I do a bit of everything
Getting what you want in bed
09/16/2012
I am pretty upfront and vocal about what I want. I think too many people don't speak up about what they want, and spend too much time resenting the situation. Just speak up! You're an adult, and if your partner is mature, he or she should be able to communicate clearly with you. Communication is really the key to a healthy, happy relationship.
09/26/2012
Don't be shy
09/27/2012
Tell them
09/27/2012
All of the above
09/27/2012
If its a new idea i just come out and tell him, if its something we do already ill just moan or make noise so he knows hes doing good and i really enjoy it
10/16/2012
All three.
10/22/2012
Communication is so important.
11/05/2012
I just keep it to myself. Telling her anything is a waste of breath.
11/05/2012
I do all three but mainly I use my hands to show him where since he's a bit hands on.
11/05/2012
Good communication is the key.
11/06/2012
I am really shy in bed, but I'm working on the communication thing.
11/08/2012
Quote:
All the above.
Originally posted by
link82
How do you let your partner know the things you like and don't like when it comes to sex (foreplay included).
11/14/2012
I come out and tell him what i want. Because i get what i want, he likes hearing me say dirty things, and he doesnt have to second guess if what he is doing is right or not..
11/16/2012
Absolutely all of the above. Sometimes, in the heat of things, any talk except dirty talk kind of breaks the mood--but afterwards, my wife and I often talk about things we'd like to try and likes/dislikes about the sex we just had.
I can't remember where I saw it, but I read a tip about asking short, yes/no questions. Faster? Firmer? (etc) It's a great way to communicate without breaking the spell...
I can't remember where I saw it, but I read a tip about asking short, yes/no questions. Faster? Firmer? (etc) It's a great way to communicate without breaking the spell...
11/20/2012
I'm always straight forward.
11/20/2012
depends on both of our moods I guess
11/20/2012
I don't have anyone to tell
01/10/2013
Quote:
This, basically.
Originally posted by
Scott Ghost
The better the communication - the better the sex.
My boyfriend doesn't seem to know that, though!
01/11/2013
We are both really open about what we want. I won't bark orders during sex, but I will tell him what I want more or less of at a different time. So when we do have sex, he knows what I'm craving
01/11/2013
Sometimes it is natural to get interested in kinks without actually having a desire to do them in the bedroom, so I usually contemplate my requests for a week or so before letting my partner know. He likes to please me, so if I tell him to do something, he might think he has to do it most of the time to make me satisfied.
01/14/2013
I don't want to hurt his feelings but have been a little braver lately and have tried to talk a little about his and my own preferences when not in bed.
01/15/2013
Quote:
i tell him
Originally posted by
link82
How do you let your partner know the things you like and don't like when it comes to sex (foreplay included).
01/15/2013
We do all three.
01/15/2013
All three but it really makes things easier if you just tell them.
01/30/2013
I guide hands and give audio reactions, its better that way
01/30/2013
I don't have sex with people I don't feel comfortable talking with about my needs and wants. I always say what I want, otherwise I leave unsatisfied.
01/30/2013
Quote:
i usually keeps it in till we have a big fight and then it explodes
Originally posted by
link82
How do you let your partner know the things you like and don't like when it comes to sex (foreplay included).
01/30/2013
I do all of the above.
01/30/2013
All of the above!
02/02/2013