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Eden Kink - First Kinkster Experience Discussion April 20th at 8 PM EST

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Contributor: sexyintexas sexyintexas
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Originally posted by ShadowKitten
LOL

sorry I'm being quiet, everyone is talking couples talk and since I'm single...*sigh* lonely me is lonely :\
You can come join us
04/20/2011
Contributor: Emma (Girl With Fire) Emma (Girl With Fire)
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Originally posted by ShadowKitten
LOL

sorry I'm being quiet, everyone is talking couples talk and since I'm single...*sigh* lonely me is lonely :\
agreed
04/20/2011
Contributor: sexyintexas sexyintexas
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Originally posted by Gimla
It's okay I have a biting fetish... I still want to make her bleed atleast once.
Mmmm...so does he
04/20/2011
Contributor: Gimla Gimla
One of us....
04/20/2011
Contributor: VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
And that's a wrap. Thank you all for the input on the different topics discussed and for sharing your personal experiences. Stay tuned for next month's topic and please, feel free to keep talking here! Even though the discussion is over, we can still chat!
04/20/2011
Contributor: Serenesub Serenesub
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Originally posted by Redboxbaby
I top from the bottom all the time, he wants me to switch and be the Dom completely for a night. I feel silly. I have the music to set the mood on 3 discs. I have the outfit and I even have my tools. I have tried to work out the dialog in my head ... more
I'm the same way. I can't do it, I end up laughing at myself. My owner regularly tells me to follow through on punishment threats I make to him because he knows I'll chicken out. I'm just not wired that way it seems. Too bad. The look on his face if I actually did do it would be priceless.

As would the chase after.
04/20/2011
Contributor: VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
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Originally posted by Serenesub
I'm the same way. I can't do it, I end up laughing at myself. My owner regularly tells me to follow through on punishment threats I make to him because he knows I'll chicken out. I'm just not wired that way it seems. Too bad. The look ... more
I can't do a preplanned dialogue. It feels bulky and unnatural :/
04/20/2011
Contributor: ShadowKitten ShadowKitten
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Originally posted by VieuxCarre
No! Please talk! You're just as welcome as anyone
that's the thing, I don't know what to talk about, my experience level is so low and minimal on the kink scale and at the Zero mark when it comes to actual sex >_> so meh....
although here's a question for anyone to answer: How do you find/approach people at events/munches/etc that you wish to play with (or have them play with you, as a submissive I mean)? Anyone? Anyone? Bueller?
04/20/2011
Contributor: Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
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Originally posted by ShadowKitten
LOL

sorry I'm being quiet, everyone is talking couples talk and since I'm single...*sigh* lonely me is lonely :\
Join the crowd! We don't bite...too hard.
04/20/2011
Contributor: Gimla Gimla
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Originally posted by VieuxCarre
And that's a wrap. Thank you all for the input on the different topics discussed and for sharing your personal experiences. Stay tuned for next month's topic and please, feel free to keep talking here! Even though the discussion is over, ... more
Alink... I was kinda enjoying this... Even if I couldn't keep up >_>
04/20/2011
Contributor: sexyintexas sexyintexas
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Originally posted by Serenesub
I'm the same way. I can't do it, I end up laughing at myself. My owner regularly tells me to follow through on punishment threats I make to him because he knows I'll chicken out. I'm just not wired that way it seems. Too bad. The look ... more
LOL
04/20/2011
Contributor: Pixel Pixel
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Originally posted by Gimla
It's okay I have a biting fetish... I still want to make her bleed atleast once.
Hey, Gimla! Check this pic out. *grin* Sir bite me til he broke skin. It was so pretty and hurt in such amazing ways.
04/20/2011
Contributor: Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
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Originally posted by Serenesub
I'm the same way. I can't do it, I end up laughing at myself. My owner regularly tells me to follow through on punishment threats I make to him because he knows I'll chicken out. I'm just not wired that way it seems. Too bad. The look ... more
That is what I meant when I asked if him wanting me to do this was really a trap.
04/20/2011
Contributor: Gimla Gimla
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Originally posted by Pixel
Hey, Gimla! Check this pic out. *grin* Sir bite me til he broke skin. It was so pretty and hurt in such amazing ways.
*swoon* Oh my. That was rather amazing looking.
04/20/2011
Contributor: sexyintexas sexyintexas
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Originally posted by Pixel
Hey, Gimla! Check this pic out. *grin* Sir bite me til he broke skin. It was so pretty and hurt in such amazing ways.
NICE!
04/20/2011
Contributor: ShadowKitten ShadowKitten
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Originally posted by VieuxCarre
And that's a wrap. Thank you all for the input on the different topics discussed and for sharing your personal experiences. Stay tuned for next month's topic and please, feel free to keep talking here! Even though the discussion is over, ... more
Awww, I wish it lasted longer! and wasn't there a mention of prizes in the OP? o.O I skimmed a few pages when I got here but didn't see anything :S
04/20/2011
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
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Originally posted by VieuxCarre
And that's a wrap. Thank you all for the input on the different topics discussed and for sharing your personal experiences. Stay tuned for next month's topic and please, feel free to keep talking here! Even though the discussion is over, ... more
Thanks for hosting!
04/20/2011
Contributor: Pixel Pixel
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Originally posted by Gimla
*swoon* Oh my. That was rather amazing looking.
It was fantastic. *grin* I have what is probably going to be a permanent mark from it. There is also a rather distinct set of 'fang marks' on my inner thigh. lol. That's the risk of dating a gorram vampire I guess!
04/20/2011
Contributor: IrishLassie IrishLassie
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Originally posted by VieuxCarre
Now that we've discussed public ways of exploring kink, there are also ways of exploring kink in private.



How have you explored in private? If you have not, have you considered doing so? If you have explored in private, what tools ... more
We are sort of new at it. But we have a crop, a flogger, cuffs, rope (which we have yet to use and learn how) blindfold, ball gag. We havent done anything publicly. We have briefly glanced at a local group but I dont think we are quite there in our relationship yet to do that.
04/20/2011
Contributor: Serenesub Serenesub
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Originally posted by Pixel
Hey, Gimla! Check this pic out. *grin* Sir bite me til he broke skin. It was so pretty and hurt in such amazing ways.
Ohhh I have a bruise jealous.
04/20/2011
Contributor: VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
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Originally posted by ShadowKitten
that's the thing, I don't know what to talk about, my experience level is so low and minimal on the kink scale and at the Zero mark when it comes to actual sex >_> so meh....

although here's a question for anyone to answer: ... more
In regard to approaching someone, you start by initiating conversation. Gimla can tell you that that's how it started for us. He and I met at a party back in January and we started talking in a group and eventually got to the point where it was the two of us talking. We progressed to having a "who's naughtier" contest with another girl and he kept a tally on my bum. He stayed around after I played with a friend of mine and he and I ended up playing together. I really thought he didn't like me and only wanted to play that night and, well, it's history from there

The first step is initiating conversation and seeing where it goes from there
04/20/2011
Contributor: Pixel Pixel
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Originally posted by sexyintexas
NICE!
*grin* Thanks! I'll pass the compliment on to Himself.
04/20/2011
Contributor: Pixel Pixel
Quote:
Originally posted by VieuxCarre
And that's a wrap. Thank you all for the input on the different topics discussed and for sharing your personal experiences. Stay tuned for next month's topic and please, feel free to keep talking here! Even though the discussion is over, ... more
Wow, it's over already? Thanks for being such a fabulous host!
04/20/2011
Contributor: Gimla Gimla
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Originally posted by Pixel
It was fantastic. *grin* I have what is probably going to be a permanent mark from it. There is also a rather distinct set of 'fang marks' on my inner thigh. lol. That's the risk of dating a gorram vampire I guess!
HA! GORRAM! Your a firefly fan!!! Glad to see there are more of us out there!
04/20/2011
Contributor: sexyintexas sexyintexas
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Originally posted by Pixel
It was fantastic. *grin* I have what is probably going to be a permanent mark from it. There is also a rather distinct set of 'fang marks' on my inner thigh. lol. That's the risk of dating a gorram vampire I guess!
Oooh that sounds incredible...note to self...
04/20/2011
Contributor: Pixel Pixel
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Originally posted by Gimla
HA! GORRAM! Your a firefly fan!!! Glad to see there are more of us out there!
YES! I'm a Browncoat too. Nice to meet you! I may also end up stalking you on here, if you don't mind terribly...
04/20/2011
Contributor: VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
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Originally posted by Pixel
Wow, it's over already? Thanks for being such a fabulous host!
It's over for those who have other obligations, but we can still talk and keep the discussion going. I'm just not going to bring up new topics
04/20/2011
Contributor: ShadowKitten ShadowKitten
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Originally posted by Pixel
YES! I'm a Browncoat too. Nice to meet you! I may also end up stalking you on here, if you don't mind terribly...
BROWNCOATS UNITE! I'm a late Firefly fan but one nonetheless, I should rewatch it for the 8th time XD
04/20/2011
Contributor: VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
Completely off topic, but this is HILARIOUS!

Another Word for Vagina
04/20/2011
Contributor: VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
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Originally posted by ShadowKitten
BROWNCOATS UNITE! I'm a late Firefly fan but one nonetheless, I should rewatch it for the 8th time XD
I *still* need to watch it
04/20/2011