I was 18.5 when I lost my virginity to my then boyfriend, now Husband. Not only did I lose that, but that day I also received my first kiss. I never dated in school because my class was full of losers and I just wasn't interested in sex with someone I didn't love. I had been in a long distance relationship with him for over a year and lost it the first day I went to meet him. We clicked in person that much. less

I would define "losing ones virginity" as consenting to sexual intercourse. Feel free to elaborate or suggest otherwise.

Also, I would love to hear about your first experience. How was it? Where was it? Etc.

Er, hopefully there have not been similar posts. I checked. Thanks! (: less

I would define "losing ones virginity" as consenting to sexual intercourse. Feel free to elaborate or suggest otherwise.

Also, I would love to hear about your first experience. How was it? Where was it? Etc.

Er, hopefully there have not been similar posts. I checked. Thanks! (: less

I feel like I should elaborate on mine now that everyone's telling their stories. I was visiting my boyfriend, the one I'm still with, at his college during winter break, and one night he asked me if I wanted to and I said yes. The next day we had his dorm room completely to ourselves and just went at it all day. It felt so perfect with him.

A prior hookup (no sex) with a guy who was WAY to rough got the pain part out of the way. less

Oops, I clicked on 13-15 without really reading. I was 16. He was 18. It was at like 3 in the afternoon, and I had told my mother I would be "at the library". I remember his room was kind of a mess, and though he tried, it wasn't really romantic. He also accused me of not being a virgin because I didn't bleed, and even years later I remember him bringing it up, and me trying to explain AGAIN how I had ridden horses...

Ugh, memories. Lol less

I was a few weeks short of 19. My boyfriend and I had been together for almost a year. We had been messing around in increasingly sexual ways, to the point of naked heavy petting and what I've recently heard called "outercourse."

One evening, when he was sleeping over at my dorm, it went a little farther than I'd planned, but still without full penetration. I chickened out (and probably gave him the worst blue balls of his life). Later that evening, we were at it again and he was being insanely careful to not spook me, and I finally decided I wanted it, and I wanted it now. It wasn't the most amazing sex ever, but it was incredibly emotional in a wonderful way. Since I'd lost my hymen in sports years before, it didn't hurt, either.

And damn Reesa. Now you've gone and made us all jealous. We can't top a great story like that! less

It was recently, last May, at 21. (I'll be 22 in a few weeks.) Didn't enjoy it, though, was in a lot of pain and then bled for 2 weeks after. My bf (who's 18 now) stopped immediately when I screamed, and I felt bad he didn't get to enjoy much, so I bought him a sleeve to use because now I'm not there. (Long distance relationship of 2 years, now that I'm back home, might be a few more years or so before i see him again.)

I'm not sure if it's something I really enjoy, though. I was abused all my life so people touching me is not something i enjoy and I get very defensive, plus i have an extremly low drive. (I'm not sensual, either.) I don't mind using toys, however, but alone.

He still wants to marry me, though, despite all my shortcomings.... I keep wondering, who's the crazy one, me or him? Lol. less

**hoping like heck no one I know reads this** ha! I was 16.

I was always into experimenting. Queen of BJ's and teasing but I could never quite commit to going "all the way". I was really nervous about the entire concept of sex. I masturbated a good bit so I knew I wouldn't have to worry about the hymen issue.

My bf and I were parked in a secluded lot behind a church that was being re-constructed. By bf I mean best friend, who happened to be a guy. I had gone shopping that day and bought tons of cute undies and was talking about them. Jokingly he asked to see a pair on, but I sort of knew he just wanted me naked. I kind of wanted to play around as well; I was comfortable with him, curious about sex, I found him attractive, and I trusted him.

One thing led to another and we wound up having awkward car sex. The kind where you worry someone will drive by and see your white ass shining through a window or something. The condomn came off when he pulled out so we both got extrememly freaked out. That's one way to get a reality check at 16. Thankfully there were no consequences. It wasn't great, or even good really. It was two first timers who had no clue what sex could, or even should be. If I had it to do over again I definitely would have chosen a better location/setting/etc.. . but I was a young and having fun. Thank gawd my ass didn't get struck by lightning! less

Technically, I'd had sexual intercourse once before, but I really don't count myself as having lost my virginity until my first sexual experience with a girl. We were at a party at a friend's house and as the night grew late, we were flirting and petting and one thing led to another until I was splayed out in the middle of the living room floor with everything hanging out, making enough noise that we ended up inspiring an orgy.

...it was a hell of an introduction to sex. less

I feel like I should elaborate on mine now that everyone's telling their stories. I was visiting my boyfriend, the one I'm still with, at his college during winter break, and one night he asked me if I wanted to and I said yes. The next day we had his dorm room completely to ourselves and just went at it all day. It felt so perfect with him.

A prior hookup (no sex) with a guy who was WAY to rough got the pain part out of the way. less