My formatting skills aren't that great, so I'm going to start the first topic of the night.

BASIC ROLES IN BDSM

Dominant: The person in control of a standard D/s relationship, usually in a position of power over a submissive(s)

Submissive: Person who submits or yields to a Dominant in a D/s relationship.

Top: Someone who enjoys dominating a person during a play session, but isn't necessarily interested in living the D/s lifestyle

Bottom: Someone who enjoys submitting to a person during a play session, but isn't necessarily interested in living the D/s lifestyle

Switch: An individual who has both Dominant and submissive qualities and enjoys playing on both ends of the spectrum.

Kinkster: Individual who has an interested in BDSM play but isn't necessarily interested in living the BDSM lifestyle. Mostly people who identify as tops, bottoms, or bedroom players only.

Which do you identify as? Where do you feel you fit in this spectrum, if you feel you fit these definitions at all? Are any of you involved in D/s relationships? Bedroom relationships? less

My formatting skills aren't that great, so I'm going to start the first topic of the night.

BASIC ROLES IN BDSM

Dominant: The person in control of a standard D/s relationship, usually in a position of power over a submissive(s)

Submissive: Person who submits or yields to a Dominant in a D/s relationship.

Top: Someone who enjoys dominating a person during a play session, but isn't necessarily interested in living the D/s lifestyle

Bottom: Someone who enjoys submitting to a person during a play session, but isn't necessarily interested in living the D/s lifestyle

Switch: An individual who has both Dominant and submissive qualities and enjoys playing on both ends of the spectrum.

Kinkster: Individual who has an interested in BDSM play but isn't necessarily interested in living the BDSM lifestyle. Mostly people who identify as tops, bottoms, or bedroom players only.

Which do you identify as? Where do you feel you fit in this spectrum, if you feel you fit these definitions at all? Are any of you involved in D/s relationships? Bedroom relationships? less

My formatting skills aren't that great, so I'm going to start the first topic of the night.

BASIC ROLES IN BDSM

Dominant: The person in control of a standard D/s relationship, usually in a position of power over a submissive(s)

Submissive: Person who submits or yields to a Dominant in a D/s relationship.

Top: Someone who enjoys dominating a person during a play session, but isn't necessarily interested in living the D/s lifestyle

Bottom: Someone who enjoys submitting to a person during a play session, but isn't necessarily interested in living the D/s lifestyle

Switch: An individual who has both Dominant and submissive qualities and enjoys playing on both ends of the spectrum.

Kinkster: Individual who has an interested in BDSM play but isn't necessarily interested in living the BDSM lifestyle. Mostly people who identify as tops, bottoms, or bedroom players only.

Which do you identify as? Where do you feel you fit in this spectrum, if you feel you fit these definitions at all? Are any of you involved in D/s relationships? Bedroom relationships? less

My formatting skills aren't that great, so I'm going to start the first topic of the night.

BASIC ROLES IN BDSM

Dominant: The person in control of a standard D/s relationship, usually in a position of power over a submissive(s)

Submissive: Person who submits or yields to a Dominant in a D/s relationship.

Top: Someone who enjoys dominating a person during a play session, but isn't necessarily interested in living the D/s lifestyle

Bottom: Someone who enjoys submitting to a person during a play session, but isn't necessarily interested in living the D/s lifestyle

Switch: An individual who has both Dominant and submissive qualities and enjoys playing on both ends of the spectrum.

Kinkster: Individual who has an interested in BDSM play but isn't necessarily interested in living the BDSM lifestyle. Mostly people who identify as tops, bottoms, or bedroom players only.

Which do you identify as? Where do you feel you fit in this spectrum, if you feel you fit these definitions at all? Are any of you involved in D/s relationships? Bedroom relationships? less

My formatting skills aren't that great, so I'm going to start the first topic of the night.

BASIC ROLES IN BDSM

Dominant: The person in control of a standard D/s relationship, usually in a position of power over a submissive(s)

Submissive: Person who submits or yields to a Dominant in a D/s relationship.

Top: Someone who enjoys dominating a person during a play session, but isn't necessarily interested in living the D/s lifestyle

Bottom: Someone who enjoys submitting to a person during a play session, but isn't necessarily interested in living the D/s lifestyle

Switch: An individual who has both Dominant and submissive qualities and enjoys playing on both ends of the spectrum.

Kinkster: Individual who has an interested in BDSM play but isn't necessarily interested in living the BDSM lifestyle. Mostly people who identify as tops, bottoms, or bedroom players only.

Which do you identify as? Where do you feel you fit in this spectrum, if you feel you fit these definitions at all? Are any of you involved in D/s relationships? Bedroom relationships? less

My formatting skills aren't that great, so I'm going to start the first topic of the night.

BASIC ROLES IN BDSM

Dominant: The person in control of a standard D/s relationship, usually in a position of power over a submissive(s)

Submissive: Person who submits or yields to a Dominant in a D/s relationship.

Top: Someone who enjoys dominating a person during a play session, but isn't necessarily interested in living the D/s lifestyle

Bottom: Someone who enjoys submitting to a person during a play session, but isn't necessarily interested in living the D/s lifestyle

Switch: An individual who has both Dominant and submissive qualities and enjoys playing on both ends of the spectrum.

Kinkster: Individual who has an interested in BDSM play but isn't necessarily interested in living the BDSM lifestyle. Mostly people who identify as tops, bottoms, or bedroom players only.

Which do you identify as? Where do you feel you fit in this spectrum, if you feel you fit these definitions at all? Are any of you involved in D/s relationships? Bedroom relationships? less

That's the beauty of BDSM. You don't have to fit a cookie cutter mold of anything.

While there are definitions of different roles in BDSM, there isn't ONE RIGHT WAY TO DO IT. If anyone ever tells you that, they're wrong. BDSM is what you make of it and however you feel you fit into it is how you fit into it.

You don't have to be just one thing less

Living the lifestyle goes beyond just playing. I'm a submissive and Sir and I don't just play. I also perform acts of service for him that has me in submission to him at all times even when I'm not with him.

But, that's my definition of "living the lifestyle." There isn't really one way to do it as I said before, though. less

Living the lifestyle goes beyond just playing. I'm a submissive and Sir and I don't just play. I also perform acts of service for him that has me in submission to him at all times even when I'm not with him.

But, that's my definition of "living the lifestyle." There isn't really one way to do it as I said before, though. less

Living the lifestyle goes beyond just playing. I'm a submissive and Sir and I don't just play. I also perform acts of service for him that has me in submission to him at all times even when I'm not with him.

But, that's my definition of "living the lifestyle." There isn't really one way to do it as I said before, though. less

Living the lifestyle goes beyond just playing. I'm a submissive and Sir and I don't just play. I also perform acts of service for him that has me in submission to him at all times even when I'm not with him.

But, that's my definition of "living the lifestyle." There isn't really one way to do it as I said before, though. less

I dislike when people tell others "This is what you are and you have to stick with it." That's absolutely not the case.

I have switch tendencies and the night that Sir met me I was actually beating two men in a public space. I'm a submissive with switch tendencies and that makes it a little more fun to be versatile. less