Getting what you want in bed

Contributor: plaidvulva plaidvulva
All of the above, lol.
03/24/2012
Contributor: Apirka Apirka
All of the above option. I tell them, guide their hands and moan when they do what I like.
03/27/2012
Contributor: Caus Caus
Madonna said it best:

“A lot of people are afraid to say what they want.
That's why they don't get what they want.”
03/27/2012
Contributor: sweetpea12 sweetpea12
Quote:
Originally posted by link82
How do you let your partner know the things you like and don't like when it comes to sex (foreplay included).
I am really blunt and straightforward, I just want to make it happen and make him and me do it as best we can. That way we can both be really satisfied
04/05/2012
Contributor: Girly Juice Girly Juice
People learn in different ways, so it's important to tell/show in different ways as well.
04/08/2012
Contributor: Terri69 Terri69
I believe you have to straight out tell your partner what you like and want during sex, if you don't, you won't be satisfied and if you're not satisfied, then why bother having sex at all...
04/09/2012
Contributor: Tao of Tantra Tao of Tantra
Straight and to the point, but keep a few things to spice things up just in case you hit a lull.
04/11/2012
Contributor: AbbyLover AbbyLover
being open is best for both partners
04/13/2012
Contributor: elrique elrique
There's no point in hiding what you want, use every bit of communication you have to make sure things are clear and open. Sex is absolutely the best that way.
04/14/2012
Contributor: ejrbrndps ejrbrndps
communicate
04/28/2012
Contributor: Clubbinseals Clubbinseals
mostly just straight forward
04/30/2012
Contributor: Llahsram Llahsram
My wife does everything right.
04/30/2012
Contributor: gsfanatic gsfanatic
Started out doing all 3, but we've gotten used to each other's wants and don't always bother saying it out loud.
05/01/2012
Contributor: CindyH CindyH
guiding their hands were i want it
05/01/2012
Contributor: KinkyKatiya KinkyKatiya
Quote:
Originally posted by link82
How do you let your partner know the things you like and don't like when it comes to sex (foreplay included).
I feel its very important to be open with your partner and vice versa . Most relationships dont last because one or both are to afraid to open up about there needs or curiosity's..
05/01/2012
Contributor: catastic catastic
I moan for encouragement but mostly I just say what I want.
05/03/2012
Contributor: Kat. Kat.
My partner usually asks.
06/05/2012
Contributor: Azule Azule
Communicating in a non-angry way.
06/08/2012
Contributor: PassionateLover2 PassionateLover2
Quote:
Originally posted by Azule
Communicating in a non-angry way.
All the above! And I agree, COMMUNICATE! Period!
06/08/2012
Contributor: lillmiss5054 lillmiss5054
All three, it makes it so much more fun.
06/08/2012
Contributor: *Camoprincess* *Camoprincess*
I do all the above He won't know unless I tell him or show him
06/08/2012
Contributor: sexxxkitten sexxxkitten
All of the above, mainly guide hands and moan.
06/08/2012
Contributor: Maximusx Maximusx
I don't really like to tell her what to do, I like when she figures it out on her own.
06/08/2012
Contributor: Maximusx Maximusx
Quote:
Originally posted by Shellz31
Tell them straight! I hate not being pleasured properly.
My girl is just like this lol
06/08/2012
Contributor: Phosphorous Tick Phosphorous Tick
I tend to guide their hands
I'm too shy to come out and say something
06/08/2012
Contributor: SimpleHedonist SimpleHedonist
All of the above.... just depends on the subject and the circumstances!!
06/08/2012
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
I don't usually communicate, but by 9 years of marriage he's figuring it out.
06/09/2012
Contributor: LoveBug721 LoveBug721
Quote:
Originally posted by link82
How do you let your partner know the things you like and don't like when it comes to sex (foreplay included).
got to speak up
06/09/2012
Contributor: Claire-Bear Claire-Bear
All of the ones you listed. Whomever I'm sleeping with isn't a mind reader, and it's hot to tell them what to do.
06/22/2012
Contributor: mjtheprincess mjtheprincess
I love that so many of my lovely Eden friends are confident in the bedroom!
06/23/2012