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Contributor: sexyintexas sexyintexas
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Originally posted by BBW Talks Toys
*ahem* *MY*
Bye have fun
04/20/2011
Contributor: ShadowKitten ShadowKitten
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Originally posted by VieuxCarre
Now that we've discussed the major avenues (public, private, and other sources) of ways to explore kink, where did you first explore your kink and learn about it? What has your experience with learning about kink been like since you began your ... more
I haven't learned much yet, my only relationship (kink or vanilla) was short and though I experienced my share of things I still an infinite amount of things I'd like to learn. I first experienced it probably at my first playparty, I didn't actually play, I was shy and nervous as heck and the age gap between me and everyone else was so great, but the party helped me realize my true nature as a submissive, not the 'dominant' (ugh it sounds so bleh to me now when I think back) I was thinking I was at the time.
04/20/2011
Contributor: Emma (Girl With Fire) Emma (Girl With Fire)
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Originally posted by ShadowKitten
Hey everyone! missed the Tantus Q&A and am pretty much late as can be for this but I'm here! ^^
Bah, Me too, on both counts.
04/20/2011
Contributor: Pixel Pixel
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Originally posted by VieuxCarre
It's a suckful bra that has tiny thumbtacks pushed through the cup. The tacks are on the inside of the cup, though, so that us clever submissives can't pull them out. The tacks rest on different parts of your breasts, though more of them ... more
*covers chest with hands* NEVER tell my Sir about this invention. Oh, gods. *whimpers*
04/20/2011
Contributor: Serenesub Serenesub
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Originally posted by Jul!a
Ok ok, I have to know now, what exactly is a tack bra?
A bra with tacks poked through the lining so they press into the skin as you wear the bra.
04/20/2011
Contributor: Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
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Originally posted by Gimla
About us?
No about my New Years Eve beating I guess you could say.
04/20/2011
Contributor: Emma (Girl With Fire) Emma (Girl With Fire)
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Originally posted by VieuxCarre
It's a suckful bra that has tiny thumbtacks pushed through the cup. The tacks are on the inside of the cup, though, so that us clever submissives can't pull them out. The tacks rest on different parts of your breasts, though more of them ... more
YOWCH.
04/20/2011
Contributor: sexyintexas sexyintexas
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Originally posted by CandidKinkster
Same here! We've been married almost 14 years and always been kinky... but I finally came out and told him about my desire to incorporate D/s into our lives just last year. It's been a wild ride, to say the least!
We've been together a little over 16...am I detecting a pattern?
04/20/2011
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
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Originally posted by VieuxCarre
It's a suckful bra that has tiny thumbtacks pushed through the cup. The tacks are on the inside of the cup, though, so that us clever submissives can't pull them out. The tacks rest on different parts of your breasts, though more of them ... more
Ouch!
04/20/2011
Contributor: VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
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Originally posted by ShadowKitten
I haven't learned much yet, my only relationship (kink or vanilla) was short and though I experienced my share of things I still an infinite amount of things I'd like to learn. I first experienced it probably at my first playparty, I ... more
And roles are always flexible and not always set in stone, so there's room for fluctuation
04/20/2011
Contributor: VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
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Originally posted by Jul!a
Ouch!
Yeah, super duper mega ouch. Lucky for me, though, Gimla hasn't used them on me. I guess I shouldn't have mentioned that here with him in the discussion huh?
04/20/2011
Contributor: ShadowKitten ShadowKitten
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Originally posted by VieuxCarre
And roles are always flexible and not always set in stone, so there's room for fluctuation
I fully agree with this statement, although I may be a masochist (moderate pain not extreme) and submissive I have the mind of a sadist sometimes
04/20/2011
Contributor: CandidKinkster CandidKinkster
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Originally posted by sexyintexas
We've been together a little over 16...am I detecting a pattern?
LOL... Kinky women in LTR's that finally come out of the closet and express their desire to be dominated and beaten after years of neglect. We could do a Lifetime DocuDrama!
04/20/2011
Contributor: Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
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Originally posted by CandidKinkster
Same here! We've been married almost 14 years and always been kinky... but I finally came out and told him about my desire to incorporate D/s into our lives just last year. It's been a wild ride, to say the least!
Funny, how it takes a long time for some of us to trust enough to open up.
04/20/2011
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
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Originally posted by VieuxCarre
Yeah, super duper mega ouch. Lucky for me, though, Gimla hasn't used them on me. I guess I shouldn't have mentioned that here with him in the discussion huh?
You might have just earned some time in that bra by doing that, lol.


I have to say, that I'm intrigued by the idea though, as suckful as it does sound.
04/20/2011
Contributor: VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
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Originally posted by CandidKinkster
LOL... Kinky women in LTR's that finally come out of the closet and express their desire to be dominated and beaten after years of neglect. We could do a Lifetime DocuDrama!
"Next on Lifetime: Closet Kink and the Women Who Desire to be Beaten"
04/20/2011
Contributor: sexyintexas sexyintexas
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Originally posted by VieuxCarre
Yeah, super duper mega ouch. Lucky for me, though, Gimla hasn't used them on me. I guess I shouldn't have mentioned that here with him in the discussion huh?
Mmmhmmm...now your in for it!
04/20/2011
Contributor: Gimla Gimla
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Originally posted by VieuxCarre
And roles are always flexible and not always set in stone, so there's room for fluctuation
Don't get any ideas VC... But for those who are new to all this don't type cast yourself yet. Explore everything. And don't let gender roles stifle your exploration.
04/20/2011
Contributor: Serenesub Serenesub
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Originally posted by VieuxCarre
Yeah, super duper mega ouch. Lucky for me, though, Gimla hasn't used them on me. I guess I shouldn't have mentioned that here with him in the discussion huh?
That right there? Is what is known as throwing yourself under the bus
04/20/2011
Contributor: Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
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Originally posted by CandidKinkster
LOL... Kinky women in LTR's that finally come out of the closet and express their desire to be dominated and beaten after years of neglect. We could do a Lifetime DocuDrama!
LOL! No kidding!
04/20/2011
Contributor: VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
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Originally posted by Jul!a
You might have just earned some time in that bra by doing that, lol.





I have to say, that I'm intrigued by the idea though, as suckful as it does sound.
A good way to try them, without using a bra, is to get some nursing pads and put some tacks through them. I can teach you how to make them if you'd like.

Good grief. I need to email you after this to talk about a few DIY discussions perhaps.
04/20/2011
Contributor: Pixel Pixel
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Originally posted by Gimla
Don't get any ideas VC... But for those who are new to all this don't type cast yourself yet. Explore everything. And don't let gender roles stifle your exploration.
*points up* Well said.
04/20/2011
Contributor: sexyintexas sexyintexas
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Originally posted by CandidKinkster
LOL... Kinky women in LTR's that finally come out of the closet and express their desire to be dominated and beaten after years of neglect. We could do a Lifetime DocuDrama!
Absolutely, he says its the only place I let him have full control and shut up for a while. Lol!
04/20/2011
Contributor: IrishLassie IrishLassie
Hi I hope I'm not too late. I got to to get got up.
04/20/2011
Contributor: VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
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Originally posted by Serenesub
That right there? Is what is known as throwing yourself under the bus
I look rather nice with tire marks on my back *preens*
04/20/2011
Contributor: VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
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Originally posted by IrishLassie
Hi I hope I'm not too late. I got to to get got up.
Not at all! Welcome to the discussion!
04/20/2011
Contributor: Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
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Originally posted by VieuxCarre
"Next on Lifetime: Closet Kink and the Women Who Desire to be Beaten"
LOVE IT! The ratings would be off the hook!
04/20/2011
Contributor: Gimla Gimla
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Originally posted by Pixel
*points up* Well said.
Thank you.
04/20/2011
Contributor: Joie de Cherresse Joie de Cherresse
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Originally posted by Redboxbaby
Funny, how it takes a long time for some of us to trust enough to open up.
Me and my husband have been together for about three years, but started seeing each other here and there about five years ago. We have never been as comfortable with anyone else as we are with each other.
04/20/2011
Contributor: Pixel Pixel
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Originally posted by Serenesub
That right there? Is what is known as throwing yourself under the bus
I know that bus quite well myself. I also have a girlfriend-by-proxy who throws me under it quite a lot.
04/20/2011