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Naked Reader Book Club Discussion: The Ultimate Guide to Sexual Fantasy and The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex (January 11, 7-11 EST)

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Contributor: Emma (Girl With Fire) Emma (Girl With Fire)
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Originally posted by Kristina Wright
Nice birthday present! I've found alcohol makes the lights on not seem so troublesome. Or a blindfold.
Alcohol is my favorite way to work into sex the first time around with anybody. Totally alleviates the anxiety and once you have had sex with somebody once, doing it sober the second time around really isn't such a big deal.
01/11/2011
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
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Originally posted by Airen Wolf
OMG off topic and totally funny...my daughter's MP3 shortened Ritchie Blackmoore oddly and it looked like it was calling her a 'Bitch'. She was pissed!
LOL, that's kinda funny.
01/11/2011
Contributor: Sammi Sammi
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Originally posted by Kristina Wright
We've been talking a lot about anal sex (yay for butts!), but let's chat about Violet Blue's guide to sexual fantasy, too. It's a terrific conversation starter for lovers looking to explore their fantasies.

Any fantasies ... more
The only fantasy that will actually happen is to do it against a large window in a hotel, where anyone *might* see us
01/11/2011
Contributor: Tori Rebel Tori Rebel
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Originally posted by Kristina Wright
Do they? I had no idea! I don't need a whole box, though... (I did publish a story about a woman who stole gloves to play with her boyfriend.)
And you can get the black nitrile ones from tattoo supply places online
01/11/2011
Contributor: Dragonfirez Dragonfirez
Kristina too many for this page!
01/11/2011
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
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Originally posted by Tori Rebel
Mine is kind of...well, sacrilegious. My boyfriend already knows about it and thinks it's great, it's just a matter of making it happen. I want to have sex in a Catholic Church. A dark one with lots of candles and that heady incense smell ... more
Ooooh that sounds nice.
01/11/2011
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
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Originally posted by Kristina Wright
Do they? I had no idea! I don't need a whole box, though... (I did publish a story about a woman who stole gloves to play with her boyfriend.)
Why not have a whole box? I've had my box of gloves for a few years now. Nice thing is they don't go bad, lol
01/11/2011
Contributor: bzzingbee bzzingbee
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Originally posted by Tori Rebel
Mine is kind of...well, sacrilegious. My boyfriend already knows about it and thinks it's great, it's just a matter of making it happen. I want to have sex in a Catholic Church. A dark one with lots of candles and that heady incense smell ... more
the scene sounds very dark and shadowy in a good way.
01/11/2011
Contributor: Jessica Elizabeth Jessica Elizabeth
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Originally posted by Tori Rebel
Mine is kind of...well, sacrilegious. My boyfriend already knows about it and thinks it's great, it's just a matter of making it happen. I want to have sex in a Catholic Church. A dark one with lots of candles and that heady incense smell ... more
Heh, my boyfriend had sex in a confessional when he was younger.
01/11/2011
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
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Originally posted by Sammi
The only fantasy that will actually happen is to do it against a large window in a hotel, where anyone *might* see us
Oooh, we've had sex outside and there was a BBQ next door... and yeah.
01/11/2011
Contributor: Tori Rebel Tori Rebel
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Originally posted by Jessica Elizabeth
Heh, my boyfriend had sex in a confessional when he was younger.
Jealous!
01/11/2011
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
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Originally posted by Kristina Wright
We've been talking a lot about anal sex (yay for butts!), but let's chat about Violet Blue's guide to sexual fantasy, too. It's a terrific conversation starter for lovers looking to explore their fantasies.

Any fantasies ... more
I am squirming to try out bondage in 2011. Sigel and I have some major trust issues in our relationship and the possibility of power play scares the shit outta me but turns me on frighteningly as well. So we are kinda flirting with the topic right now...
01/11/2011
Contributor: Emma (Girl With Fire) Emma (Girl With Fire)
The only fantasy I can come up with is having rough sex with a woman. I have had plenty with men but none with a woman.
01/11/2011
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
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Originally posted by Sammi
The only fantasy that will actually happen is to do it against a large window in a hotel, where anyone *might* see us
Ooh, that's another one of ours. We tried it out on the honeymoon. Our room had a gorgeous beachfront view, and was close enough that you could stand on the beach and see into our room. One afternoon we left the curtains open lol
01/11/2011
Contributor: Kristina Wright Kristina Wright
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Originally posted by Tori Rebel
Mine is kind of...well, sacrilegious. My boyfriend already knows about it and thinks it's great, it's just a matter of making it happen. I want to have sex in a Catholic Church. A dark one with lots of candles and that heady incense smell ... more
Oh wow... good luck with that! I do understand the appeal, though. The rituals, the stained glass, there is something about religion that strikes alone the same chord as sexuality.
01/11/2011
Contributor: Tori Rebel Tori Rebel
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Originally posted by bzzingbee
the scene sounds very dark and shadowy in a good way.
I just love all of the silent sacred-ness and all the dark gothic decadence of it. Apparently religious rites turn me on!
01/11/2011
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
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Originally posted by Airen Wolf
I am squirming to try out bondage in 2011. Sigel and I have some major trust issues in our relationship and the possibility of power play scares the shit outta me but turns me on frighteningly as well. So we are kinda flirting with the topic right ... more
I'd kinda love my boyfriend to spank me, but he won't.
I came from a really abusive relationship before him and used to fear him hitting me and cry.
I'm better now, had some therapy but he just doesn't wanna hit me.
I can't convince him that I trust him.
01/11/2011
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
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Originally posted by Illusional
My biggest one.
I really really really really wanna get the guts to be bold enough to like.. initiate/ravish him

It's so scary, I've literally thrown up thinking about it.
I'm so shy, and I can trust him but... I'm so... shy.
Start slow and with the lights off at first. Just get him nekkid and lay him down on the bed. Ask him not to move and then touch his body like you've always wanted to. You'll be wrestling him and ravishing him in no time!
01/11/2011
Contributor: Tori Rebel Tori Rebel
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Originally posted by Kristina Wright
Oh wow... good luck with that! I do understand the appeal, though. The rituals, the stained glass, there is something about religion that strikes alone the same chord as sexuality.
There might even be story potential in there somewhere LOL
01/11/2011
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
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Originally posted by Kristina Wright
Do they? I had no idea! I don't need a whole box, though... (I did publish a story about a woman who stole gloves to play with her boyfriend.)
They have small 10-15 glove boxes for people who do insulin injections...or kinky folk...
01/11/2011
Contributor: Kristina Wright Kristina Wright
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Originally posted by Jul!a
I want to try the dom/sub roles out. We've talked about it before, we just both feel really silly trying it out (even tho we know we shouldn't). I think also a big part of our unwillingness to try anything new right now is because since we ... more
I think having roommates, especially a parent, makes fantasy play a little difficult. But you could explore it in more subtle ways-- emails, text messages, a cuff bracelet worn in public that no one else will know what it means... Or check into a hotel and just "be" someone else for a night!
01/11/2011
Contributor: Alys Alys
I've been single for the last 2 years, so I would have to say that my fantasy for the year is to be in a relationship where I can let myself be who I am. I didn't feel comfortable with my ex to even hint at my fantasies with him.
01/11/2011
Contributor: Dragonfirez Dragonfirez
Doing it on the beach with a beautiful sunset. One day hopefully
01/11/2011
Contributor: LicentiouslyYours LicentiouslyYours
Woah! We lost internet and cable here for a few minutes, but I'm back now!

I see we hit 200 while I was away... woohoo!

This time, since we're so far past 200, the winner is the last person to post on page 7... Tori Rebel!

$25 gift card for you!
01/11/2011
Contributor: Alys Alys
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Originally posted by LicentiouslyYours
Woah! We lost internet and cable here for a few minutes, but I'm back now!

I see we hit 200 while I was away... woohoo!

This time, since we're so far past 200, the winner is the last person to post on page 7... Tori ... more
Congrats Tori!
01/11/2011
Contributor: bzzingbee bzzingbee
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Originally posted by LicentiouslyYours
Woah! We lost internet and cable here for a few minutes, but I'm back now!

I see we hit 200 while I was away... woohoo!

This time, since we're so far past 200, the winner is the last person to post on page 7... Tori ... more
Congrats Tori Rebel!
01/11/2011
Contributor: Emma (Girl With Fire) Emma (Girl With Fire)
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Originally posted by Tori Rebel
I just love all of the silent sacred-ness and all the dark gothic decadence of it. Apparently religious rites turn me on!
If you don't have sex in an actual church you can always throw up a few crosses and a ton of candles and incense somewhere in the house. It's not like there is any shortage of religious paraphernalia floating around the internet
01/11/2011
Contributor: staceejaxxx staceejaxxx
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Originally posted by LicentiouslyYours
Woah! We lost internet and cable here for a few minutes, but I'm back now!

I see we hit 200 while I was away... woohoo!

This time, since we're so far past 200, the winner is the last person to post on page 7... Tori ... more
Congrats, Tori!
01/11/2011
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
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Originally posted by Kristina Wright
I think having roommates, especially a parent, makes fantasy play a little difficult. But you could explore it in more subtle ways-- emails, text messages, a cuff bracelet worn in public that no one else will know what it means... Or check into a ... more
Hmm, I've never thought about a cuff or anything like that. I'm looking forward to experimenting when we have our own place.
01/11/2011
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
Congrats Tori!
01/11/2011