I've gotten a lot better about communicating what I like and don't like. Sometimes I come across as pushy though...
Getting what you want in bed
11/01/2011
My guy and I talk about everything. I find that having a good open and honest communication with in our relationship really brings us together more mentally and physically.
11/02/2011
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All of the above
Originally posted by
link82
How do you let your partner know the things you like and don't like when it comes to sex (foreplay included).
11/08/2011
Communication is key for sure. Sometimes I like demonstrating myself (he's more eager to try for himself after watching me!)
11/13/2011
We respond very well to each others reactions when we like something, but if we want to try something new, we tell each other what we want. If we don't say it quite right, we just guide each other where we're referring to, and show each other what we mean
11/17/2011
I do all of those to let him know, but I've gotten a lot better at just telling/asking him.
11/17/2011
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Just come right out and say it. I do tend to moan and show how excited I am when something feels really well.
Originally posted by
link82
How do you let your partner know the things you like and don't like when it comes to sex (foreplay included).
11/18/2011
after 4 years he knows!
11/19/2011
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I just ask nicely, and give little tips on what feels good
Originally posted by
link82
How do you let your partner know the things you like and don't like when it comes to sex (foreplay included).
11/24/2011
"All the above"
11/24/2011
Depends.
11/24/2011
i wouldn't say that i purposely moan or anything to guide him, those come out naturally and uncontrollably when it's going well
11/30/2011
It's a mix of moaning and making noises when he's getting things right and guiding their hands. Once I'm comfortable in a relationship I will outright just say what I want too.
11/30/2011
Communication is key, it makes everything easier! The moaning is good in the moment though!
11/30/2011
I'm vocal in every way. You can't expect to get what you want if you aren't up front with it. Her on the other hand, not so much. Sometimes she has to get frustrated before she opens up. Kind of difficult sometimes but its a nice challenge sometimes too.
11/30/2011
I said 'All of the above' for letting her know, but as far as acting upon those things, I wait on her usually. Patience isn't always easy, but it often pays off in the best of ways
12/01/2011
Show and tell is so much fun in bed.
12/01/2011
Direct explanation is always the most efficient.
12/01/2011
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A partner won't know what you want in bed unless you show them or tell them. My partner and I discuss what we want/don't want and what we like/don't like. That includes the majority of your options below also.
Originally posted by
link82
How do you let your partner know the things you like and don't like when it comes to sex (foreplay included).
12/22/2011
A bit of all three, there's no sense in being too shy to let your partner know what works.
12/26/2011
I just ask for what I want.
Asking might turn into begging, pleading, moaning, etc, if he wants to tease me.
Asking might turn into begging, pleading, moaning, etc, if he wants to tease me.
12/26/2011
I do all of the above. I am mostly verbal though.
Sometimes I'll describe in detail what I want before we begin.
Sometimes I'll describe in detail what I want before we begin.
01/02/2012
Mostly I try to do it by guiding their hands/adjusting positions, and moaning louder when it feels good. Then after sex, we can talk about what we like and dislike in a more straightforward way without worrying about killing the mood lol.
01/03/2012
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I just flat out tell her.
Originally posted by
link82
How do you let your partner know the things you like and don't like when it comes to sex (foreplay included).
01/19/2012
If you don't tell them what you like you're never going to be satisfied.
01/22/2012
It matters on which partner it is : )
01/23/2012
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whatever is called for
Originally posted by
link82
How do you let your partner know the things you like and don't like when it comes to sex (foreplay included).
01/24/2012
You have to say something! that's always good
01/27/2012
Do all three, comunication is very important.
01/27/2012
In my experience watching some porn -Hentai in my case- together is more effective than guide her.
01/27/2012