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Eden Kink - Basics of BDSM Discussion February 16th at 8 PM EST

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Contributor: Sysiphe Sysiphe
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Originally posted by VieuxCarre
I was waiting for you to throw some topics out there, love
Lighting people on fire!
02/16/2011
Contributor: Persephone Nightmare Persephone Nightmare
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Originally posted by VieuxCarre
I was going to add that but my clicking is faster than my brain.
It's all good
02/16/2011
Contributor: VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
Quote:
Originally posted by Sysiphe
Lighting people on fire!
Yes please!
02/16/2011
Contributor: BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
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Originally posted by Sysiphe
Lighting people on fire!
Something tells me that in this forum, that is unique to you. But who knows?!
02/16/2011
Contributor: BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
Quote:
Originally posted by VieuxCarre
Yes please!
Maybe not
02/16/2011
Contributor: VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
Quote:
Originally posted by Sysiphe
Lighting people on fire!
Just a side note, fire play is a type of play that involves using fire for sensation. We're not lighting people on fire or setting them a blaze. That's dangerous and not safe.
02/16/2011
Contributor: LadyAurora LadyAurora
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Originally posted by Sysiphe
Lighting people on fire!
This is kind of where my suggestion of different kinds of play came from.
02/16/2011
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
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Originally posted by Sysiphe
I can make a *lot* of noise through a ballgag

Sam (aka Jul!a): do you like taking orders? If so, would it work if your partner ordered you to keep quite (perhaps on threat of either punishment or stopping if you can't)?
We're not very heavily into anything, we're both a bit curious about "the lifestyle." We've both tried giving orders to the other, but after about 10 minutes we lose confidence in trying to keep that up.

We don't really have issues with having to keep our moans and groans down since we're also not very loud by nature.

In short, I guess it wouldn't really do anything one way or the other, lol
02/16/2011
Contributor: Sysiphe Sysiphe
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Originally posted by VieuxCarre
Pff, you make a lot of noise with tape over your mouth. Not that I would know or anything.
You may be confusing me with another super hot redhead. I don't do mouth-taping. (Now, having his hand shoved halfway down my throat...)
02/16/2011
Contributor: BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
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Originally posted by Sysiphe
Lighting people on fire!
Look Tim! A suggestion for YOU!
02/16/2011
Contributor: Nullmoniker Nullmoniker
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Originally posted by ~LaUr3n~
Oh of course! I understand that.

There is an "official/traditional" way to do most things. For example... rules to a sports game. Does everyone follow them? Of course not. People who consider themselves corset fanatics have rules ... more
There really is none. If you are a leatherman, you might follow some of the Old Guard traditions, but even those vary greatly from city to city. If you are a fan of Gor, you would follow those ideals. Communities define protocols. Your community may be a city full of people or it may be the people in your bedroom.

Also, remember that not everyone has a power exchange dynamic and that does not make their relationship less than someone who is in an D/s relationship.

BDSM is a catch all phrase for what it is that we do. It covers everythingkinky. Not just power dynamics.
02/16/2011
Contributor: VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
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Originally posted by BBW Talks Toys
Something tells me that in this forum, that is unique to you. But who knows?!
It's not setting people ablaze. It's just using fire for sensation. It takes practice and training to get used to using fire on people.
02/16/2011
Contributor: UrNaughtyaAngel UrNaughtyaAngel
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Originally posted by Jul!a
That could definitely work!

Or like, my husband and I live with my mom while we're saving up for a house, her room is down the hall and she's not deaf by any stretch of the means.
Lol, sorry but lol but just the way you phrase it sweetie. Oh I can't imagine really enjoying sex in the same house with mom around. Then again I am single so maybe if I was married it would be different.
02/16/2011
Contributor: VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
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Originally posted by Sysiphe
You may be confusing me with another super hot redhead. I don't do mouth-taping. (Now, having his hand shoved halfway down my throat...)
Oh that's what it was. The tape was for the staples.
02/16/2011
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
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Originally posted by UrNaughtyaAngel
Lol, sorry but lol but just the way you phrase it sweetie. Oh I can't imagine really enjoying sex in the same house with mom around. Then again I am single so maybe if I was married it would be different.
We've gotten over it. It's better since my sister moved out since she'd try to come barging in sometimes without thinking about it, lol.
02/16/2011
Contributor: Sysiphe Sysiphe
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Originally posted by VieuxCarre
It's not setting people ablaze. It's just using fire for sensation. It takes practice and training to get used to using fire on people.
I actually do set people ablaze... But after lots of practice/study/plannin g/care. Fireplay is kinda my specialty in the kink world.
02/16/2011
Contributor: ~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
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Originally posted by Nullmoniker
There really is none. If you are a leatherman, you might follow some of the Old Guard traditions, but even those vary greatly from city to city. If you are a fan of Gor, you would follow those ideals. Communities define protocols. Your community ... more
Your first paragraph sounds so interesting! Maybe a good history lesson in it would satisfy my curiosity about "tradition".
02/16/2011
Contributor: VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
And that's a wrap, guys. Thank you all for participating in the discussion tonight and I have a log of all of the discussion topics to keep in mind for the future.

If you have any questions, feel free to send them to my inbox or post them here. I will check this later when I get home, but for now I need to sign off and get some studying done for statistics after getting some dinner.

Thank you all! I hope you enjoyed this as much as I did!
02/16/2011
Contributor: BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
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Originally posted by ~LaUr3n~
Your first paragraph sounds so interesting! Maybe a good history lesson in it would satisfy my curiosity about "tradition".
Another TOPIC!
02/16/2011
Contributor: UrNaughtyaAngel UrNaughtyaAngel
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Originally posted by LadyAurora
A jackwagon is basically a jerk.
thanks for answering me sweetie, I take it back I am no jackwagon.
02/16/2011
Contributor: BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
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Originally posted by VieuxCarre
And that's a wrap, guys. Thank you all for participating in the discussion tonight and I have a log of all of the discussion topics to keep in mind for the future.

If you have any questions, feel free to send them to my inbox or post them ... more
Thank YOU!
02/16/2011
Contributor: shrtnsweet shrtnsweet
thank for a great discussion!!! glad I caught this one!!! cannot wait for the next one!!!
02/16/2011
Contributor: Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
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Originally posted by VieuxCarre
And that's a wrap, guys. Thank you all for participating in the discussion tonight and I have a log of all of the discussion topics to keep in mind for the future.

If you have any questions, feel free to send them to my inbox or post them ... more
Thanks for hosting!
02/16/2011
Contributor: ValuptuousVirgo ValuptuousVirgo
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Originally posted by BBW Talks Toys
Thank YOU!
that was fun!
02/16/2011
Contributor: LadyAurora LadyAurora
Thank [i]you[/i]!
02/16/2011
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
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Originally posted by VieuxCarre
And that's a wrap, guys. Thank you all for participating in the discussion tonight and I have a log of all of the discussion topics to keep in mind for the future.

If you have any questions, feel free to send them to my inbox or post them ... more
Thank you very much for hosting this for us
02/16/2011
Contributor: Persephone Nightmare Persephone Nightmare
Quote:
Originally posted by VieuxCarre
And that's a wrap, guys. Thank you all for participating in the discussion tonight and I have a log of all of the discussion topics to keep in mind for the future.

If you have any questions, feel free to send them to my inbox or post them ... more
Thanks for hosting this! I think it's uber awesome and will be a great, especially for new kinks, but even seasoned ones too

The only thing that stinks is I didn't get to "meet" your Sir But it's alright I'm sure I'll get to sometime
02/16/2011
Contributor: Sysiphe Sysiphe
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Originally posted by ~LaUr3n~
Your first paragraph sounds so interesting! Maybe a good history lesson in it would satisfy my curiosity about "tradition".
I know this is supposed to be over, but... Wikipedia has a decentish article ("Leather subculture")
02/16/2011
Contributor: ~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
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Originally posted by BBW Talks Toys
Another TOPIC!
I second that!
02/16/2011
Contributor: ~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
Quote:
Originally posted by Sysiphe
I know this is supposed to be over, but... Wikipedia has a decentish article ("Leather subculture")
Thanks for the info!
02/16/2011