Do you find it easy to talk dirty to you partner?

Contributor: LusciousLollypop LusciousLollypop
Super easy to talk dirty. I send him dirty texts all damn day. So it's easy when he is actually here. I love it and he loves talking dirty to me too. Very comfortable.
03/09/2012
Contributor: Kitten has left the site Kitten has left the site
i find it rather hard, specially when he asks me to. im a very shy girl in the sexual area of our relationship, tho i do sometimes have my days where i dont know how but it flies out the window.
03/09/2012
Contributor: wildorchid wildorchid
Once I figured out how much it turned him on, then it got a lot easier.
03/09/2012
Contributor: calliope calliope
It can be a bit acward at times but if the mood is right. I know we both enjoy it so it should't be
03/09/2012
Contributor: Highmaintenancegirl916 Highmaintenancegirl916
I sometimes,it helps him every now and then.
03/23/2012
Contributor: sneako sneako
Quote:
Originally posted by Intrigued
Talking dirty to your partner during sex can be a turn on. Does anyone have any suggestions on how to start. What I want to say seems to sound good in my head, but once the words reach my lips, I feel silly. Help!
say how your body is feeling, say how hot your partner is, what is turning you on about them
03/24/2012
Contributor: Lizzy Lizzy
Extremely easy.
03/24/2012
Contributor: SexysaurousRex SexysaurousRex
it depends. i feel silly using it in bed but an more comfortable use it in texts or in phone sex. i guess mostly cause you kind of have to there. but when im physically with someone i want to just show instead of tell. so i think i sound bad when i try to use it. (i like to think that both of us are feeling ridiculous when we used texts so i don't along in the thought)
03/25/2012
Contributor: Do emu Do emu
Quote:
Originally posted by Intrigued
Talking dirty to your partner during sex can be a turn on. Does anyone have any suggestions on how to start. What I want to say seems to sound good in my head, but once the words reach my lips, I feel silly. Help!
"When watching a movie" -
03/25/2012
Contributor: funluvinmama funluvinmama
I find it hard to talk dirty. I get real embarrassed and don't know what to say.
03/25/2012
Contributor: goofballmaster goofballmaster
Quote:
Originally posted by Intrigued
Talking dirty to your partner during sex can be a turn on. Does anyone have any suggestions on how to start. What I want to say seems to sound good in my head, but once the words reach my lips, I feel silly. Help!
Don't be nervous.
04/03/2012
Contributor: roskat roskat
I have to be in the right mood for it.
04/04/2012
Contributor: sjclayton2912 sjclayton2912
I find it easier when my partner is a bit distracted that way if I say something stupid/funny they don't notice as much
04/11/2012
Contributor: Tao of Tantra Tao of Tantra
With certain partners I say sweet and romantic things, but there have been a few who bring out my Dom side and not only don't I have trouble letting loose, I enjoy the hell out of it. Although it isn't something I really seek out in a partner, it has its place.
04/11/2012
Contributor: stagboi stagboi
Quote:
Originally posted by Intrigued
Talking dirty to your partner during sex can be a turn on. Does anyone have any suggestions on how to start. What I want to say seems to sound good in my head, but once the words reach my lips, I feel silly. Help!
It's difficult to not laugh sometimes.
04/20/2012
Contributor: AnemicLust AnemicLust
We both love it!
04/21/2012
Contributor: Bex1331 Bex1331
I've always felt it came pretty easy to me, you can start out by just saying what you're doing or what you want to do, or you can read some erotic literature to each other.
04/21/2012
Contributor: gsfanatic gsfanatic
Part of what helps is knowing what your partner likes, then saying things to make them react. It reduces some of the pressure on you
05/01/2012
Contributor: 31 Flavors 31 Flavors
The dirtier, the better. :-p
05/22/2012
Contributor: L&P3040 L&P3040
It's very easy for us.
05/23/2012
Contributor: aryce aryce
I don't really care for "dirty" talk, I may make some little comments before hand such as if I dress up or start things up a bit. When it comes to during even foreplay, I just feel silly and out of place.
08/20/2012
Contributor: Deeder Deeder
I've tried talking dirty a couple of times, but was never very skilled at it. Once I finally worked up the nerve to give it a try, all I could come up with was (and I quote): "Do something crazy."

...and that was the first time I got his dick in my ass.
08/20/2012
Contributor: XxFallenAngelxX XxFallenAngelxX
Yes, very easy...
08/20/2012
Contributor: Badass Badass
When I am drunk, I can do all thing with class and elegance.
08/20/2012
Contributor: Scrawberry78 Scrawberry78
No I can not talk dirty because I always end up laughing I can't help it.....dirty talk just seems so funny.
08/24/2012
Contributor: AK Bunny AK Bunny
Quote:
Originally posted by Intrigued
Talking dirty to your partner during sex can be a turn on. Does anyone have any suggestions on how to start. What I want to say seems to sound good in my head, but once the words reach my lips, I feel silly. Help!
Once I start, if he's into it it's easy. Getting that first couple lines going feels weird, but can totally be worth it.
08/25/2012
Contributor: ginainohio ginainohio
makes me feel weird
08/30/2012
Contributor: AliMc AliMc
I'm very shy but when things are really heating up between us it's much easier to talk dirty to my partner, we both just get so lost in the moment that it comes out naturally.
08/30/2012
Contributor: chikisses chikisses
If I have had a little to drink its easier.
08/30/2012
Contributor: lia ayala lia ayala
nope i love it
08/30/2012