Syrupy sweet, I know, but my husband and I were high school sweethearts and lost our virginity to each other. I was sixteen and he had just turned eighteen.

I was 16 and just wanted to get it over with, so I found a cute punk rock guy at a party. We had sex in a garage, on the seat of a van that had been put there. The soundtrack was NIN. It was such a 90s teenage cliche, I have to laugh. That was a one time event, but when I went to college, he used to hang around my dorm for some reason. I would always laugh to my friends and say 'that's the guy I lost my virginity to'. Now we're facebook friends.

i was 17

12

I put 19-21, but it depends on what we're talking about. I had sex for the first time with a woman when I was 17 but with a man for the first time at 21.

19, two week before my 20th birthday

I was 17, a few months shy of 18.

Here's the real question - what if your hymen breaks on sex experience 5 or 6?

Back story time! Around the time I was 15, I realized I was a lesbian. I thought all men were evil, lying, rapist bastards because of a thing that happened to me with a boyfriend when I was 14. But when I went to college I opened up and made lots of dependable friends, girls as well as many guys, and I met my current boyfriend, we'll call him Wolfie, at the age of 18 (2006), which means he was 24. We were friends for a couple of years, until suddenly in spring semester 2008, I just lost track of him. Occasionally I would go to our usual hangouts and ask around, but no one seemed to know. It was like he disappeared, and I'd lost one of my best friends, and the best cuddle partner I'd ever had, in the blink of an eye.

Fast-forward a year, to spring semester 2009. It was my first year dorming at my college of choice. My roommates finally hounded me into signing up on Facebook. A week later Wolfie had found me and we were talking over the internet like he had never left. I was sad to find out he was eighty miles away, especially because I didn't have my license, let alone a job or car. We kept up with our friendship online over the summer, over the course of which he asked me (despite being a lesbian) "...if I could, maybe, sometime, if I wanted, maybe... Strap on a dildo and fuck him in the ass?" I told him I'd think about it, and unloaded all my emotional baggage about men and their scary penises and their raping ways, and he was very understanding. In the fall of that same year, I moved into a new dorm to start what I wanted to be my final year at college. (I think fours years at a two-year school is plenty, right?!) I had a bedroom all to myself, and Wolfie started coming over to hang out after work, which meant he would arrive around one to three in the morning, we'd hang out till we couldn't stay awake any longer, then he'd spend the night, and sometimes wait for me during class, or sometimes he'd have to go do other things and that'd be it till a couple weeks later.

I was 21 by then, and we was 27, and it was fall 2009. During these visits, we would cuddle, stroke one another's skin in ways that made each other shiver and moan... Occasionally he would walk up behind me and playfully hump my bum. At first I'd slap him just as playfully and pull away, but eventually I started to enjoy it, and even become aroused and give him reasons to do it. I'd have to go to the fridge (a mini that I kept on my floor), or I dropped something, or needed something from my bottom drawer... Often it ended with us both still clothed and a little sweaty grinding ensued. I even got the courage once or twice to give him a hand job. But still I was scared to take that leap into a completely sexually active lifestyle, especially with a man and his raping penis. (Wolfie is NOT a rapist, by the way, that was just my assumption about all men at the time.) Then on November 29, that night we were playing around as had become our usual, and I just knew I was ready. But he didn't have any condoms. He did, however, have the next day and the morning after that off from work, so during the day/evening, we went and bought some. Actually I stared ashamedly at the floor while he selected them, we went through the checkout, him like usual and me blushing like a child, and that night, the 30th, he set a movie to run on his laptop, put it on my dresser, and spooned up behind me so we could both watch it comfortably. As per usual, not much watching got done, and finally, spooned sweetly together, he donned a condom and took my virginity.

It was wonderful, and sweet, and when he was close he whispered in my ear," I'm gonna cum," which was incredible in and of itself. It didn't hurt, and I had expected it wouldn't, because during those first few months I was constantly turned on and so started to masturbate more heavily... And one time during some very vigorous grinding in some very thin clothing, I did feel a bit of a tear and my cute PJ shorts were stained with a little blood when I later used the bathroom. Also, I noticed somewhere back there Airen Wolf mentioned her grandmother telling her her hips would spread when she lost her virginity, but they didn't? Well I'll tell you, I've always had wide hips, but after sex became a regular thing, I have gained three inches on my hipline, but not very much weight as far as fat or even muscle. MY GIANT HIPS SPREAD EVEN MORE. *cries*

We're 22 and 28 now, and have been happily together in our weird semi-long-distance relationship for over a year.

Oh. And for the record, it was a bad idea to not look at the condoms as he picked them. As it turns out, I'm allergic to latex. ^^;;

Dude. Sorry, everyone. My post was just WAY too long.

15....

I was 15.

I was 18 and it was with my ex boyfriend on an army base...

i kept telling my boyfriends no I made him wait 3 months to see if your relationship lasted past the crush phase

I just lost mine this past weekend, at 21. We came home from a play party and we had been talking about it for a while, so we were pretty sure it was going to happen. The problem was, I started getting really nervous and frustrated with myself and everything turned into a big tear session with lots of secret sharing and deep conversation. When that was all over, we decided to do it in his bed, in the dorm. It's been a bit painful, but I just keep forgetting to relax At least we're trying a ton of different positions, though.

Wow, I find it disturbing how many people lost their virginity before 12.

I lost it at 15 to my 16 year old bf. I was lucky enough to have found a really good person, 9 years later we are still together. I still wish I wouldve waited.

I was 15 1/2 and it was with my husband we were sneaking around from the parents and his mom came home, and he fell off the bed, crashed down with the snake habitat, lamp and stereo, and I made the mad dash for the bathroom LOL

I lost it to my long term bf when we were both 16. It was pretty short and sweet but he has DEFINITELY improved over the years!

16 on a couch. It wasn't horrible, it wasn't great. He offered to 'make it romantic and special', I insisted I wanted sex then and that he could be really nice about it later. I never got anything romantic. We were lucky to make it to the bed half of the time.

That poor, poor couch.

I lost my virginity at age 20, to the first guy who was decent and didn't "whip it out" on a date.

I didn't start dating til age 19. I had issues.
But when i started dating, it was like every time we hit date 2 or 3, a penis would fly out when I least expected it and ruin everything.
One time it was before the guy even kissed me, we were watching a movie and then all of a sudden, he pulled it out.

Consensually? I started having Lesbian sex when I was 12. I had sex with a guy for the first time when I was 18. Not sure which of those should count as first.

Not consensually? I was six.

Still a virgin atm

I was about 18 1/2 I really didn't feel it. I was on a bunch of muscle relaxers at the time, and I mean a BUNCH. I mean I hardly knew the guy. We had sex a couple times after the as well. Then the end.