Do you find it easy to talk dirty to you partner?

Contributor: SapphirexIce SapphirexIce
I can't help but get really quite when my husband tells me to talk dirty, I just feel odd like if it fell good I would think moaning is enough. I guess i'm just shy.
02/26/2011
Contributor: BadassFatass BadassFatass
Sometimes it is and sometimes it's not. It really depends on my mood and how "dirty" I feel.
03/01/2011
Contributor: liilii080 liilii080
I don't think it's too tough. Sometimes it's just hard to keep a straight face when using the term pork sword or something equally giggle inducing
03/03/2011
Contributor: Mnemosyne Mnemosyne
I struggle a bit however I'm getting better.
03/04/2011
Contributor: SexyStuff SexyStuff
I'm the same as you- it is an awkward struggle.
03/04/2011
Contributor: Solar Ray Solar Ray
It really depends on the mood we are in. Sometimes you just cut loose and other times the dirty talk just isn't fitting of the mood... but yes when we are in that frame of mind the dirty talk flows freely.
03/07/2011
Contributor: lemony lemony
I've been getting better, it really helps.
03/07/2011
Contributor: fatesrelease fatesrelease
This is actually something that I really want to work on and improve. I am nervous about doing it. I don't know why that is, but I want to be able to be uninhibited about it.
03/15/2011
Contributor: sexyintexas sexyintexas
Quote:
Originally posted by Intrigued
Talking dirty to your partner during sex can be a turn on. Does anyone have any suggestions on how to start. What I want to say seems to sound good in my head, but once the words reach my lips, I feel silly. Help!
I love it and love it when he talks dirty to me
03/15/2011
Contributor: Miss Zombie Miss Zombie
Ugh.. I want to, but I feel extremely weird. Not sure why, I just do. I know I think about it a lot when I'm having sex, the words just don't come out.. haha
03/18/2011
Contributor: TumorCrunch TumorCrunch
Quote:
Originally posted by Intrigued
Talking dirty to your partner during sex can be a turn on. Does anyone have any suggestions on how to start. What I want to say seems to sound good in my head, but once the words reach my lips, I feel silly. Help!
i gotta really be in the mood, otherwise im' way too shy :/
03/20/2011
Contributor: Love&War Love&War
love dirty talk... it makes her orgasm in only a couple of minutes
03/24/2011
Contributor: ichwillwaffels ichwillwaffels
Quote:
Originally posted by Intrigued
Talking dirty to your partner during sex can be a turn on. Does anyone have any suggestions on how to start. What I want to say seems to sound good in my head, but once the words reach my lips, I feel silly. Help!
It's awkward.
03/24/2011
Contributor: froggiemoma froggiemoma
Quote:
Originally posted by Intrigued
Talking dirty to your partner during sex can be a turn on. Does anyone have any suggestions on how to start. What I want to say seems to sound good in my head, but once the words reach my lips, I feel silly. Help!
i have a hard time with this. dont mind if boyfriend talks dirty to me , i love it , but for some reason i have a hard time talking dirty to him. i can think of what i want to say but i just cant get it out!
03/25/2011
Contributor: Linga Linga
It all depends on the mood for me. I get to a point where I'm so turned on that my brian stops working other than very primal functions. Like grinding thrusting moaning and doing whatever he asks of me and when I get to that point I stumble over my own tongue. Other than than I'm completely comfortable with it. I just need to keep myself a little calmer or it doesn't come out right.
04/02/2011
Contributor: nicole07 nicole07
We do it all the time but we have been together for awhile and are very comfortable.
04/06/2011
Contributor: Willis2011 Willis2011
Sometimes
04/11/2011
Contributor: jankit jankit
Depends on how worked up both of us are. Sometimes it just turns out silly.
04/12/2011
Contributor: padmeamidala padmeamidala
Quote:
Originally posted by Intrigued
Talking dirty to your partner during sex can be a turn on. Does anyone have any suggestions on how to start. What I want to say seems to sound good in my head, but once the words reach my lips, I feel silly. Help!
I'm pretty used to talking dirty to my partner. We've been together a long time.
04/12/2011
Contributor: Ms. Spice Ms. Spice
Quote:
Originally posted by Intrigued
Talking dirty to your partner during sex can be a turn on. Does anyone have any suggestions on how to start. What I want to say seems to sound good in my head, but once the words reach my lips, I feel silly. Help!
of course! how else does sex get started
04/13/2011
Contributor: CarmenGore262 CarmenGore262
Quote:
Originally posted by Intrigued
Talking dirty to your partner during sex can be a turn on. Does anyone have any suggestions on how to start. What I want to say seems to sound good in my head, but once the words reach my lips, I feel silly. Help!
LOL I feel the same and actually laugh out loud sometimes after saying things.
04/13/2011
Contributor: CSEA CSEA
Quote:
Originally posted by Intrigued
Talking dirty to your partner during sex can be a turn on. Does anyone have any suggestions on how to start. What I want to say seems to sound good in my head, but once the words reach my lips, I feel silly. Help!
lol I do feel silly! Theres a certain extent to which I'll go and if i try to talk extra dirty he says it even turns him off because he knows its not coming naturally lol
04/20/2011
Contributor: deletedacct deletedacct
I enjoy talking dirty & the words flow out of my mouth pretty easily. I had problems with my partner being receptive in the last relationship i was in,..they often said nothing back which made me feel awkward. Hopefully my next partner won't be a mute & will ignite my imagination.
04/20/2011
Contributor: krisvida krisvida
It's embarrassing. I don't like it much. Nor does my partner.
04/22/2011
Contributor: LuvMyMan LuvMyMan
To get of the silly you have to practice. It is a mind set. If neither of you are into it then no concerns. My husband practice role playing what we might say if so and so happens, if he does so and so , or I do so and so, what if I did..., or he took his tongue and..., what would I say if he... We practice letting it flow and then respond in kind to one another. We later discuss what words or phrases sound good to us and got us more turned on or less. They do not always match but we find a nice balance and quite often we will say things for the benefit of the other.

For example my husband does not like to cuss - ever! However with much patience and practice he is now comfortable saying certain words for me in the heat of the moment. I like to get F***ed and I like to be told that I am. He will tell me this in a sexual context for my benefit which make me horny as heck for some nutty reason. Neither of us like the word A** in most contexts but there are times for me when it just fits like, "Nice A**" fits much better than nice butt. I also like getting "F***ed in the A**" but I also like the word anal and anus. We both like the phrases suck cock, sucking cock, etc. dick & penis just do not sound right there thought penis does fit sometimes.
04/25/2011
Contributor: Lady Marmelade Lady Marmelade
Yeah, It's very easy.
04/26/2011
Contributor: NarcissisticLust NarcissisticLust
Dirty talk is very easy and it makes the whole experience more high energy and enjoyable.
05/13/2011
Contributor: salaciousrex salaciousrex
I try to because I love dirty talk, but it feels really dumb sometimes, so I can only do it when REALLY in the moment
05/14/2011
Contributor: 0letitgrow 0letitgrow
I find it hard not to.
05/14/2011
Contributor: Collodion Collodion
Quote:
Originally posted by Domineight
Despite being pretty comfortable with myself sexually I always feel on the spot when attempting to dirty talk. I feel like I sound silly. I can text or something but actually in person talking makes me feel awkward for some reason.
Yep, that's me, too.

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I have to be in a very specific mood to talk dirty, and sadly that mood doesn't come around all too often.

I wish it did, though. I really turn myself on when I talk dirty. *laughs*
05/15/2011