EdenKink - Fetish Etiquette - Thursday, December 22nd, 2011 @ 8pm ET

Contributor: Rayne Millaray Rayne Millaray
Hi you guys! It's almost time for another EdenKink meeting! Are you as excited as I am?

For those of you not in the know, EdenKink is a safe place for people to come together and discuss BDSM and fetishes, whatever they may be. But you don't have to be kinky. You just have to want to learn about what it means to be kinky. Everyone's welcome!

Last month's meeting was incredible. We had people from every side of the kinky spectrum, and a few who aren't kinky at all but are interested in learning about kink! We talked about the different types of BDSM relationships from play partners to owner/property. And everyone (even the n00bs!) was able to give a little insight into their impression of each one!

This month you guys wantto discuss fetish etiquette. In the home, on the go, online... where ever you might run into a kink-related situation! So come armed with your hypothetical situations and your idea of a good way to handle them!

But that's not all. We've got a bit of a surprise for you too! No! We're not gonna tell you what it is! Then it wouldn't be a surprise. But it might have something to do with a giveaway. Maybe. Who knows?

And finally, we'll discuss ideas for the next meeting's topic and a collaberation event with EdenFlicks! Oh, and I'll be throwing a couple workshop ideas out there for us to decide which one we'd like to do first!

We're meeting on Thursday, December 22nd at 8pm ET/7pm CT on the EdenFantasys forum. Be there or be square!

And as always, please remember that at these meetings we are all free to discuss our opinions with each other. If you have something negative to say about someone's chosen lifestyle (aside from something akin to "That's not for me."), please keep it to yourself. However, do not hesitate to ask respectful questions. How else will anyone learn?
12/16/2011
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Contributor: Kitka Kitka
Marked in my cell as a reminder! Can't wait
12/16/2011
Contributor: Vanille Vanille
Added to my Calendar!
12/16/2011
Contributor: Sir Sir
I will most likely be present since that is the night after my surgery and I will be tired as anything, doing nothing other than laying on the laptop.
12/17/2011
Contributor: winterseve winterseve
I'm so excited for the meeting. I just hope I don't have to close at work that night. I have had it set in my phone calendar since the last meeting. This is one major reason I love this community! Everyone is so helpful, open, and respectful - not to mention fun!
12/18/2011
Contributor: K101 K101
Added to calendar. Hope I make it this time! I hate missing out on fun things due to my upside down schedule.
12/18/2011
Contributor: teachmetouchme teachmetouchme
I am excited.
12/18/2011
Contributor: Tessa Taboo Tessa Taboo
Sounds fun!
12/18/2011
Contributor: Snozzberries Snozzberries
Oh man, I love talks like this! I hope I can make it!!
12/18/2011
Contributor: Tori Rebel Tori Rebel
I wish I could be there but I'll be headed to the airport to pick up my mom!
12/18/2011
Contributor: Jake'n'bake Jake'n'bake
I might drop in on this! It seems fun.
12/18/2011
Contributor: Antipova Antipova
My family's having our annual "hey it's December let's sniff some evergreens and bake some things" celebration a few days early, so as long as this is annual-celebration-Eve instead of annual-celebration-its elf, I should be able to come in and learn from everyone
12/18/2011
Contributor: Dusk Dusk
I'll try and be here if I'm not busy packing or having a last-minute date with a friend.
12/19/2011
Contributor: Rayne Millaray Rayne Millaray
Oh awesome! Hope to see all of you who aren't busy that day! We'll miss those of you who are, but we totally understand what with the holidays and all. Just don't let it happen again! ~shakes fist~

(Totally kidding.)
12/19/2011
Contributor: KinkyKrissy KinkyKrissy
I get done with work at 8, so hopefully I can catch at least the last half of the meeting.
12/20/2011
Contributor: Serenesub Serenesub
I'm expecting company that day but I'll try to be here for some it. My other reasons for not being able to be here resolved them selves, hopefully I can make it!
12/21/2011
Contributor: glassdoll glassdoll
Hmm, this sounds neat! I've never done one of these before but hopefully I'll be done driving and ready for some relaxing at this time. Will try to be there and see what this is all about!
12/21/2011
Contributor: LoveDove LoveDove
I am going to try to remember that this is happening tomorrow (and fit it into my schedule.) Excited!
12/21/2011
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
Yay tonight!
12/22/2011
Contributor: Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama
I do have a question and I hope maybe y'all can discuss it tonight and I can attend.

For those of you who are into this (no criticism meant - just not sure how to describe it) - do you have children - and if so - how to you handle your sexual life around having children in the house?

I hope this can be covered because it is fascinating.
12/22/2011
Contributor: Antipova Antipova
Unless a significant percent of my family goes to bed early, I'm probably not going to be here tonight But have a great meeting!
12/22/2011
Contributor: winterseve winterseve
working on my gingerbread entry while attending tonight...hint: my creation will fit in (as long as it's not a total wreck and have to scrap it for another idea) - I'm very excited about tonight's meeting. I'll be going to FetishCon in Tampa in August. It will be my first event and first time watching scenes. I'm so excited but definitely don't want to make a no-no.
12/22/2011
Contributor: Kitka Kitka
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Originally posted by winterseve
working on my gingerbread entry while attending tonight...hint: my creation will fit in (as long as it's not a total wreck and have to scrap it for another idea) - I'm very excited about tonight's meeting. I'll be going to FetishCon ... more
Lucky! I'd love to attend a FetishCon but don't have the money/time/babysitting to do so.
12/22/2011
Contributor: Rayne Millaray Rayne Millaray
Just two hours till this awesome meeting begins! Don't forget! There's a surprise!

Hey, Hot N' Sexy TexasMama, if we have time to fit it in, I'll turn that topic over to the group. If not, I'll make sure to include it in a future meeting.

Sorry we're gonna miss those of you who can't attend. Can't wait to see those of you who're going to be here!
12/22/2011
Contributor: Antipova Antipova
Quote:
Originally posted by winterseve
working on my gingerbread entry while attending tonight...hint: my creation will fit in (as long as it's not a total wreck and have to scrap it for another idea) - I'm very excited about tonight's meeting. I'll be going to FetishCon ... more
I just got my gingerbread house parts back in the oven after trimming. I'm excited, I thought I didn't really think I liked gingerbread (the stuff you build houses out really always stuck out in my mind as dry and gross). But when you only bake it for a half hour, and then trim it to bake the actual structural parts another hour, turns out the trimmings are nice and delicious and soft! I think mom had always just put things into the proper sized squares right off the bat.
12/22/2011
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
Quote:
Originally posted by Antipova
I just got my gingerbread house parts back in the oven after trimming. I'm excited, I thought I didn't really think I liked gingerbread (the stuff you build houses out really always stuck out in my mind as dry and gross). But when you only ... more
Have you tried dipping the crunchier cookies in milk? It softens them up nicely too, and is my favorite way to eat ginger snaps
12/22/2011
Contributor: Antipova Antipova
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Originally posted by Jul!a
Have you tried dipping the crunchier cookies in milk? It softens them up nicely too, and is my favorite way to eat ginger snaps
Hm, that's not a bad idea.

My folks are napping but I think they're rousting to start making dinner in an hour, so I'm probably not going to be at the meeting
12/22/2011
Contributor: Rayne Millaray Rayne Millaray
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Originally posted by Antipova
Hm, that's not a bad idea.

My folks are napping but I think they're rousting to start making dinner in an hour, so I'm probably not going to be at the meeting
Aww suckage. Maybe next month! Enjoy your holiday, Antipova.
12/22/2011
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
Quote:
Originally posted by Antipova
Hm, that's not a bad idea.

My folks are napping but I think they're rousting to start making dinner in an hour, so I'm probably not going to be at the meeting
You should definitely try it some time!
12/22/2011
Contributor: Rayne Millaray Rayne Millaray
Grab your drinks and your seats and make a bathroom run! I've got coffee, eggnog (with and without alcohol), hot chocolate and candy canes to go around. That jolly old elf left a surprise for a few of you in that bag over there by the tree! And EdenKink is about to begin.

15 Minute Warning!
12/22/2011