The New Intimacy

EdenKink - Types of BDSM Relationships - Wednesday, November 16th, 2011 @ 8pm ET

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Contributor: Jobthingy Jobthingy
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Originally posted by Rayne Millaray
So what do you think, guys? Have we covered them all, or have we missed something?
I haven't a clue but I find it all really fascinating.
11/16/2011
Contributor: Noira Noira
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Originally posted by Kitka
What about Daddy/girl relationships?
Daddy/girl, Mommy/boy, Daddy/boy, Mommy/girl relationships are an extension of D/s that involves roleplay with one member of the relationship as a little... but I think it still falls into the D/s side of things because it's a mindset lifestyle just with the addition of a roleplay kink.
11/16/2011
Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
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Originally posted by Noira
Rigid just makes me think of glass dildos... CRAP. DISTRACTED. CRAP.
haha! btw, the new doc johnson's reflections cool is awesome. i just DRd it and its my new baby.


link
11/16/2011
Contributor: Serenesub Serenesub
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Originally posted by Noira
Daddy/girl, Mommy/boy, Daddy/boy, Mommy/girl relationships are an extension of D/s that involves roleplay with one member of the relationship as a little... but I think it still falls into the D/s side of things because it's a mindset lifestyle ... more
Exactly! I was just trying to word it properly!
11/16/2011
Contributor: Rayne Millaray Rayne Millaray
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Originally posted by aliceinthehole
having grown up in a physically, emotionally, and as recent therapy has pulled out, possibly sexually abusive home, i dont think i could ever consent to submitting to physical force.

i'd have to be VERY healed from all that before that ... more
And see, after my past, I've gone the other way. There's something to be said for having control over it. Of course, I don't have control over it anymore. But that's the way I like it.
11/16/2011
Contributor: Tessa Taboo Tessa Taboo
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Originally posted by aliceinthehole
haha! btw, the new doc johnson's reflections cool is awesome. i just DRd it and its my new baby.


link
WANT!
11/16/2011
Contributor: Dusk Dusk
All righty, I've gotta go do some work-related stuff. I'll talk to you all again soon!
11/16/2011
Contributor: Vanille Vanille
Just throwing it out there if anyone else would like a petplay relationship from a f/f standpoint, Feel free to message me anytime. I love talking about it and 'edumacating' -grins-
11/16/2011
Contributor: Noira Noira
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Originally posted by aliceinthehole
haha! btw, the new doc johnson's reflections cool is awesome. i just DRd it and its my new baby.


link
So... pretty...

(MESMERIZED)

So what's the pluggy thing sticking out of the bottom for?
11/16/2011
Contributor: Kitka Kitka
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Originally posted by Serenesub
Exactly! I was just trying to word it properly!
Oh I gotcha, okay, thanks!
11/16/2011
Contributor: Serenesub Serenesub
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Originally posted by Tessa Taboo
WANT!
I've had bad luck with doc johnson toys but that one looks really good!
11/16/2011
Contributor: AndroAngel AndroAngel
Bye, Dusk.
11/16/2011
Contributor: Rayne Millaray Rayne Millaray
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Originally posted by AndroAngel
What about Switch/Switch relationships?
That is definitely a good one! What about switches, y'all? What do these relationships look like?
11/16/2011
Contributor: Antipova Antipova
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Originally posted by aliceinthehole
haha! btw, the new doc johnson's reflections cool is awesome. i just DRd it and its my new baby.


link
I like how it looks just like my new wooden baby: link
11/16/2011
Contributor: seaofneptune seaofneptune
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Originally posted by Dusk
All righty, I've gotta go do some work-related stuff. I'll talk to you all again soon!
Bye Dusk!
11/16/2011
Contributor: Rayne Millaray Rayne Millaray
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Originally posted by Noira
Daddy/girl, Mommy/boy, Daddy/boy, Mommy/girl relationships are an extension of D/s that involves roleplay with one member of the relationship as a little... but I think it still falls into the D/s side of things because it's a mindset lifestyle ... more
These are excellent suggestions, too! What would a parent/child dynamic between consenting adults look like to you?
11/16/2011
Contributor: Serenesub Serenesub
Hmm. To me they look like all of them combined.
11/16/2011
Contributor: Rayne Millaray Rayne Millaray
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Originally posted by Dusk
All righty, I've gotta go do some work-related stuff. I'll talk to you all again soon!
Have a great night, Dusk! Hope to see you next month!
11/16/2011
Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
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Originally posted by Noira
So... pretty...

(MESMERIZED)

So what's the pluggy thing sticking out of the bottom for?
its a retrieval cord. and good for using it as a christmas tree ornament.
11/16/2011
Contributor: Tessa Taboo Tessa Taboo
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Originally posted by Rayne Millaray
That is definitely a good one! What about switches, y'all? What do these relationships look like?
Now, this is something I'm particularly curious about.
11/16/2011
Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
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Originally posted by Vanille
Just throwing it out there if anyone else would like a petplay relationship from a f/f standpoint, Feel free to message me anytime. I love talking about it and 'edumacating' -grins-
may *grin* back at you.
11/16/2011
Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
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Originally posted by Antipova
I like how it looks just like my new wooden baby: link
oh yeah, saw the pic last night that you took of it. that was a great set of photos, btw.
11/16/2011
Contributor: Noira Noira
Quote:
Originally posted by Vanille
Just throwing it out there if anyone else would like a petplay relationship from a f/f standpoint, Feel free to message me anytime. I love talking about it and 'edumacating' -grins-
I should talk to you sometime. You just existing makes me a bit happier because I know I'm not in a hopeless cause. ^_^
11/16/2011
Contributor: AndroAngel AndroAngel
Switch/Switch relationships can take many forms, really. You have the type I have with my lover, where one of us or the other will take the Dominant and submissive role depending on mood, but you also have the type where a switch will be in a relationship with a Dom and a sub at the same time, or those switches who are dominant or submissive depending on who they're with.
11/16/2011
Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
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Originally posted by Rayne Millaray
These are excellent suggestions, too! What would a parent/child dynamic between consenting adults look like to you?
i don't know... but i do know that my boy and i use the term 'mommy' to refer to me in bed alot...


and we used to use the term 'daddy' to refer to him (all this was initiated by me, btw) until he used it himself to say something like 'fuck daddy good.' and that was the end of it. major daddy issues, this girl. esp. surrounding sex.

so i think we're dabbling in some of that there, haven't found our place, nor have we fully explored it yet.
11/16/2011
Contributor: seaofneptune seaofneptune
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Originally posted by Rayne Millaray
That is definitely a good one! What about switches, y'all? What do these relationships look like?
I'm guessing that is where the two sides switch occasionally - instead of being in a strict D/s or Master/slave relationship.

That is how my partner and I started out until we settled into the comfort of the roles. At first, I wasn't sure about switching because I thought that the BDSM community looked down on switch relationships for some reason. So I thought we were supposed to automatically fall into our roles while we were experimenting with BDSM in the beginning and that made it awkward at first. Now we are mostly D/s unless he asks me to take control every once in a while.
11/16/2011
Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
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Originally posted by AndroAngel
Switch/Switch relationships can take many forms, really. You have the type I have with my lover, where one of us or the other will take the Dominant and submissive role depending on mood, but you also have the type where a switch will be in a ... more
what about days when you both want to be dominant? or both submissive? how does that work out.
11/16/2011
Contributor: Rayne Millaray Rayne Millaray
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Originally posted by AndroAngel
Switch/Switch relationships can take many forms, really. You have the type I have with my lover, where one of us or the other will take the Dominant and submissive role depending on mood, but you also have the type where a switch will be in a ... more
I'm so glad you're here to talk about this. Even though I sometimes enjoy topping women, switches confuse me cause we're all so different!
11/16/2011
Contributor: Serenesub Serenesub
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Originally posted by aliceinthehole
what about days when you both want to be dominant? or both submissive? how does that work out.
For me when I dabbled in it we either took turns throughout the day or we just dropped it for that day so we didn't get upset.
11/16/2011
Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
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Originally posted by seaofneptune
I'm guessing that is where the two sides switch occasionally - instead of being in a strict D/s or Master/slave relationship.

That is how my partner and I started out until we settled into the comfort of the roles. At first, I wasn't ... more
interesting you should say the BDSM community looks down on switches. reminds me of the stigmas against bi folks in the LGBT community.
11/16/2011