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EdenKink - Costume Fetish Discussion - Thursday, October 27th, 2011 at 8pm ET

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Contributor: Sir Sir
Roleplay is putting on another persona, in my opinion. It's when you actually act out a certain personality or persona, become that persona for the moment, then go back into your actual self once acting as that person has served its purpose.

Wearing things to simply enhance appearance or look cute or silly is simply that - just dressing up in certain clothing. It's like when a person wears a full tux as opposed to wearing jeans and a t-shirt. No, It's not something a person might wear every day, but it's not roleplaying either.
10/27/2011
Contributor: Starkiller87 Starkiller87
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Originally posted by Diabolical Kitty
Where do you live that there is snow already?
I lived in Chicago as a kid. It always snowed on halloween.
10/27/2011
Contributor: Diabolical Kitty Diabolical Kitty
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Originally posted by Starkiller87
Thats how I feel about my boy. Im so glad I found him cause I out nerd almost everyone Ive ever met. I can say most scifi movies line for line. And ive read every comic, seen every movie. Im a hardcore nerd. And he has too, its such a relief. Todays ... more
AWWWWWWWWWW
10/27/2011
Contributor: Serenesub Serenesub
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Originally posted by Starkiller87
Thats how I feel about my boy. Im so glad I found him cause I out nerd almost everyone Ive ever met. I can say most scifi movies line for line. And ive read every comic, seen every movie. Im a hardcore nerd. And he has too, its such a relief. Todays ... more
That is awesome! I remember once at like three in the morning (masters an insomniac) I got a half asleep text about batman suits... I love that man
10/27/2011
Contributor: Sir Sir
Let me add on to that, pet play is not roleplay for most. For most, it's truly who they are, they just don't show it always. Roleplay is when it REALLY isn't who you are, you're just playing around and having fun wearing a new face.
10/27/2011
Contributor: Rayne Millaray Rayne Millaray
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Originally posted by Antipova
Great discussion so far, everyone! (I just finished page 4...) If there's a possibility, I'd love to hear Sir (and everyone) talk about the distinction between roleplay and having things just be pretty things to wear in an existing ... more
For us, costumes are usually just about looking sexy. Who does't look sexy in a short plaid skirt and tight white top? Even cismen can pull it off! Lol.

Some, though, use it to further their roleplay as teacher and student, or doctor and nurse, or something. Sometimes there's a distinct dynamic between the two. I have friends who enjoy turning the stereotypical dynamics on their heads though.
10/27/2011
Contributor: Starkiller87 Starkiller87
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Originally posted by Serenesub
That is awesome! I remember once at like three in the morning (masters an insomniac) I got a half asleep text about batman suits... I love that man
HAHAH that is like how we hooked up. I got a concussion at school and he was the only one who would wake me up every 2 hours to see if I was ok like the doctor ordered. And he kept asking me superhero questions instead of my name and age and stuff. it was really cute.
10/27/2011
Contributor: Rayne Millaray Rayne Millaray
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Originally posted by Diabolical Kitty
Where do you live that there is snow already?
Schenectady, New York. This is totally abnormal for us.
10/27/2011
Contributor: Rayne Millaray Rayne Millaray
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Originally posted by Sir
Roleplay is putting on another persona, in my opinion. It's when you actually act out a certain personality or persona, become that persona for the moment, then go back into your actual self once acting as that person has served its ... more
This. (Sir is much more eloquent than I)
10/27/2011
Contributor: Serenesub Serenesub
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Originally posted by Rayne Millaray
Schenectady, New York. This is totally abnormal for us.
I'm in Canada... and no I don't live in an igloo -.-
10/27/2011
Contributor: Rayne Millaray Rayne Millaray
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Originally posted by Sir
Let me add on to that, pet play is not roleplay for most. For most, it's truly who they are, they just don't show it always. Roleplay is when it REALLY isn't who you are, you're just playing around and having fun wearing a new face.
This too!
10/27/2011
Contributor: Starkiller87 Starkiller87
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Originally posted by Serenesub
I'm in Canada... and no I don't live in an igloo -.-
Hahah what? DO people think Canadians live in igloos? Id ask that if you were in Alaska or Antarctica but Canada?
10/27/2011
Contributor: Rayne Millaray Rayne Millaray
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Originally posted by Starkiller87
Hahah what? DO people think Canadians live in igloos? Id ask that if you were in Alaska or Antarctica but Canada?
Lol I was just thinkign the same thing.
10/27/2011
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
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Originally posted by Starkiller87
Thats how I feel about my boy. Im so glad I found him cause I out nerd almost everyone Ive ever met. I can say most scifi movies line for line. And ive read every comic, seen every movie. Im a hardcore nerd. And he has too, its such a relief. Todays ... more
Happy anniversary!
10/27/2011
Contributor: Serenesub Serenesub
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Originally posted by Starkiller87
Hahah what? DO people think Canadians live in igloos? Id ask that if you were in Alaska or Antarctica but Canada?
Yep. They do. I've also had people tell me I can't be Canadian because I have nice teeth, and I've actually had people say that Canada is actually a US state. Seriously.
10/27/2011
Contributor: Rayne Millaray Rayne Millaray
So have any of you dressed up for your partner? If so, what'd you wear? Did you roleplay the part, or was it just more about looking sexy?
10/27/2011
Contributor: Starkiller87 Starkiller87
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Originally posted by Jul!a
Happy anniversary!
Thanks! Now if only I can get a ring on my finger sometime soon. hahaha.
10/27/2011
Contributor: Rayne Millaray Rayne Millaray
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Originally posted by Serenesub
Yep. They do. I've also had people tell me I can't be Canadian because I have nice teeth, and I've actually had people say that Canada is actually a US state. Seriously.
Americans are geographically challenged. What can I say?
10/27/2011
Contributor: Rayne Millaray Rayne Millaray
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Originally posted by Starkiller87
Thanks! Now if only I can get a ring on my finger sometime soon. hahaha.
Oh, hey! Happy anniversary!
10/27/2011
Contributor: Starkiller87 Starkiller87
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Originally posted by Serenesub
Yep. They do. I've also had people tell me I can't be Canadian because I have nice teeth, and I've actually had people say that Canada is actually a US state. Seriously.
That is funny. I once was getting a new Id and they thought New mexico was in a different country and asked if I needed a passport. People are so dumb.
10/27/2011
Contributor: Rarity Rarity
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Originally posted by Serenesub
Yep. They do. I've also had people tell me I can't be Canadian because I have nice teeth, and I've actually had people say that Canada is actually a US state. Seriously.
Isn't that an English stereotype?
10/27/2011
Contributor: Starkiller87 Starkiller87
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Originally posted by Rayne Millaray
So have any of you dressed up for your partner? If so, what'd you wear? Did you roleplay the part, or was it just more about looking sexy?
Ive dressed like a sailor. And a playboy bunny. More for just being sexy. I want more costumes though.
10/27/2011
Contributor: Starkiller87 Starkiller87
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Originally posted by Rayne Millaray
Oh, hey! Happy anniversary!
Thanks!
10/27/2011
Contributor: Diabolical Kitty Diabolical Kitty
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Originally posted by Rayne Millaray
So have any of you dressed up for your partner? If so, what'd you wear? Did you roleplay the part, or was it just more about looking sexy?
I've dressed up for my partner in lingerie, and sometimes as a kitty. Mostly I'm nude for my Mistress. She tends to like me that way unless the kids are home. I love to role play for Her. Like yesterday's sex scene had to do with a ton of men fucking me while I was blind, and She stood by and watched. Was so fucking hot. I was pissed She didn't let me cum though. Part of the reason I got 10 lashes with the cane too. I masturbated and came without permission. Silly me.
10/27/2011
Contributor: Serenesub Serenesub
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Originally posted by Starkiller87
That is funny. I once was getting a new Id and they thought New mexico was in a different country and asked if I needed a passport. People are so dumb.
Apparently they don't like it when you burst out laughing at them either. Go figure.
10/27/2011
Contributor: Sir Sir
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Originally posted by Rayne Millaray
So have any of you dressed up for your partner? If so, what'd you wear? Did you roleplay the part, or was it just more about looking sexy?
I do not dress up for others, really. If I dress up, it's because I enjoy looking good. I love having people dress up for me, though!
10/27/2011
Contributor: Starkiller87 Starkiller87
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Originally posted by Rarity
Isn't that an English stereotype?
Yeah that is what I thought. People generalize Bad teeth with England.
10/27/2011
Contributor: arewehavingfun? arewehavingfun?
The talk of role play vs "life role" has been enlightening. I never thought of it that way.
10/27/2011
Contributor: Rayne Millaray Rayne Millaray
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Originally posted by Sir
I do not dress up for others, really. If I dress up, it's because I enjoy looking good. I love having people dress up for me, though!
Oh, Sir! I'm so used to submissives doing all the talking. I'll try to be more careful with my wording from now on to be more inclusive. I apologize!
10/27/2011
Contributor: Serenesub Serenesub
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Originally posted by Rarity
Isn't that an English stereotype?
Usually but apparently somebody somewhere said that we don't put fluoride in our water so our teeth rot. Which, we do. It's just been the last month that some cities are opting out of it. Basically just people making things up that they have no idea about
10/27/2011