I usually tell him, but there are times (depending on mood, situation, what he's doing wrong etc) what is on my mind.
Getting what you want in bed
01/28/2012
all the above.
01/28/2012
I let him know . I make sure I don't sound bossy but more like "baby lets try this blah blah blah "
01/28/2012
Even when we aren't having sex I am always suggesting new ways to do things. Both of us want to be pleasured and happy so it doesn't post much of a problem.
02/03/2012
some are to dense cut the confusion and jump to the point then fuck it into the sheets.
02/04/2012
Pillow talk brings up a lot. Communication is wonderful.
02/04/2012
top 3
02/06/2012
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I feel a little trapped with my partner, whom I LOVE very much. I ask him to tell me what he wants, I want to be submissive and very obedient. However, he's a really bad Dom and he just ends up doing me like he normally would.
Originally posted by
link82
How do you let your partner know the things you like and don't like when it comes to sex (foreplay included).
It's a big deal for me, but he doesn't really get it
02/13/2012
I make she she gets it.
02/13/2012
Honesty is the best policy
02/13/2012
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all the above that you listed! But he's pretty much to the point where he knows my do's and dont's
Originally posted by
link82
How do you let your partner know the things you like and don't like when it comes to sex (foreplay included).
02/15/2012
I do all of the above.
02/15/2012
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all of the above.
Originally posted by
link82
How do you let your partner know the things you like and don't like when it comes to sex (foreplay included).
02/16/2012
There's a lot I can communicate with moans/guiding their hands/whatever, but I've always found a need to talk, too. It's a litmus test for me: If my partner won't talk, I'm with the wrong person.
02/18/2012
He usually does pretty well with understanding my body, and we have talked about what feels best for both of us. But I am rather shy about saying exactly what I want, but I can usually guide him to do what I want
02/18/2012
Good communication is key to amazing sex. You just have to be open to tell them what feels good when they do it... or hint at something that they arn't doing.
02/21/2012
communication is the key to sharing everything.
02/21/2012
Definitely all of the above. But I have no problem just telling someone what I like. But moving or making noise that show I like what they're doing or otherwise rewarding when they're doing something right also helps a lot. As does guiding them in the act. In general the better the communication, the better the sex in my experience.
03/10/2012
I find that moaning helps quite a bit, even if the moan isn't entirely meant.
03/10/2012
At first I relied on him to figure it out from my reactions but the more the trust was built I just tell him, it's more effective.
03/14/2012
I do a combination of the aforementioned.
03/14/2012
We do all three. Some nights it might be one more than the others, but overall we do all three.
03/14/2012
I discuss it before we get into bed.
03/14/2012
Sometimes you have to do more than one thing to get the message through.
03/14/2012
all three for sure!
03/15/2012
I find words are required a lot of the time, and I don't find that unsexy.
03/18/2012
All three! Good communication is key.
03/18/2012
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love talking afterwards about what felt especially good, what they want more/less of, etc
Originally posted by
link82
How do you let your partner know the things you like and don't like when it comes to sex (foreplay included).
03/24/2012
My man and I both tell each other our likes and dislikes.
03/24/2012
Communication is key, so all three definitely.
03/24/2012