of sharp claws in flesh!
That just reminded me of my conversation with some random perv the other day. He told me he was a vampire and then kept going "Hhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh hhhhhhhhhh"
the "Hhhhhhhhhhh" was my first mental response when reading your comment.
01/11/2011
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
Quote:
Originally posted by Jessica Elizabeth
I couldn't do it to him, but he likes doing it to me So long as I'm clean of course. That's a post shower activity lol
Yeah, when he does me is quite nice since I've learned to relax.

Only thing is is we're long distance so it always takes awhile to adjust, lol.
01/11/2011
Contributor: Alys Alys
Quote:
Originally posted by Emma (Girl With Fire)
That just reminded me of my conversation with some random perv the other day. He told me he was a vampire and then kept going "Hhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh hhhhhhhhhh"
the "Hhhhhhhhhhh" was my first mental response when reading your comment.
LOL
01/11/2011
Contributor: staceejaxxx staceejaxxx
What's a good first time toy to try anal on the hubs?
01/11/2011
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
Quote:
Originally posted by Emma (Girl With Fire)
That just reminded me of my conversation with some random perv the other day. He told me he was a vampire and then kept going "Hhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh hhhhhhhhhh"
the "Hhhhhhhhhhh" was my first mental response when reading your comment.
I love that convo, so glad you put it in a note. It was so awesome, lol.
01/11/2011
Contributor: Tori Rebel Tori Rebel
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Originally posted by Illusional
I don't know if I could do that,I'm so scared to give my boyfriend anal, I've done it once, but..
I got into doing it to my boyfriend using flavored lubes...it put both my mind, and his, at ease in the beginning. Plus kind of lapping up the lube led to some tongue motions he really enjoys

He does it on me without the lube, and while I may never be an anal penetration fan, I do love the way his mouth feels.
01/11/2011
Contributor: Kristina Wright Kristina Wright
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Originally posted by Jessica Elizabeth
We really want to try anal-penile penetration but he's so girthy. Eventually we will!
Ooh, I like that word. "Girthy."

Good luck when you do try. Go slow, be patient, use lube and refer back to TT's book often!
01/11/2011
Contributor: Jessica Elizabeth Jessica Elizabeth
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Originally posted by Illusional
Yeah, when he does me is quite nice since I've learned to relax.

Only thing is is we're long distance so it always takes awhile to adjust, lol.
Oh gosh I can imagine! ^^ I've been in my share of long distance relationships; am so glad it's not that way anymore.
01/11/2011
Contributor: Emma (Girl With Fire) Emma (Girl With Fire)
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Originally posted by Alys
LOL
Seriously. If you ever get bored just add me on facebook and you can read the whole conversation. I posted it in my notes.
01/11/2011
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
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Originally posted by Illusional
I don't know if I could do that,I'm so scared to give my boyfriend anal, I've done it once, but..
It's not that bad if he is very clean. It is probably the most intimate thing you can do though and can be very intense.
01/11/2011
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
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Originally posted by Tori Rebel
I got into doing it to my boyfriend using flavored lubes...it put both my mind, and his, at ease in the beginning. Plus kind of lapping up the lube led to some tongue motions he really enjoys

He does it on me without the lube, and while I ... more
Oh, we use vibrators. Never mouth yet, but he's expressed some interest I can't.

Although flavored lube or something yummy might..
01/11/2011
Contributor: Dragonfirez Dragonfirez
For men the best thing to try is a prostate massager first.
01/11/2011
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
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Originally posted by Airen Wolf
It's not that bad if he is very clean. It is probably the most intimate thing you can do though and can be very intense.
Airen, I just allowed him to see me naked with the lights on, after three years.

I just did intense, LOL.
01/11/2011
Contributor: Jessica Elizabeth Jessica Elizabeth
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Originally posted by Kristina Wright
Ooh, I like that word. "Girthy."

Good luck when you do try. Go slow, be patient, use lube and refer back to TT's book often!
Thanks We tried once, but I hadn't used any larger toys at the time so it didn't work very well LOL He's been wanting to try again but I haven't been in the right kind of mood to try to relax enough to try to take it again lol
01/11/2011
Contributor: Kristina Wright Kristina Wright
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Originally posted by Jessica Elizabeth
OH totally! I was so nervous at first, but eventually he convinced me to "assume the position" and I haven't looked back since!
LOL... love the puns!
01/11/2011
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
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Originally posted by Tori Rebel
I completely agree. I'm very cautious not to cut him, and haven't so far, but if I ever do I'll definitely be going to the gloved method. We also don't do anything with fingers if I have any cuts, etc. that could get bacteria in ... more
I'm gonna have to try the glove method. I've been interested in having him play with fingers in me, and doing the same to him, I'm just all squicked out by the thought of a finger that I chew on going in a butt, lol
01/11/2011
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
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Originally posted by Illusional
Lol
Okay I'm loopy and I don't know much sexually.
I admit.
That's right Girl, own up! LOL
We all started somewhere and some of us got our 'information' in some very bad places...
01/11/2011
Contributor: Emma (Girl With Fire) Emma (Girl With Fire)
Quote:
Originally posted by Illusional
I love that convo, so glad you put it in a note. It was so awesome, lol.
Yeah I thought it was worth posting. Kinda wish I had thought of that with my many encounters with pervs in Fb texas holdem. Some of them got really funny.
01/11/2011
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
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Originally posted by Jessica Elizabeth
Oh gosh I can imagine! ^^ I've been in my share of long distance relationships; am so glad it's not that way anymore.
It's a bit difficult, but soon I'll be doing school near him
01/11/2011
Contributor: Jessica Elizabeth Jessica Elizabeth
Quote:
Originally posted by Illusional
It's a bit difficult, but soon I'll be doing school near him
OH yay!!
01/11/2011
Contributor: Jessica Elizabeth Jessica Elizabeth
Quote:
Originally posted by Kristina Wright
LOL... love the puns!
LOL That's one of his favorite phrases. Probably 'cuz of the connotations
01/11/2011
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
Quote:
Originally posted by Airen Wolf
That's right Girl, own up! LOL
We all started somewhere and some of us got our 'information' in some very bad places...
Cosmo and romance novels haven't been kind to me.


Worst thing I think I've done

I was hooking up with a older guy, and I thought I smelled way too.. "blah" downstairs.

So I wanted to "Womanize" it up.
So what did I do?
I sprayed perfume... down there.
Yeah, Paris Hilton's Just Love Me.

It burned like a bitch.
And when he went down... YEAH. I won't continue this.
01/11/2011
Contributor: Dragonfirez Dragonfirez
Ladies please remember to watch the finger nails.
01/11/2011
Contributor: Alys Alys
Quote:
Originally posted by Illusional
Cosmo and romance novels haven't been kind to me.


Worst thing I think I've done

I was hooking up with a older guy, and I thought I smelled way too.. "blah" downstairs.

So I wanted to "Womanize" it ... more
Wow, I think I might have just choked, I was laughing so hard... sounds like my younger self too
01/11/2011
Contributor: Kristina Wright Kristina Wright
Quote:
Originally posted by Jul!a
I'm gonna have to try the glove method. I've been interested in having him play with fingers in me, and doing the same to him, I'm just all squicked out by the thought of a finger that I chew on going in a butt, lol
I probably shouldn't admit this, but I have a bit of a glove fetish and have taken some of those pretty purple nitrile (is that what they are?) gloves from my doctor's office...
01/11/2011