i lost my "virginity" to a boy when i was 17 but i was 12 when i started having sex with girls.

21 to my ex-wife

i was 16, and not the most romanitc way

I lost my virginity at 14 to my first boyfriend, a week or two after we had technically split up, owing partly to both of our parents bitching about the age difference (he was a month away from turning 18.) We had fooled around a little while we were dating, but I didn't actually get the courage to give him a blowjob until the night we split up and decided just to be friends with benefits. The relationship itself was pretty casual to begin with, no serious feelings, just mutual attraction. I went to hang out with him one day over the Thanksgiving break, we started fooling around, and we ended up having sex. Anal sex, actually. He was a bit nervous about breaking-my-hymen-taki ng-my-virginity (although it was probably broken years before) or possibly getting me pregnant, due to the age difference, and loved anal anyway. I had no objections to anal, and did it gladly. It actually felt pretty good. Then we went bowling with friends, haha. The really funny part is it was the first time I went bowling, too. We hooked up off and on for a few months, but we didn't have vaginal sex for the first few times. When we did, it didn't hurt but it didn't feel great either, and the only regret I have about that 'first time' is not getting on top when he suggested it, haha. I wasn't sure what I should do if I did, so we stuck to positions where he was in control.
The biggest reason for me not regretting losing my virginity so young by having non-romantic anal sex with a guy I had no real feelings for is this - a few months later I wound up in a sexual relationship with a good male friend (also almost 18) and his girlfriend, who I had known in jr high but hadn't seen in a couple years, which was amazing and taught me so much about what I enjoy sexually. This probably wouldn't have happened if I were a virgin, it started off as another friends with benefits situation, he liked me and his girlfriend (they were semi-long distance at the time) did too, so she approved of him being with me even when she wasn't there. He didn't want to take my virginity in a situation like that. The two of them are still together, and we are still really good friends. Hell, they drove 9+ hours on a whim so he could hang out with me one night when my ex was working overnight and he knew I would be alone and bored all night. Never got a better surprise than him calling me after I got off work asking which apartment was mine, because he was outside and it was cold.

I consider my true "first time" as being at 17, (When I was already a sophomore in college. But I voted as 15...because I fail at reading *facepalm*

13; after being pleasured for a long time lingually, it took a few times to work out the fit.

The first guy I had sex with was so small (diameter and length) that my hymen was never actually torn... Then about 6 months later I had sex with another guy who was MUCH bigger that all of a sudden I was in pain and bleeding. D: It was not fun. But at least I got to say I lost my virginity twice!

Back room of a laundromat during business hours with an 18 year old while on a church trip to the Jersey shore. Real story. Swear on it.

we where both 16.

I was 13, my girfriend was 12! I was already a pervert at 13? We dated for four wonderful years. Our first few experiences were naturally awkward, I remember thinking "this isn't all that it's cracked up to be". However, within a short time we found that practice makes perfect and I was very eager to make it to Carnegie Hall.

30+

18, in college and I wish I could redo it. Live and learn.

Still have mine. I'm rather love-shy, and have only been in two or three very short, awkward relationships that never got past kissing. Thank goodness for sex toys - they help to keep my single life interesting!

Shortly after I turned 18... xD Feels like such a *normal* age to lose it in this society. It was awkward as hell but I'm still friends with my first, which I find quite impressive. :3 We weren't for a while because we had tried to make it a relationship when we were better off being friends with benefits. XD

I was fourteen almost fifteen and had a seventeen year old boyfriend.

My first time, I was 18 years old.

It was with my current partner. It wasn't anything real special hurt a little but he was very gentle and made sure I was ok.

I can't remember if I was 20 or 21 but it was around there. It wasn't that great, I remember being a little disappointed.

I was a month over 18, and had been on the pill for about 3 weeks. I was terrified of sex, but when I met my husband, who was 12 years older and previously married, I found someone that I trusted and wanted to explore sex with. He knew I was scared of getting pregnant, and so we waited until I could get myself on bc, and then we used condoms for quite awhile before trusting the pill.

When I technically lost my virginity, it was one time penetration and then over. It was in complete darkness, we had a towel spread out for any bleeding, and it was slow and experimental, because we just wanted to break the hymen and stop, since it was incredibly painful for me. After that, our real first time was romantic, slow and incredibly loving. I was glad I had waited for someone who made sex special. We've been rabbits now for over 7 years.

I lost mine at 17 to my fiance. We were gonna be married right out of highschool. I went thru months of pain when he broke up with me first day of school our Senior year. It really sucked, but everything happens for a reason.

19. Just a few months shy of my 20th birthday. She was a couple years older than me and a hell of a lot more experienced. Before her, I never knew some people used their mouth to put a condom on a dick.

Two months before my 19th birthday.

sixteen was first time I had intercourse, I had sex with a female first at about 10