It gets easier with time and also with a encouraging partner
Do you find it easy to talk dirty to you partner?
05/21/2011
me and my girl talk dirty to each other all the time and it is very easy.
05/21/2011
me and my gf talk dirty all the time.
05/21/2011
and i like it.
05/21/2011
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05/21/2011
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05/21/2011
Just say everything you feel, don't filter your dirty thoughts, just let them come out.
05/28/2011
It is very hard for me, too. I just think about if it would turn him on, and then just make myself say it. Judging by his reactions, he doesn't think it sounds silly!
05/28/2011
It's easy for me to do it now, but not when we first got together. A lot of times dirty talk does seem really cheesy and silly. I find that if you're already in the mood it doesn't sound as silly. Role-playing can also help.
05/28/2011
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Been married 32 years. Have a WONDERFUL and WILD love life. Everything between us is a LET'S TRY IT...go, go, go. HOWEVER, the idea of "dirty talk", has simply never EVER come into question. It seems a staple of every adult movie too (which bugs me greatly). Maybe I am just odd in that regard, but while we may say a few things together when making love, in reality, I have never ever wanted to "talk dirty" to him, or he to me. I find the whole thing a turn off. Go figure? We DO communicate, however (that feels good, faster, slower...etc), but a well stated "YUM, that feels nice" seems to beat all the nasty words I could ever come up with!!
Originally posted by
Intrigued
Talking dirty to your partner during sex can be a turn on. Does anyone have any suggestions on how to start. What I want to say seems to sound good in my head, but once the words reach my lips, I feel silly. Help!
05/29/2011
Sometimes. I can't do it if put on the spot. To me it makes it odd, but when im in the mood. I can say some down and dirty things lol
05/31/2011
I don't think I'm very good at it. Sometimes I feel like I sound stupid. I tend to think too much.
05/31/2011
I always feel so awkward :/ I've never had a gf that talked dirty either so I've never been inclined to talk dirty back, which is probably good haha
05/31/2011
Very easy for me -- not so easy for my boyfriend. We're in a long distance relationship. We started out being super dirty when talking, but now it's like pulling teeth to get him to even comment about something dirty that I say.
06/04/2011
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We are both very adventurous, but for some reason I can't talk dirty to my other. She on the other hand has no problems at all.
Originally posted by
Intrigued
Talking dirty to your partner during sex can be a turn on. Does anyone have any suggestions on how to start. What I want to say seems to sound good in my head, but once the words reach my lips, I feel silly. Help!
06/04/2011
I can't do it. It seems way too unnatural.
06/08/2011
I like dirty talk but I am not so good at it. When it comes from her it sounds natural but when it comes from me it sounds wrong. Probably just because it doesn't sound like something I would do.
06/09/2011
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Depends on how confident and sexy I am feeling.
Originally posted by
Intrigued
Talking dirty to your partner during sex can be a turn on. Does anyone have any suggestions on how to start. What I want to say seems to sound good in my head, but once the words reach my lips, I feel silly. Help!
06/09/2011
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Hahaha! Me too!
Originally posted by
mysecretcollection
...and by "sometimes" I mean "when I am drunk".
06/09/2011
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I talk dirty to him all the time
Originally posted by
Intrigued
Talking dirty to your partner during sex can be a turn on. Does anyone have any suggestions on how to start. What I want to say seems to sound good in my head, but once the words reach my lips, I feel silly. Help!
06/12/2011
I struggle with what to say. I prefer to be talked dirty to and told what to do. So me speaking up really doesnt happen.
06/19/2011
I find it easy
06/20/2011
I love dirty talk. but im horrible at phone sex. makes no sense. lol
06/21/2011
My favorite way to talk dirty is over the phone or im. Sometimes when he's in the other room I get online just to send him dirty ims. I think it has to do with the fact that we met online and it might be partly nostalgia.
06/21/2011
It used to be really hard for me. But he worked hard to help me get over it and now it's very easy for me.
06/21/2011
Not usually. We tend to have romantic cuddling sessions that lead to sex.
06/23/2011
It took some time getting used to and you also have to know what things could be "ok" to say. Now it is not much of a problem for me, but occasionally I blank out and I run out of things to say!
06/23/2011
No I can't talk dirty. There is a book I want to try since my fiance does want me to talk dirty more but I'm like you I think of something but when it's said it sounds not good and I want to laugh.
06/23/2011
Neither one of us really feel comfortable using dirty talk. It always feels so forced.
06/24/2011
Definitely sometimes... it depends on the mood we're in.
06/24/2011