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Naked Reader Book Club Discussion: The Ultimate Guide to Sexual Fantasy and The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex (January 11, 7-11 EST)

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Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
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Originally posted by Illusional
I'm saving my JimmyJane candle for V-day with him.
Gah, everything you said made me nervous! lol
Start slow. You could even just hold hands and then slowly undress yourself with his hands over yours. There's no rush and anything you do will be super special to him...honey he knows how hard it is for you. He LOVES you.
01/11/2011
Contributor: staceejaxxx staceejaxxx
Y'all have some great ideas! I'm going to have to steal some of them!
01/11/2011
Contributor: Tori Rebel Tori Rebel
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Originally posted by Illusional
I do have a new bodywash, and a loofah.

I looove exfoliating!
I think I'll treat myself to a new thong or something.
Thanks!
See? A good exfoliation and maybe a nice scented moisturizer will make your skin feel yummy and shiny and new...what's better than that?
01/11/2011
Contributor: Alys Alys
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Originally posted by Illusional
Lol yeah, no t.v. until 10 either.
My parents would only let my sister and I watch public television, until our teens
01/11/2011
Contributor: Kristina Wright Kristina Wright
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Originally posted by Dragonfirez
Is there a way to keep that from happening.
A nice sturdy blanket or do it standing up (or in the lifeguard stand).
01/11/2011
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
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Originally posted by Tori Rebel
See? A good exfoliation and maybe a nice scented moisturizer will make your skin feel yummy and shiny and new...what's better than that?
I'm so nervous about the dress and heels dinner thing.
I am getting a dress like you guys suggested.

Wrap dress I think. I haven't picked a color yet.
01/11/2011
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
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Originally posted by staceejaxxx
Me too! I keep having to hide my screen from my son. Ugh!
I'm getting distracted by NCIS and talking with one friend about all the horrible things that can go wrong when I end up dragging my friend out of her house Friday to move her to her grantmother's to get her away from her asshole boyfriend. She set the date up and everything, but she's starting to back out and I'm ranting to another friend, lol
01/11/2011
Contributor: Jessica Elizabeth Jessica Elizabeth
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Originally posted by Alys
My parents would only let my sister and I watch public television, until our teens
Oh wow lol I always snuck to the tv after my mom went to bed and watch Red Shoe Diaries on ShoTime with the volume really really low. heh
01/11/2011
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
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Originally posted by bzzingbee
Airen, you have such great advice!
Unfortunately I have a sweet, loving scared to death and broken guy of my own. Actually most of the advice I gave was from him. He knows where Kira is, I know where her boyfriend is. It's so painful to watch but amazing when you know they are reaching out and trying so damn hard.
01/11/2011
Contributor: Kristina Wright Kristina Wright
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Originally posted by staceejaxxx
Y'all have some great ideas! I'm going to have to steal some of them!
Oh yeah!
01/11/2011
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
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Originally posted by Alys
My parents would only let my sister and I watch public television, until our teens
Man, I got none.

It sucked since everyone else in the house could watch t.v.
I had tons of books though.
Baby-sitter's Club and Goosebumps, whee!

Oh, and Choose your Own Adventure, lol
01/11/2011
Contributor: Dragonfirez Dragonfirez
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Originally posted by Kristina Wright
A nice sturdy blanket or do it standing up (or in the lifeguard stand).
Never thought of the lifeguard stand
01/11/2011
Contributor: Alys Alys
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Originally posted by Illusional
I'm so nervous about the dress and heels dinner thing.
I am getting a dress like you guys suggested.

Wrap dress I think. I haven't picked a color yet.
I really like bright jewel tones when I want to feel sexy. There's something about knowing you look good that makes you look even better
01/11/2011
Contributor: staceejaxxx staceejaxxx
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Originally posted by Jul!a
I'm getting distracted by NCIS and talking with one friend about all the horrible things that can go wrong when I end up dragging my friend out of her house Friday to move her to her grantmother's to get her away from her asshole boyfriend. ... more
I wanted to tell you congratulations on your marriage!

I keep getting distracted by my son and these people on tv making insect cakes! Very interesting! I don't think I would want to eat a spider cake. eeek!
01/11/2011
Contributor: Dragonfirez Dragonfirez
thanks Kristina
01/11/2011
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
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Originally posted by staceejaxxx
Y'all have some great ideas! I'm going to have to steal some of them!
These are some great ideas.

Hopefully the day before dinner I'm not having a melt down and spazzing out in a thread.
lol
01/11/2011
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
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Originally posted by staceejaxxx
I wanted to tell you congratulations on your marriage!

I keep getting distracted by my son and these people on tv making insect cakes! Very interesting! I don't think I would want to eat a spider cake. eeek!
Wait, with real bugs?
01/11/2011
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
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Originally posted by Alys
I really like bright jewel tones when I want to feel sexy. There's something about knowing you look good that makes you look even better
Are jewel tones like bright colors?
01/11/2011
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
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Originally posted by Illusional
Man, I got none.

It sucked since everyone else in the house could watch t.v.
I had tons of books though.
Baby-sitter's Club and Goosebumps, whee!

Oh, and Choose your Own Adventure, lol
Goosebumps was the shit! I had a ton of those books when I was younger, lol
01/11/2011
Contributor: Tori Rebel Tori Rebel
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Originally posted by Illusional
Man, I got none.

It sucked since everyone else in the house could watch t.v.
I had tons of books though.
Baby-sitter's Club and Goosebumps, whee!

Oh, and Choose your Own Adventure, lol
I still have my baby sitters club books, in a box in the back of my hall closest. They're pretty much the only thing I hung on to from my childhood.
01/11/2011
Contributor: staceejaxxx staceejaxxx
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Originally posted by Illusional
Wait, with real bugs?
Na, that would be really gross. They're actually in the shape of bugs! It's a very interesting show on the Food Network.
01/11/2011
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
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Originally posted by Tori Rebel
I still have my baby sitters club books, in a box in the back of my hall closest. They're pretty much the only thing I hung on to from my childhood.
Ann. M Martin has a Facebook and I sent her my old beaten up copy of "Kristy's Great Idea" and she signed it free of charge. She's pretty nice.
01/11/2011
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
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Originally posted by staceejaxxx
Na, that would be really gross. They're actually in the shape of bugs! It's a very interesting show on the Food Network.
Lol, okay whew.
I don't know if I could eat a bug cake either.
01/11/2011
Contributor: Sammi Sammi
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Originally posted by staceejaxxx
Na, that would be really gross. They're actually in the shape of bugs! It's a very interesting show on the Food Network.
I need to go find that
01/11/2011
Contributor: Alys Alys
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Originally posted by Illusional
Are jewel tones like bright colors?
Bright colors that are deeper, not like neons, but amethyst (purple), sapphire blue, emerald green, ruby red... all those
01/11/2011
Contributor: Kristina Wright Kristina Wright
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Originally posted by Tori Rebel
I still have my baby sitters club books, in a box in the back of my hall closest. They're pretty much the only thing I hung on to from my childhood.
Oh, I'm old, old, old. I have my Nancy Drew and Hardy Boys books!
01/11/2011
Contributor: Emma (Girl With Fire) Emma (Girl With Fire)
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Originally posted by Illusional
Man, I got none.

It sucked since everyone else in the house could watch t.v.
I had tons of books though.
Baby-sitter's Club and Goosebumps, whee!

Oh, and Choose your Own Adventure, lol
Yay for choose your own adventure
.....
Which gives me an idea.

You should write your own sexual choose your own adventure for how you think the night will go or how you want it too. Write things you think you can do and some you want to but are afraid to. That way when the night comes you will have all these options filed away mentally and can decide which path to go when you are in the moment.
01/11/2011
Contributor: staceejaxxx staceejaxxx
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Originally posted by Illusional
Lol, okay whew.
I don't know if I could eat a bug cake either.
And they're huge. Spiders/bugs and cake don't mix in my book. lol
01/11/2011
Contributor: Alys Alys
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Originally posted by Jul!a
Goosebumps was the shit! I had a ton of those books when I was younger, lol
I am still slightly afraid of garden gnomes after reading one of those!
01/11/2011
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
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Originally posted by Emma (Girl With Fire)
Yay for choose your own adventure
.....
Which gives me an idea.

You should write your own sexual choose your own adventure for how you think the night will go or how you want it too. Write things you think you can do and some you want to ... more
That's an excellent idea!
01/11/2011