The New Intimacy

EdenKink - Types of BDSM Relationships - Wednesday, November 16th, 2011 @ 8pm ET

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Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
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Originally posted by winterseve
Welcome SugarLips! Lots of good info in here. LOVE the openness- I am so glad I stumbled into Eden. I feel so much more free and comfortable.
we're glad to have you!
11/16/2011
Contributor: Tessa Taboo Tessa Taboo
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Originally posted by aliceinthehole
fisting! i it.

and double vag penetration. toy and tool. yes please.
Ohhhhh...... I haven't even thought about that in a long time.... it sounds kinda fun! Start small with a bullet maybe?
11/16/2011
Contributor: seaofneptune seaofneptune
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Originally posted by Rayne Millaray
Okay, y'all, tonight's discussion's been great. You've all been awesome, and I've had a great time. While I go find out who won the $50 gift card, why don't you guys do some of these things: a) Tell us something you'd like ... more
I had fun! This was my very first discussion! I will have to look into the Eden Gives Back - I haven't had a chance to do that yet either.
11/16/2011
Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
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Originally posted by Kitka
a) I think the next topic should be all about petplay, I'm very interested to learn more about that type of play/fetish/relationsh ip.
of course you are... you're a 'kitty'!
11/16/2011
Contributor: Antipova Antipova
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Originally posted by Antipova
Mine definitely did not have an age dynamic at all. I would describe it more as like a control/caretaker dynamic? Since he was in a different country, he would give me assorted tasks/assignments that I could do for him, and when I'd come back ... more
Also, Daddy/Daddy's little slut is less likely to have an age dynamic than a Daddy/Daddy's little girl, so you should probably keep asking some other folks before you feel like you've got a full definition!
11/16/2011
Contributor: Kitka Kitka
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Originally posted by aliceinthehole
of course you are... you're a 'kitty'!
*giggles* I've always been kind of cat-like
11/16/2011
Contributor: Jobthingy Jobthingy
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Originally posted by aliceinthehole
oh really>?


had no idea! *mischevious grin.
I chuckled here to myself mumbling "get out of my head woman!"
11/16/2011
Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
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Originally posted by Tessa Taboo
Ohhhhh...... I haven't even thought about that in a long time.... it sounds kinda fun! Start small with a bullet maybe?
sure if you like. for me, internal vibes do nothing. we started with bandito by fun factory (you can find it here) and his peen below. bandito's curve would get my g-spot and you'd be surprised how easily a turned-on flowerpot opens up! he slips in easily and it feels so good to be full!

with glass toys however it's not so fun. they're too hard and they can pinch.
11/16/2011
Contributor: AndroAngel AndroAngel
Thank you, guys, for answering my questions.

And as to the question of what to discuss next time, I agree, I'd like to discuss petplay, and something I'm more familiar with, animal play in general...
11/16/2011
Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
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Originally posted by Jobthingy
I chuckled here to myself mumbling "get out of my head woman!"
i know. i heard you do it.
11/16/2011
Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
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Originally posted by AndroAngel
Thank you, guys, for answering my questions.

And as to the question of what to discuss next time, I agree, I'd like to discuss petplay, and something I'm more familiar with, animal play in general...
furries!! never heard of them till EF.
11/16/2011
Contributor: SugarLips SugarLips
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Originally posted by aliceinthehole
fisting! i it.

and double vag penetration. toy and tool. yes please.
yeah double vag please!
11/16/2011
Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
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Originally posted by SugarLips
yeah double vag please!
have you ever done it with 2 guys? i saw on fetlife that it was kind of the 'norm' kind of double vag fetish... but i cant see how that could work. i mean... so much body would get in the way. on their end, that is.
11/16/2011
Contributor: Tessa Taboo Tessa Taboo
Quote:
Originally posted by aliceinthehole
sure if you like. for me, internal vibes do nothing. we started with bandito by fun factory (you can find it here) and his peen below. bandito's curve would get my g-spot and you'd be surprised how easily a turned-on flowerpot opens up! he ... more
I don't have any glass. Yet.
11/16/2011
Contributor: Antipova Antipova
So, I really love how active these meetings are, and all the new insights I've gotten. Thanks everybody, for asking questions and for answering'em!
11/16/2011
Contributor: AndroAngel AndroAngel
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Originally posted by aliceinthehole
furries!! never heard of them till EF.
Furries are cool. I'm still not sure if I count as a furry, myself, though. I'm a "human animal" I guess, but I'm not sure how the two things play into each other.
11/16/2011
Contributor: seaofneptune seaofneptune
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Originally posted by aliceinthehole
furries!! never heard of them till EF.
Really? I thought that was just a term on the internet. Though my room mate didn't know what a furry was until I explained it to her.
11/16/2011
Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
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Originally posted by Jobthingy
I chuckled here to myself mumbling "get out of my head woman!"
p.s. i'm now following you.
11/16/2011
Contributor: Rayne Millaray Rayne Millaray
We've got a winner!

The winner of this month's gift card is...

Taylor!

Drop me a line at rayne (at)edenfantasys[dot]com, and I'll get you the card out as soon as possible.

Listen, y'all, you've been awesome, and I'd love to stay and chat, but I'm filling in for Liz Langley at Sex Feed tonight while she's at her book signing, so I've gotta jet!

Thank you SO MUCH for coming. Hope to see you next month. And in between, too! Feel free to keep chatting amongst yourselves.

And don't forget! You can write about just about anything under the sun related to EdenKink (even what you've learned tonight!) and submit it to me (email address above) for a $10 gift card, and I'll publish it on the EdenCommunityClubs blog! Can't wait to read what you have to say!
11/16/2011
Contributor: Tessa Taboo Tessa Taboo
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Originally posted by aliceinthehole
have you ever done it with 2 guys? i saw on fetlife that it was kind of the 'norm' kind of double vag fetish... but i cant see how that could work. i mean... so much body would get in the way. on their end, that is.
I can't imagine it being that different than DP in the vag/anal sense.... it's only a few inches apart.....
11/16/2011
Contributor: Noira Noira
Maybe with the suggestions for kinky play to be discussed, we could have a discussion on sexual kinks in BDSM?

Sorry for disappearing. I did mention I was sick. My body decided to remind me of this fact.
11/16/2011
Contributor: Antipova Antipova
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Originally posted by aliceinthehole
have you ever done it with 2 guys? i saw on fetlife that it was kind of the 'norm' kind of double vag fetish... but i cant see how that could work. i mean... so much body would get in the way. on their end, that is.
Not that difficult... er, at least, it was intuitive from my perspective, and the men of the hour didn't waste any time trying to figure it out... ?
11/16/2011
Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
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Originally posted by Tessa Taboo
I don't have any glass. Yet.
i recommend the reflections cool for sure. my first glass piece had major bumps and spirals on it and they were too intense for me... bumps can get downright POKEY. i prefer smooth glass toys. but its all in the user!
11/16/2011
Contributor: AndroAngel AndroAngel
Bye, Rayne!
11/16/2011
Contributor: Antipova Antipova
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Originally posted by Antipova
Not that difficult... er, at least, it was intuitive from my perspective, and the men of the hour didn't waste any time trying to figure it out... ?
Sorry if TMI?
11/16/2011
Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
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Originally posted by Rayne Millaray
We've got a winner!

The winner of this month's gift card is...

Taylor!

Drop me a line at rayne (at)edenfantasys[dot]com, and I'll get you the card out as soon as possible.

Listen, y'all, you've been ... more
taylor! who is that? i havent noticed someone with that name posting tonight! or am i blind.
11/16/2011
Contributor: winterseve winterseve
bye Rayne! Thanks!
11/16/2011
Contributor: Kitka Kitka
Okay, I'm out of here too! It was great chatting with you all and answering questions. Feel free to add me on fetlife Profile Link and don't hesitate to ask me questions!
11/16/2011
Contributor: Kitka Kitka
Quote:
Originally posted by Rayne Millaray
We've got a winner!

The winner of this month's gift card is...

Taylor!

Drop me a line at rayne (at)edenfantasys[dot]com, and I'll get you the card out as soon as possible.

Listen, y'all, you've been ... more
Congrats Taylor and bye Rayne!
11/16/2011
Contributor: seaofneptune seaofneptune
Quote:
Originally posted by Rayne Millaray
We've got a winner!

The winner of this month's gift card is...

Taylor!

Drop me a line at rayne (at)edenfantasys[dot]com, and I'll get you the card out as soon as possible.

Listen, y'all, you've been ... more
Awesome! Congrats Taylor!!
11/16/2011