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Contributor: VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
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Originally posted by BBW Talks Toys
We've used paddles, crops, hands, wooden kitchen instruments... under the bed restraints, blind folds, temperature torture, orgasm torture...
We've used some kitchen instruments too. Dollar Tree is my "on a budget" kink store of choice
04/20/2011
Contributor: CandidKinkster CandidKinkster
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Originally posted by Pixel
This! *points up* Munches are really chill, fun and such a great way to get to know people! Plus, ya know, food!
Question about munches: What's the environment like? Is it casual, or do you find those that attend as a couple Master/slave or Dom/sub use formal protocol while there?
04/20/2011
Contributor: Gimla Gimla
Evening all. For those who don't know me I'm VC's Master. VC asked me to join in so if ya got any question ask away!
04/20/2011
Contributor: VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
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Originally posted by sexyintexas
We cover quite a bit in the bedroom...cuffs (ankle and wrasts), collars, paddles, candles, clamps. Interested in stepping it up a little maybe
Stepping it up is always fun! I love rope bondage and we're going to start doing more with that soon!
04/20/2011
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
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Originally posted by VieuxCarre
Now that we've discussed public ways of exploring kink, there are also ways of exploring kink in private.



How have you explored in private? If you have not, have you considered doing so? If you have explored in private, what tools ... more
We've played with a crop, a small flogger type thing, and an under the bed restraint system.
04/20/2011
Contributor: Gimla Gimla
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Originally posted by VieuxCarre
Stepping it up is always fun! I love rope bondage and we're going to start doing more with that soon!
Friday if we can get some alone time.
04/20/2011
Contributor: sexyintexas sexyintexas
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Originally posted by VieuxCarre
Oh, I gotcha. That can definitely be a sticky situation sometimes!
Yeah thats why Im thinking a city as big as houston would be a plus.
04/20/2011
Contributor: VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
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Originally posted by Pixel
I've definitely been exploring in my private life. Up until December I had pretty much exclusively ID'd as a Domme, but found someone I was willing to sub for. He's introduced me to all sorts of fun things as a sub, including some I ... more
That is awesome that you're exploring with someone and trying something new. After all, isn't trying something new exhilarating on this journey of life?
04/20/2011
Contributor: BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
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Originally posted by Pixel
I've definitely been exploring in my private life. Up until December I had pretty much exclusively ID'd as a Domme, but found someone I was willing to sub for. He's introduced me to all sorts of fun things as a sub, including some I ... more
I've always ID'd as a Top, but I'm definitely discovering a switch in me!
04/20/2011
Contributor: Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
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Originally posted by VieuxCarre
Now that we've discussed public ways of exploring kink, there are also ways of exploring kink in private.



How have you explored in private? If you have not, have you considered doing so? If you have explored in private, what tools ... more
My friends assume my husband and I are freaks in the bedroom and they're probably right. My best friend since kindergarten was intrigued by our restraints when she saw them hanging from the mattress. We like leather and I enjoy being whipped and tortured. My husband is definately the Dom and I try to switch.
04/20/2011
Contributor: VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
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Originally posted by CandidKinkster
Question about munches: What's the environment like? Is it casual, or do you find those that attend as a couple Master/slave or Dom/sub use formal protocol while there?
Munches are usually very casual and you do not have to attend as a couple. Most of the time people go as singles and there isn't a lot of formal protocol since most munches are held in public settings.
04/20/2011
Contributor: Pixel Pixel
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Originally posted by CandidKinkster
Question about munches: What's the environment like? Is it casual, or do you find those that attend as a couple Master/slave or Dom/sub use formal protocol while there?
My local group is very informal. Some subs wear pretty collars that can be easily mistaken as jewelery, and I know that when I am at a munch with Sir, I try to be polite and defer to him, make sure he has a drink, but it's definitely not a high protocol situation. No corset, latex and "Yes, Mistress"es here!
04/20/2011
Contributor: Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
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Originally posted by Jul!a
We've played with a crop, a small flogger type thing, and an under the bed restraint system.
I love the crop!
04/20/2011
Contributor: VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
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Originally posted by Redboxbaby
My friends assume my husband and I are freaks in the bedroom and they're probably right. My best friend since kindergarten was intrigued by our restraints when she saw them hanging from the mattress. We like leather and I enjoy being whipped ... more
I want to get some under the bed restraints. They sound like they'd be loads of fun
04/20/2011
Contributor: Pixel Pixel
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Originally posted by Pixel
My local group is very informal. Some subs wear pretty collars that can be easily mistaken as jewelery, and I know that when I am at a munch with Sir, I try to be polite and defer to him, make sure he has a drink, but it's definitely not a high ... more
I forgot to mention that we sometimes mistaken for a slightly rumbustious book club!
04/20/2011
Contributor: sexyintexas sexyintexas
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Originally posted by VieuxCarre
Stepping it up is always fun! I love rope bondage and we're going to start doing more with that soon!
I wasn't sure how he would react to my suggestions, he said the same. I think we are creating monsters lol!
04/20/2011
Contributor: Gimla Gimla
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Originally posted by CandidKinkster
Question about munches: What's the environment like? Is it casual, or do you find those that attend as a couple Master/slave or Dom/sub use formal protocol while there?
I went for a long time without a sub or slave and I found the munches to be a great social event. I can't say this for all munches but the ones I have attended were casual and little to no protocol was in place. It was just friends hanging out and having dinner.
04/20/2011
Contributor: Pixel Pixel
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Originally posted by sexyintexas
I wasn't sure how he would react to my suggestions, he said the same. I think we are creating monsters lol!
Don't ever encourage a Dom. It's always a trap!
04/20/2011
Contributor: CandidKinkster CandidKinkster
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Originally posted by VieuxCarre
I want to get some under the bed restraints. They sound like they'd be loads of fun
We have SportSheets on our bed, and they are AWESOME! Plus the restraints that come with the system can be used independently of the system as cuffs or whatever.
04/20/2011
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
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Originally posted by VieuxCarre
I want to get some under the bed restraints. They sound like they'd be loads of fun
They can be depending on the set. The one that I have doesn't do much for restriction, and I'm very easily able to remove the cuffs myself. For one like that tho, I'd recommend trying to attach a spreader bar between the cuffs if you can.
04/20/2011
Contributor: VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
In regard to stepping up play in the bedroom, did you know that there are books available to enhance your experiences in kink?

Here on Eden, there are many books to enhance the kink experience in the bedroom. I recently purchased one of the Two Knotty Boys' books so that Gimla could get some how to's on different ties and such to use on me.

There are also books such as The Loving Dominant, Screw the Roses Send Me the Thorns, SM 101, and others that educate on D/s relationships.
04/20/2011
Contributor: Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
I was just in a house the other day that had a dungeon room! I so want a dungeon. There were eye bolts at all different heights and a pulley system. I walked in the room and noone else could understand what it was all about. I wanted to scream out "I'll Take It!" and buy the house just for that room alone!
04/20/2011
Contributor: Gimla Gimla
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Originally posted by VieuxCarre
I want to get some under the bed restraints. They sound like they'd be loads of fun
I can just tie you up to the metal frame if you like
04/20/2011
Contributor: Pixel Pixel
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Originally posted by VieuxCarre
I want to get some under the bed restraints. They sound like they'd be loads of fun
I actually make a set myself out of some webbing and heavy duty clips! They were deal simple, and only cost around $15 to make.
04/20/2011
Contributor: VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
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Originally posted by Jul!a
They can be depending on the set. The one that I have doesn't do much for restriction, and I'm very easily able to remove the cuffs myself. For one like that tho, I'd recommend trying to attach a spreader bar between the cuffs if you can.
What set do you have just out of curiosity?
04/20/2011
Contributor: sexyintexas sexyintexas
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Originally posted by VieuxCarre
I want to get some under the bed restraints. They sound like they'd be loads of fun
I know! I have seen a few really good reviews on ones here that I am contemplating as well.
04/20/2011
Contributor: VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
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Originally posted by Gimla
I can just tie you up to the metal frame if you like
You keep promising that, dear Master o' mine
04/20/2011
Contributor: BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
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Originally posted by CandidKinkster
We have SportSheets on our bed, and they are AWESOME! Plus the restraints that come with the system can be used independently of the system as cuffs or whatever.
We have the SS brand too!
04/20/2011
Contributor: Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
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Originally posted by CandidKinkster
We have SportSheets on our bed, and they are AWESOME! Plus the restraints that come with the system can be used independently of the system as cuffs or whatever.
That is what we have too. Best set in my opinion.
04/20/2011
Contributor: VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
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Originally posted by Pixel
I actually make a set myself out of some webbing and heavy duty clips! They were deal simple, and only cost around $15 to make.
You have to send me the details in a private message! Pretty please!
04/20/2011