How do you let your partner know the things you like and don't like when it comes to sex (foreplay included).
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06/10/2011
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We mostly figure it out without words, but I wouldn't hesitate to say something.
Originally posted by
link82
How do you let your partner know the things you like and don't like when it comes to sex (foreplay included).
06/10/2011
Tell them straight! I hate not being pleasured properly.
06/10/2011
I have to be really careful how I ask because my partner gets offended easily or gives up easily when I tell him to try differently.
He has been getting better and has been perservering a lot more. I am proud of him!
He has been getting better and has been perservering a lot more. I am proud of him!
06/11/2011
I just do a combination of things. It really depends on the situation since correctly at the wrong time could be a mood-killer.
06/11/2011
I do all the above, but I rarely have to because he knows EXACTLY what I like. I guess he can read my mind because he can always tell when I would prefer slower, harder, etc. lol He never gets it wrong, but my preferences change depending on my mood so sometimes I have to say whoa. That's too much or be careful (if it's too rough on my lower stomach.) Anyways, I'm VERY blessed to have someone who cares so much about my enjoyment too. His goal is always to please. lol He's always making sure it's what I want and how I want it.
06/11/2011
The better the communication - the better the sex.
06/11/2011
you have to be able to communicate to have a good relationship. You have to be able to tell them what you like without making them feel like they are doing it wrong.
06/11/2011
This looks a lot like another post word for word? Maybe just a coincidence. Anyhow, I do all of the above, but not on purpose. It just sort of "happens" for me. I naturally make moans or somewhat of sighs when I'm wanting my fiance to get in there and give it to me how I want, and when he touches a spot that I like, those moans get more intense. He does a really great job at feeling my whole body up before hand in order to know where I want to get touched or how I want to be made love to. I have good communication when it comes to what I want, and same goes for my fiance. During sex we will say "Sweetie you're hurting me a little" or "Can you rub a little lower". Things like that are heard a lot in bed, because we want to make sure we know how the other is feeling. It's a bit funny, but I swear some days, spots that felt good the previous day don't feel good the next day. So it's all about communication.
06/11/2011
It's a combo of all 3 for me. Mostly i guide and let them know by my reaction. But, if i think it is something they may have no idea im into, i will just tell them.
06/11/2011
I do all of them. I'm a big fan of telling them straight out and then I show him I like it as he is doing it
06/11/2011
you have to just ask for what you want, or show them. The moaning always helps too
06/11/2011
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I do both tell and show
Originally posted by
link82
How do you let your partner know the things you like and don't like when it comes to sex (foreplay included).
06/12/2011
i "show" him what i like
06/12/2011
Most moaning (I like moaning), but talking and guiding as well.
06/16/2011
He knows my body better than I do, honestly. Occasionally, I will grab a hold of his hand, whisper in his ear, or demonstrate. We've been together so long he knows my body like his hand.
06/16/2011
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Exactly. My hubby is the same way.
Originally posted by
Redboxbaby
He knows my body better than I do, honestly. Occasionally, I will grab a hold of his hand, whisper in his ear, or demonstrate. We've been together so long he knows my body like his hand.
06/16/2011
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My wife has said this to me many times - it's her highest compliment.
Originally posted by
Redboxbaby
He knows my body better than I do, honestly. Occasionally, I will grab a hold of his hand, whisper in his ear, or demonstrate. We've been together so long he knows my body like his hand.
06/16/2011
I enjoy experimenting and communicating both verbally and physically.
06/18/2011
As almost everyone has stated. It is all about communication & knowing your partner.
06/20/2011
Well I'm pretty straight forward with what I want I think, but don't always get what I want. Usually though if I'm patient and not pushy my partner will decide to surprise me with something I'd been asking for.
06/21/2011
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So true!
Originally posted by
Scott Ghost
The better the communication - the better the sex.
06/21/2011
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I'm pretty shy. My partner is a traditional kind of guy and I dont know how to tell him when i want to add a kink
Originally posted by
link82
How do you let your partner know the things you like and don't like when it comes to sex (foreplay included).
06/22/2011
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We have gotten better about specifically talking about our likes/dislikes over the years.
Originally posted by
link82
How do you let your partner know the things you like and don't like when it comes to sex (foreplay included).
06/23/2011
I tell them what I liked and didn't like. I'd rather have no sex than bad sex, and most of all I prefer great sex.
06/29/2011
It's so important to tell your partner (in some form) what works for you and what doesn't. Makes for a better sex life!
06/30/2011
Somethings we need to talk about. If it isn't complicated, or doesn't need an explanation (i.e. pegging) than a moan is very helpful.
06/30/2011
My fiancee and I definitely do all three!
06/30/2011
Its more fun if you do everything
06/30/2011
We do all three. It helps to know each other so well too
07/05/2011