I feel like a babbling idiot when I try to talk dirty. I get so embarrassed and want to just hide my face under the pillows.

This really depends on how in to it I am, he loves it when I talk dirty, so I'm trying hard to talk dirty.

When I first ventured into talking dirty I felt really silly, but practice makes perfect. It also has worked better for me with some more than others. Seeing how much it turns him on is a huge incentive. My guy loves it!

Come to think of it we do dirty talk but it is light and not forced. It feels natural. I was talking to a friend about it and If one would consider dirty talking as simple sentences such as "do you like that?" "your cock is so hard" etc then I dirty talk with ease.

I love talking dirty. I wasn't always like that though. I went through a shy phase and wouldn't even let out a moan...but I've come out of my shell

Yes, I find it easy to talk dirty to my partner. I am very comfortable with him, so I can trust him with dirty talk.

It's funny, because when my wife and I dated, we had lots of sex, but didn't really talk dirty. Not long after getting married, she asked me (during sex) to start talking dirty to her. Based on her reaction, I've continued, and we've discovered many fetishes and fantasies through it. Right now, we're at about 50% "nice sex", and 50% "talk and be dirty sex".

...and by "sometimes" I mean "when I am drunk".

Even once in awhile I tend to get nervous and I end up using scientific terms for body parts instead of dirty slang words. Most of the time its easy for me though.

It is really hard for me because I am so shy. My boyfriend is really turned on by it and always asks me to do it. I just get embarrassed though and never know what to say. I wish I was better at it

I've always found this difficult. It feels awkward to me.

Sometimes more than others. Just depends on the situation.

I love dirty talk but I feel silly sometimes too... I just get so randomly shy

When we talk dirty we just start laughing. That's part of the fun for us.

It's sometimes for me. When we get into it he often ask me to say things he wants to hear me say and i have to repeat them back to continue my pleasure. It's gotten far easier over time to just pick up things and say them myself, but every once in a while i start to feel really silly and embarrassed, like i'm sounding too scripted or too silly and not as sexy as it really probably is. In a way he trains me to get more confidence to say things on my own, he more or less coaches me on what to say that will turn him on and i take that and make my own spins on them for when i get in the mood and get enough guts to blurt them myself. its all about the mentality, if i think i'm gonna sound stupid and silly i freeze up and often will try and sort of stammer and look like something is wrong and end up making him feel worried that hes doing something wrong when it's just me refraining from just talking dirty and put my worries behind me about sounding silly, but if i don't care if i sound silly and just start thinking of the dirtiest sexiest things i can come up with then i can do it and every time its sexy to him.talking about what we would like to hear and what our boundaries of what shouldn't be said that would be offensive helped too. Or sometimes ill even take notes of my ideas and read over them repeatedly so i can use them later at perfect moments so i don't stammer or lose track of wear i'm going or start saying something and not know where i'm going to take it from there.

Depends on the situation. Dirty talk isn't hard for me, it just makes me giggle sometimes.

Depends on how turned on I am...if I'm really charged up then the word just seem to flow and I don't even give it a second thought.

I can do it, I'm told quite brilliantly if it's either on the computer or talking in a non-sexual situation with someone's who's not a sexual partner, or at least hasn't been more than once or twice. I don't do phone sex; I feel like a moron, honestly. I get quiet during the real thing when I'm seriously turned on, so saying "oh baby" into a phone doesn't really work for me. I like to talk/write dirty as a form of sexual fantasy, and sometimes with a very casual partner. When I'm with someone with whom I've actually HAD sex, it takes away some of my poetic license and just generally isn't as interesting for me. I'm also generally not turned on when others try to do it to me; I much prefer to be the aggressor. I don't look like much, but I can work magic with words, and even when it's not a traditional turn on, I love the feeling I get when a guy tells me I've made him hard, so that just really makes me push the sexual attack.

It's easier for me to txt or talk dirty online, however, I love phone sex with my boyfriend. I enjoy being very submissive sexually, and he enjoys being dominant. We'll talk about something sexual and he'll usually ask what i'm wearing, where my hands are, what i'm thinking about etc. It allows me to start it off at my own pace and so I usually start slow and describe in detail what I am imagining him doing to me. Nothing too sexual, I just let it build up. He will add something and i'll add something until I'm literally begging him for his cock lol Its a huge turn on for both of us when I beg. Hearing his reaction to everything I say, builds my confidence and I feel comfortable saying anything.

Babyblue is right. Men love dirty talk. The secret is to stop thinking about what to say and just verbalize your thoughts. Don't contrive things to say. If it feels delicious, then say it. If you want it harder or faster or whatever, then just say it. Look, you're already doing the most intimate things with your partner, the dirty talk is easy. How else will they know what you want if you don't say it?!

Like others have said, it's best to talk if it's natural. If you *have* to have a script, then ask him to pick out some erotica that he likes. I'd avoid porn since the visuals will confound his answer.

If it's simply a matter of being self-conscious about saying something that he won't like, then I suggest changing the scene. Try masturbating alone first. Visualize your favorite fantasy. Then, repeat the process while your boyfriend watches. Finally, describe what your fantasy is while your boyfriend watches (or helps). If you can do that, then you can change your fantasy whenever you want while you're together.