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Eden Kink - First Kinkster Experience Discussion April 20th at 8 PM EST

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Contributor: VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
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Originally posted by Serenesub
Oh it's a definite love/hate thing. I suspect greatly I'm going to love it when he's making it and hate it when it's finished.



But, I wear the shiny thing... I'm not privy to details on how he makes them yet. ... more
I have a tack bra and it SUCKS!
04/20/2011
Contributor: sexyintexas sexyintexas
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Originally posted by Gimla
I have this metal bunk bed thingy that is also my desk and the upper part of it is AMAZING for bondage. Have her kneel on the bed and I can cuff her to the top part. Or have her ankles cuffed to the top. Legs parted wide. Yep! Pretty picture.
yay!
04/20/2011
Contributor: VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
Welcome to all the newcomers! Feel free to join in!
04/20/2011
Contributor: ShadowKitten ShadowKitten
Hey everyone! missed the Tantus Q&A and am pretty much late as can be for this but I'm here! ^^
04/20/2011
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
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Originally posted by VieuxCarre
I'll definitely be checking those out. Thanks for the link!
No problem! Like I said before, they're not the best out there, but if you've got a bar to hook to the cuffs, you can keep them separated very easily.
04/20/2011
Contributor: Gimla Gimla
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Originally posted by Pixel
lol. My first bondage rope came from Home Depot. (Or as my local kinkster friends call it, 'Dom Depot')
I got some of my best stuff (and cheapest) from Lows. Good stuff there. I still get alot of hardware for bondage from there.
04/20/2011
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
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Originally posted by VieuxCarre
Now that we've discussed the major avenues (public, private, and other sources) of ways to explore kink, where did you first explore your kink and learn about it? What has your experience with learning about kink been like since you began your ... more
Slow. And that I have to be in the right mood for it, and that that mood doesn't seem to happen very often
04/20/2011
Contributor: VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
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Originally posted by Gimla
I got some of my best stuff (and cheapest) from Lows. Good stuff there. I still get alot of hardware for bondage from there.
I have a love/hate relationship with that rose cat o' nine :/
04/20/2011
Contributor: CandidKinkster CandidKinkster
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Originally posted by VieuxCarre
Now that we've discussed the major avenues (public, private, and other sources) of ways to explore kink, where did you first explore your kink and learn about it? What has your experience with learning about kink been like since you began your ... more
It's been an ongoing learning experience for me. Ups, downs and everything in between.

For the most part, I've always identified as being kinky, but incorporating the more hardcore BDSM aspects of it into my LTR has been a challenge, to say the least.
04/20/2011
Contributor: VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
Quote:
Originally posted by Jul!a
Slow. And that I have to be in the right mood for it, and that that mood doesn't seem to happen very often
That's alright, though! You have to take it at your own pace to truly enjoy it
04/20/2011
Contributor: Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
I just up and finally told my husband that I thought whips and chains sorta rocked my world (we've be married A LONG TIME 17 yrs) His eyes got big and he said, "Really?? Mmmm." The weekend was New Years and he made sure we rang in the New Year right!
04/20/2011
Contributor: Joie de Cherresse Joie de Cherresse
Me and my husband have been exploring our kinky sides for the past year or so and it only gets better and better. I couldn't be happier with our sex life right now. Only wish it was more, lol.
04/20/2011
Contributor: BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
sigh... might 20-25 minutes is about up... Time to head to derby!
04/20/2011
Contributor: VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
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Originally posted by CandidKinkster
It's been an ongoing learning experience for me. Ups, downs and everything in between.



For the most part, I've always identified as being kinky, but incorporating the more hardcore BDSM aspects of it into my LTR has been a ... more
What do you mean by "more hardcore BDSM aspects"?
04/20/2011
Contributor: Serenesub Serenesub
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Originally posted by VieuxCarre
Now that we've discussed the major avenues (public, private, and other sources) of ways to explore kink, where did you first explore your kink and learn about it? What has your experience with learning about kink been like since you began your ... more
My first master introduced the idea to me and I took to it really well. From there he suggested blogs. I've found quite a few that are amazing reads and examples. Real life, day to day stuff in most of them. I do this 24/7 so reading and learning from some of the blog authors and becoming friends with them was a huge help to me.
04/20/2011
Contributor: sexyintexas sexyintexas
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Originally posted by VieuxCarre
Now that we've discussed the major avenues (public, private, and other sources) of ways to explore kink, where did you first explore your kink and learn about it? What has your experience with learning about kink been like since you began your ... more
We started with him pulling hair, pinching spanking and have progressed over the last 6 months or so to restraining, paddles, gags, clamps and things like that. I don't know who is enjoying it more. I get more bruises....but love getting them!
04/20/2011
Contributor: BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
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Originally posted by BBW Talks Toys
sigh... might 20-25 minutes is about up... Time to head to derby!
*ahem* *MY*
04/20/2011
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
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Originally posted by VieuxCarre
I have a tack bra and it SUCKS!
Ok ok, I have to know now, what exactly is a tack bra?
04/20/2011
Contributor: VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
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Originally posted by Redboxbaby
I just up and finally told my husband that I thought whips and chains sorta rocked my world (we've be married A LONG TIME 17 yrs) His eyes got big and he said, "Really?? Mmmm." The weekend was New Years and he made sure we rang in the ... more
That sounds awesome! I met Gimla shortly after New Year's and he managed to help me really ring in the new year too
04/20/2011
Contributor: Pixel Pixel
Quote:
Originally posted by VieuxCarre
Now that we've discussed the major avenues (public, private, and other sources) of ways to explore kink, where did you first explore your kink and learn about it? What has your experience with learning about kink been like since you began your ... more
I started exploring my kink at first with a very toppy BF. *grin* After we broke up, I dove head first into the kink scene and haven't stopped exploring yet. Right now, I can't believe how far I've come since I first started playing 6 years ago. I have so many new kinks and am open to so much more than I used to be. I love how much learning and experiences I've had, and I plan on continuing to absorb everything my community has to offer.
04/20/2011
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
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Originally posted by VieuxCarre
That's alright, though! You have to take it at your own pace to truly enjoy it
Getting our own place will definitely help with that I think
04/20/2011
Contributor: sexyintexas sexyintexas
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Originally posted by ShadowKitten
Hey everyone! missed the Tantus Q&A and am pretty much late as can be for this but I'm here! ^^
Hi!
04/20/2011
Contributor: Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
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Originally posted by BBW Talks Toys
*ahem* *MY*
Im Jealous! I wanna go too!
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04/20/2011
Contributor: CandidKinkster CandidKinkster
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Originally posted by Redboxbaby
I just up and finally told my husband that I thought whips and chains sorta rocked my world (we've be married A LONG TIME 17 yrs) His eyes got big and he said, "Really?? Mmmm." The weekend was New Years and he made sure we rang in the ... more
Same here! We've been married almost 14 years and always been kinky... but I finally came out and told him about my desire to incorporate D/s into our lives just last year. It's been a wild ride, to say the least!
04/20/2011
Contributor: BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
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Originally posted by Redboxbaby
Im Jealous! I wanna go too!

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C'mon! My girls are fun to watch!
04/20/2011
Contributor: Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
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Originally posted by VieuxCarre
That sounds awesome! I met Gimla shortly after New Year's and he managed to help me really ring in the new year too
I actually wrote about it for Eden Lit club for Feb
04/20/2011
Contributor: Pixel Pixel
Quote:
Originally posted by BBW Talks Toys
sigh... might 20-25 minutes is about up... Time to head to derby!
*waves* Have fun!
04/20/2011
Contributor: Pixel Pixel
Quote:
Originally posted by BBW Talks Toys
sigh... might 20-25 minutes is about up... Time to head to derby!
*waves* Have fun!
04/20/2011
Contributor: VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
Quote:
Originally posted by Jul!a
Ok ok, I have to know now, what exactly is a tack bra?
It's a suckful bra that has tiny thumbtacks pushed through the cup. The tacks are on the inside of the cup, though, so that us clever submissives can't pull them out. The tacks rest on different parts of your breasts, though more of them tend to be on the nipple. And it HURT LIKE HECK when they're slapped!
04/20/2011
Contributor: Gimla Gimla
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Originally posted by Redboxbaby
I actually wrote about it for Eden Lit club for Feb
About us?
04/20/2011