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Eden Kink - Basics of BDSM Discussion February 16th at 8 PM EST

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Contributor: VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
Are you knowledgeable in the realm of BDSM? Or are you new and wanting to explore this lifestyle many of us have grown accustomed to?

The purpose of this club is for those of us, experience and new, to share our thoughts, feelings, and experiences with BDSM. For those who are new to the BDSM lifestyle, this is going to be an opportunity for you to learn a few things from BDSM toys to protocols and even a bit about some of the relationships that evolve in this lifestyle. The aim is to teach and expand upon experience for all and no one is excluded.

Our first discussion is going to be very basic and just about BDSM in general. During this discussion we are going to discuss topics for future meetings that would like to be touched on specifically. Make sure you mark your calendar for Wednesday February 16, 2011 at 8PM EST!
02/14/2011
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Contributor: VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
Bumping this up a bit.
02/14/2011
Contributor: BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
ooooh I was DYING to know whose club this was!
02/14/2011
Contributor: VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
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Originally posted by BBW Talks Toys
ooooh I was DYING to know whose club this was!
Tis mine, darling. Does this mean you'll come?
02/14/2011
Contributor: BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
Quote:
Originally posted by VieuxCarre
Tis mine, darling. Does this mean you'll come?
Probably! I think there's a meeting every night this week! lol!
02/14/2011
Contributor: Dusk Dusk
Oh man, I won't be in town for this! Damn, I would have loved to participate. Next time, perhaps?
02/15/2011
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
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Originally posted by BBW Talks Toys
Probably! I think there's a meeting every night this week! lol!
Except Friday I think
02/15/2011
Contributor: UrNaughtyaAngel UrNaughtyaAngel
I am very curious about BDSM I will do my best to be here.
02/15/2011
Contributor: VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
I hope you can make it UrNaughtyaAngel!
02/15/2011
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
ARUGH! Why are they always at night? A lot of us who are into BDSM are also in D/s or M/s relationships and our Doms want us with them in the evening. I will probably miss it, although I'd be there if it was during the day.
02/15/2011
Contributor: BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
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Originally posted by P'Gell
ARUGH! Why are they always at night? A lot of us who are into BDSM are also in D/s or M/s relationships and our Doms want us with them in the evening. I will probably miss it, although I'd be there if it was during the day.
I can see how this is frustrating. I know for me, since I have small children who demand my attention, and have lots of housework to do, I can come to the computer for 5-10 minutes here and there, and then have to go back to what I'm doing. So after bedtime it's easier.

I would imagine that most people here work for a living too and are not around all day. This also makes it hard for people to do, since it's a website that's likely blocked on the company's computer (not to mention unprofessional to attend a sex community meeting while at work).
02/15/2011
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
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Originally posted by P'Gell
ARUGH! Why are they always at night? A lot of us who are into BDSM are also in D/s or M/s relationships and our Doms want us with them in the evening. I will probably miss it, although I'd be there if it was during the day.
Ask him to sit in with you! His imput would be rather invaluable wouldn't it?
This is an amazing idea VieuxCarre. I'll be dragging Sigel to the meeting.
02/15/2011
Contributor: VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
Quote:
Originally posted by P'Gell
ARUGH! Why are they always at night? A lot of us who are into BDSM are also in D/s or M/s relationships and our Doms want us with them in the evening. I will probably miss it, although I'd be there if it was during the day.
I would do it during the day but I can't with school. I'll try to plan the next one during the day if it's possibly. My schedule doesn't allow a whole lot of flexibility though.

Sorry
02/15/2011
Contributor: El-Jaro El-Jaro
That's the nice thing about having them on the forums, it's totally possible to keep them going after the allotted time...for weeks even
02/15/2011
Contributor: Taylor Taylor
I'll be working then but I'll definitely be reading the thread afterwards. I'm very new to BDSM and would like to know more about it.
02/15/2011
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
Quote:
Originally posted by VieuxCarre
I would do it during the day but I can't with school. I'll try to plan the next one during the day if it's possibly. My schedule doesn't allow a whole lot of flexibility though.

Sorry
It's OK. I understand. I know you're doing what you can. I can read it later.

Airen, I wish he would. He does not have the attention span to sit at the computer for any "social" activities. *sigh* It's work related stuff, news or quick porn shots. That's his internet quota. It's quite frustrating.
02/15/2011
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
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Originally posted by El-Jaro
That's the nice thing about having them on the forums, it's totally possible to keep them going after the allotted time...for weeks even
I'll definitely read this one after it's on.
02/15/2011
Contributor: MsShadiggy MsShadiggy
Quote:
Originally posted by VieuxCarre
Are you knowledgeable in the realm of BDSM? Or are you new and wanting to explore this lifestyle many of us have grown accustomed to?The purpose of this club is for those of us, experience and new, to share our thoughts, feelings, and experiences ... more
As they say "curiosity killed the cat" and I am really looking forward to this. I have always been interested in BDSM.
02/15/2011
Contributor: Mr.Skillfu Mr.Skillfu
I will be there with bells on...i live for this
02/15/2011
Contributor: VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
Tomorrow night is coming quickly! I'm rather excited about this
02/16/2011
Contributor: BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
TONIGHT! And... BUMP!
02/16/2011
Contributor: VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
Woo! Less than 12 hours until the discussion tonight! I'm nervous and getting all of my studying done ahead of time for my test tomorrow so I can devote myself to you lovely people
02/16/2011
Contributor: namelesschaos namelesschaos
I'll try to get my homework done fast so I can make it to this one.
02/16/2011
Contributor: Autumn Brent Autumn Brent
Okay so I've been trying to figure this out for a while now, how do you join clubs?
02/16/2011
Contributor: El-Jaro El-Jaro
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Originally posted by Autumn Brent
Okay so I've been trying to figure this out for a while now, how do you join clubs?
Just show up
02/16/2011
Contributor: VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
Quote:
Originally posted by Autumn Brent
Okay so I've been trying to figure this out for a while now, how do you join clubs?
Just show up at the time the discussion starts and you're in That's all!
02/16/2011
Contributor: VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
Also, let me break down the times for those who don't live on the East Coast (such as myself).

The time is set for 8 PM EST (Eastern Standard Time). This translates to the following times across the country:

7 PM CST (Central Standard Time)
6 PM MNT (Mountain Time)
5 PM PST (Pacific Standard Time)

If I got the abbreviations wrong forgive me, that that's the breakdown across the nation so there is no confusion. Also, I will be here after the end of the discussion at 9 PM EST to answer questions and such and my inbox is always open
02/16/2011
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
Ooh, I'm excited!
02/16/2011
Contributor: BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
Five hours!
02/16/2011
Contributor: Gary Gary
I won't be home tonight, but I am gonna try to pop in via Blackberry.
02/16/2011