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Eden Kink - First Kinkster Experience Discussion April 20th at 8 PM EST

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Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
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Originally posted by VieuxCarre
I wish I had the extra money to do that right now :/
Well I guess the reason they were discontinued was because they weren't great sellers. So you might get lucky and they might take a while to clear out
04/20/2011
Contributor: VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
I'm going to go ahead and get started and hopefully we'll get some more people in here to join in.

Where to Learn about Kink Publicly

There are many avenues of where to learn about kink. One of the more popular ones is learning about kink in public environments. Nearly every large city in the US and in other countries has a group dedicated to educating and teaching people about kink and how to properly practice kink. They also teach important safety issues and protocols.

Have you considered seeking a local kink group to explore your kinky side? If so, what was your experience like? If not, would you consider it?
04/20/2011
Contributor: Serenesub Serenesub
Late but I made it!
04/20/2011
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
Quote:
Originally posted by VieuxCarre
I'm going to go ahead and get started and hopefully we'll get some more people in here to join in.



Where to Learn about Kink Publicly



There are many avenues of where to learn about kink. One of the more popular ... more
I haven't in the past, but I think I would definitely be open to it in the future.
04/20/2011
Contributor: VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
For myself, I sought out my local kink group when I was twenty and joined what they called TNG (The Next Generation). When I was able to join the larger group when I turned 21 I learned a lot of things in regard to protocol, playing, and what types of play and relationship exchanges I liked. My experience was a pleasant one and actually inspired me to educate others new to the community as well.
04/20/2011
Contributor: sexyintexas sexyintexas
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Originally posted by VieuxCarre
I'm going to go ahead and get started and hopefully we'll get some more people in here to join in.



Where to Learn about Kink Publicly



There are many avenues of where to learn about kink. One of the more popular ... more
I haven't really looked for any, but yes would be more than willing to try. Luckily I am in a relationship where he is willing to explore many things with me.
04/20/2011
Contributor: VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
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Originally posted by Jul!a
I haven't in the past, but I think I would definitely be open to it in the future.
It's definitely a good way to go if you're open and not afraid of meeting new people
04/20/2011
Contributor: VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
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Originally posted by sexyintexas
I haven't really looked for any, but yes would be more than willing to try. Luckily I am in a relationship where he is willing to explore many things with me.
One of the great things about local groups is that they usually have meetings at low key places such as restaurants or coffee shops so that you can meet the people in the community in a "vanilla" setting. There is no kink involved and you get the chance to meet like minded people without feeling intimidated or that you have to participate in activities you might not be ready to participate in.
04/20/2011
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
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Originally posted by VieuxCarre
It's definitely a good way to go if you're open and not afraid of meeting new people
Maybe one day I'll look into it. We're pretty tame right now, and don't have much free time. I'd feel like I was wasting the time of the community I was trying to join, lol.
04/20/2011
Contributor: Pixel Pixel
Quote:
Originally posted by VieuxCarre
I'm going to go ahead and get started and hopefully we'll get some more people in here to join in.



Where to Learn about Kink Publicly



There are many avenues of where to learn about kink. One of the more popular ... more
I'm an active member of two of my local kink groups! Odysset brings in presenters who do everything from hands on classes on various kink, to people giving talks on a variety of interesting topics, to play parties, and our local kinkster group which is mostly meetups and parties. Both groups offer different things which meet my needs perfectly. I'm glad that I found both groups-they'r both wonderful, and so welcoming and supportive to new kinky people!
04/20/2011
Contributor: VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
If you haven't gone out publicly and explored, what has held you back, if anything?
04/20/2011
Contributor: Serenesub Serenesub
My last master was very much into the community end of the lifestyle. Munches, play parties, etc. I've thought about it but it's not something I'm sure I'd want to do with any regularity.
04/20/2011
Contributor: sexyintexas sexyintexas
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Originally posted by VieuxCarre
One of the great things about local groups is that they usually have meetings at low key places such as restaurants or coffee shops so that you can meet the people in the community in a "vanilla" setting. There is no kink involved and you ... more
We have brought "friends" home from time to time. We have been together many years. Ive found with them though (someone you see in an everyday setting) that things tend to get a little complicated.
04/20/2011
Contributor: VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
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Originally posted by Pixel
I'm an active member of two of my local kink groups! Odysset brings in presenters who do everything from hands on classes on various kink, to people giving talks on a variety of interesting topics, to play parties, and our local kinkster group ... more
That is excellent! I have had a similar experience as well and the parties are definitely fun experiences
04/20/2011
Contributor: Pixel Pixel
Quote:
Originally posted by VieuxCarre
One of the great things about local groups is that they usually have meetings at low key places such as restaurants or coffee shops so that you can meet the people in the community in a "vanilla" setting. There is no kink involved and you ... more
This! *points up* Munches are really chill, fun and such a great way to get to know people! Plus, ya know, food!
04/20/2011
Contributor: Pixel Pixel
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Originally posted by Pixel
I'm an active member of two of my local kink groups! Odysset brings in presenters who do everything from hands on classes on various kink, to people giving talks on a variety of interesting topics, to play parties, and our local kinkster group ... more
Oops. Typo there. 'Odyssey' is the group
04/20/2011
Contributor: VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
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Originally posted by sexyintexas
We have brought "friends" home from time to time. We have been together many years. Ive found with them though (someone you see in an everyday setting) that things tend to get a little complicated.
How do you mean?
04/20/2011
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
Quote:
Originally posted by VieuxCarre
If you haven't gone out publicly and explored, what has held you back, if anything?
Mostly the lack of time, and unsureness of whether or not we'd be really into it.
04/20/2011
Contributor: Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
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Originally posted by VieuxCarre
After a month off to recoup and deal with school and graduating, Eden Kink is back and ready to go! This month's discussion will focus on where to go for your first kinkster experience. There are a multitude of avenues which we can go down to ... more
Sorry I'm late'
04/20/2011
Contributor: sexyintexas sexyintexas
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Originally posted by VieuxCarre
How do you mean?
We have had two different people on two occasions that have gotten a little obsessive (once with him and once with me) they already knew where we lived and the phone numbers and it took just plain being mean to get them to quit. We live in a very small town about 60 miles north of Houston. It would probably be a good idea to look there.
04/20/2011
Contributor: VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
Now that we've discussed public ways of exploring kink, there are also ways of exploring kink in private.

How have you explored in private? If you have not, have you considered doing so? If you have explored in private, what tools have you used?

There are many things that can aid in exploration in private. Eden, along with other sites, carry a multitude of kinky items that can enhance the experience in the bedroom. Many people are not "hard core" into BDSM and just like to experience a light cuffing session during sex or a light flogging. I enjoy being beaten in the bedroom and exploring with my partner just as much as I like to in public.
04/20/2011
Contributor: VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
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Originally posted by Redboxbaby
Sorry I'm late'
It's all good. Welcome!
04/20/2011
Contributor: BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
Here for about 20... Derby tonight
04/20/2011
Contributor: VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
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Originally posted by sexyintexas
We have had two different people on two occasions that have gotten a little obsessive (once with him and once with me) they already knew where we lived and the phone numbers and it took just plain being mean to get them to quit. We live in a very ... more
Oh, I gotcha. That can definitely be a sticky situation sometimes!
04/20/2011
Contributor: VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
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Originally posted by BBW Talks Toys
Here for about 20... Derby tonight
Derby? Jealous!
04/20/2011
Contributor: BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
Quote:
Originally posted by VieuxCarre
Now that we've discussed public ways of exploring kink, there are also ways of exploring kink in private.



How have you explored in private? If you have not, have you considered doing so? If you have explored in private, what tools ... more
We've used paddles, crops, hands, wooden kitchen instruments... under the bed restraints, blind folds, temperature torture, orgasm torture...
04/20/2011
Contributor: sexyintexas sexyintexas
Quote:
Originally posted by VieuxCarre
Now that we've discussed public ways of exploring kink, there are also ways of exploring kink in private.



How have you explored in private? If you have not, have you considered doing so? If you have explored in private, what tools ... more
We cover quite a bit in the bedroom...cuffs (ankle and wrasts), collars, paddles, candles, clamps. Interested in stepping it up a little maybe
04/20/2011
Contributor: BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
Quote:
Originally posted by VieuxCarre
Derby? Jealous!
I love it! I don't skate, but I'm an official
04/20/2011
Contributor: Serenesub Serenesub
Quote:
Originally posted by VieuxCarre
Now that we've discussed public ways of exploring kink, there are also ways of exploring kink in private.



How have you explored in private? If you have not, have you considered doing so? If you have explored in private, what tools ... more
I'm pretty open about experimenting as is my dominant, so together we're continually trying new things. Right now I love being beaten and tied up.
04/20/2011
Contributor: Pixel Pixel
Quote:
Originally posted by VieuxCarre
Now that we've discussed public ways of exploring kink, there are also ways of exploring kink in private.



How have you explored in private? If you have not, have you considered doing so? If you have explored in private, what tools ... more
I've definitely been exploring in my private life. Up until December I had pretty much exclusively ID'd as a Domme, but found someone I was willing to sub for. He's introduced me to all sorts of fun things as a sub, including some I never though I would be into. (bloodplay, breathplay, and needles, among others) I'm a complete sensation slut, and want to try everything I can at least three times. As Mae West said, "I'll try anything once. Twice if I like it. Three times just to make sure."
04/20/2011