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Eden Kink - First Kinkster Experience Discussion April 20th at 8 PM EST

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Contributor: VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
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Originally posted by Gimla
Don't get any ideas VC... But for those who are new to all this don't type cast yourself yet. Explore everything. And don't let gender roles stifle your exploration.
*whistles innocently* Me, get ideas? Never.
04/20/2011
Contributor: sexyintexas sexyintexas
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Originally posted by Redboxbaby
Funny, how it takes a long time for some of us to trust enough to open up.
True, and even then we both thought about it just didn't take action until we did discuss it and now its on!
04/20/2011
Contributor: CandidKinkster CandidKinkster
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Originally posted by sexyintexas
Absolutely, he says its the only place I let him have full control and shut up for a while. Lol!
*sighs* Lucky you. Mine is struggling with it. Control and domination just don't come naturally to him
04/20/2011
Contributor: Gimla Gimla
Quote:
Originally posted by VieuxCarre
*whistles innocently* Me, get ideas? Never.
Don't make me command you to speak in third person for the rest of this bwhahahah!
04/20/2011
Contributor: Serenesub Serenesub
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Originally posted by Pixel
I know that bus quite well myself. I also have a girlfriend-by-proxy who throws me under it quite a lot.
My owner told me I should just set up camp under there.
04/20/2011
Contributor: VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
Quote:
Originally posted by CandidKinkster
*sighs* Lucky you. Mine is struggling with it. Control and domination just don't come naturally to him
It doesn't come naturally to most people. It's not good to force kink onto someone either, because it can end up making them resentful in the end. It doesn't hurt to talk about it with him, but make sure you're doing it on his terms and ending the discussion when he begins to feel uncomfortable
04/20/2011
Contributor: VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
Quote:
Originally posted by Serenesub
My owner told me I should just set up camp under there.
Pff my permanent residence, aside from Gimla's bed, is under the bus.
04/20/2011
Contributor: Pixel Pixel
Quote:
Originally posted by Serenesub
My owner told me I should just set up camp under there.
It's quite comfy. *nods* Once you get used to the gravel and the burnt tire smell...
04/20/2011
Contributor: Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
Quote:
Originally posted by Gimla
Don't get any ideas VC... But for those who are new to all this don't type cast yourself yet. Explore everything. And don't let gender roles stifle your exploration.
I am working on a scene for my husband, as he is encouraging me to switch things up. I like to try to top my husband, but I am a sub through and through it is so hard! Is that a trap too?
04/20/2011
Contributor: sexyintexas sexyintexas
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Originally posted by Joie de Cherresse
Me and my husband have been together for about three years, but started seeing each other here and there about five years ago. We have never been as comfortable with anyone else as we are with each other.
Thats the best one to discover and explore with. We are the same.
04/20/2011
Contributor: Gimla Gimla
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Originally posted by VieuxCarre
It doesn't come naturally to most people. It's not good to force kink onto someone either, because it can end up making them resentful in the end. It doesn't hurt to talk about it with him, but make sure you're doing it on his terms ... more
Me and VC have our small power struggles from time to time and even for me, a Master and Sadist of epic proportions I still sometimes just want to relax and not decide anything for a while. But it's a relationship just like any other and there is give and take.
04/20/2011
Contributor: Serenesub Serenesub
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Originally posted by VieuxCarre
Pff my permanent residence, aside from Gimla's bed, is under the bus.
Me too unfortunately. Half the time I don't even know I've been ran over until I'm waving as the bus drives away.
04/20/2011
Contributor: VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
Quote:
Originally posted by Redboxbaby
I am working on a scene for my husband, as he is encouraging me to switch things up. I like to try to top my husband, but I am a sub through and through it is so hard! Is that a trap too?
Not at all. Topping can be fun, but you need to be comfortable with it while you're doing it. Think of it as performing a service for your husband. It's something he wants you to do so you're still submitting to him. Does that make any sense?
04/20/2011
Contributor: sexyintexas sexyintexas
Quote:
Originally posted by CandidKinkster
*sighs* Lucky you. Mine is struggling with it. Control and domination just don't come naturally to him
It took him a little while until he knew that he had control and I wasn't going to get angry when my nipples were black from bruises.
04/20/2011
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
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Originally posted by VieuxCarre
A good way to try them, without using a bra, is to get some nursing pads and put some tacks through them. I can teach you how to make them if you'd like.



Good grief. I need to email you after this to talk about a few DIY discussions perhaps.
Sure thing!
04/20/2011
Contributor: Serenesub Serenesub
Quote:
Originally posted by Pixel
It's quite comfy. *nods* Once you get used to the gravel and the burnt tire smell...
This residence is going to get very crowded
04/20/2011
Contributor: VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
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Originally posted by sexyintexas
It took him a little while until he knew that he had control and I wasn't going to get angry when my nipples were black from bruises.
Your nipples bruise?! I wish!
04/20/2011
Contributor: sexyintexas sexyintexas
Quote:
Originally posted by VieuxCarre
Pff my permanent residence, aside from Gimla's bed, is under the bus.
Lol!!! Damned buses!
04/20/2011
Contributor: sexyintexas sexyintexas
Quote:
Originally posted by VieuxCarre
Your nipples bruise?! I wish!
Dark!!!
04/20/2011
Contributor: Pixel Pixel
Quote:
Originally posted by Serenesub
This residence is going to get very crowded
*grin* Especially if you drag the bastards who tossed you under along with you. (Payback is hilarious to watch. Especially if the Dom involved is a fan of predicament play)
04/20/2011
Contributor: Gimla Gimla
Quote:
Originally posted by VieuxCarre
Your nipples bruise?! I wish!
Bruise VC's nipples... okay added to my to do list.
04/20/2011
Contributor: VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
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Originally posted by Pixel
*grin* Especially if you drag the bastards who tossed you under along with you. (Payback is hilarious to watch. Especially if the Dom involved is a fan of predicament play)
I wouldn't do that. The repercussions would be dire *shudders*
04/20/2011
Contributor: VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
Quote:
Originally posted by Gimla
Bruise VC's nipples... okay added to my to do list.
Dang it...
04/20/2011
Contributor: sexyintexas sexyintexas
Quote:
Originally posted by Gimla
Bruise VC's nipples... okay added to my to do list.
See there you go VC! It takes some serious pinching and biting!
04/20/2011
Contributor: Pixel Pixel
Quote:
Originally posted by sexyintexas
It took him a little while until he knew that he had control and I wasn't going to get angry when my nipples were black from bruises.
Eep. I had bruised nipples from Sir once. I was *not* a happy kitty the next week. Dear gods they were sore! Just putting on my bra in the mornings had me whimpering.
04/20/2011
Contributor: ShadowKitten ShadowKitten
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Originally posted by Gimla
Bruise VC's nipples... okay added to my to do list.
LOL
sorry I'm being quiet, everyone is talking couples talk and since I'm single...*sigh* lonely me is lonely :\
04/20/2011
Contributor: Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
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Originally posted by VieuxCarre
Not at all. Topping can be fun, but you need to be comfortable with it while you're doing it. Think of it as performing a service for your husband. It's something he wants you to do so you're still submitting to him. Does that make any sense?
I top from the bottom all the time, he wants me to switch and be the Dom completely for a night. I feel silly. I have the music to set the mood on 3 discs. I have the outfit and I even have my tools. I have tried to work out the dialog in my head and it sounds so bizarre coming out of my mouth.
04/20/2011
Contributor: Gimla Gimla
Quote:
Originally posted by sexyintexas
See there you go VC! It takes some serious pinching and biting!
It's okay I have a biting fetish... I still want to make her bleed atleast once.
04/20/2011
Contributor: sexyintexas sexyintexas
Quote:
Originally posted by Pixel
Eep. I had bruised nipples from Sir once. I was *not* a happy kitty the next week. Dear gods they were sore! Just putting on my bra in the mornings had me whimpering.
I bruise so bad the skin on my nipples will peel. That hurts!
04/20/2011
Contributor: VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
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Originally posted by ShadowKitten
LOL

sorry I'm being quiet, everyone is talking couples talk and since I'm single...*sigh* lonely me is lonely :\
No! Please talk! You're just as welcome as anyone
04/20/2011