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EdenKink - Costume Fetish Discussion - Thursday, October 27th, 2011 at 8pm ET

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Contributor: Rayne Millaray Rayne Millaray
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Originally posted by Starkiller87
I always have trouble find corsets that fit me. I might have to go for cupless and waist ones.
Have you tried the Bow Mesh Corset by Coquette? I've found it seems to fit everyone nicely no matter their shape.
10/27/2011
Contributor: Serenesub Serenesub
Quote:
Originally posted by Starkiller87
I always have trouble find corsets that fit me. I might have to go for cupless and waist ones.
I actually prefer the under-bust corsets.. then I can wear whatever shirt I want to and aren't stuck with whatever pattern the corset has.
10/27/2011
Contributor: Rayne Millaray Rayne Millaray
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Originally posted by Diabolical Kitty
See you're my sub sister
Lol! Totally.
10/27/2011
Contributor: Starkiller87 Starkiller87
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Originally posted by Diabolical Kitty
Well, I have something to say on that. It depends on if you're looking at real corsets or "fake" costume corsets. Real ones you have to lace up, and if the eyelets are real. Plastic eyelets are fake. I am a bigger girl and I have found ... more
My problem is I have really big boobs and a tiny waist and than big hips. Like really hourglassy. But I always have problem getting the waist or the bra area to fit correctly on one piece. either one fits or the other. Im a pretty small girl its just all the ones that fit my waist will no where near fit my chest.
10/27/2011
Contributor: Diabolical Kitty Diabolical Kitty
Quote:
Originally posted by Rayne Millaray
Have you tried the Bow Mesh Corset by Coquette? I've found it seems to fit everyone nicely no matter their shape.
See that corset is what is consider a costume corset vs a real corset. A real corset comes in numbers not sizes. Like I'm a 44 in a real corset size.
10/27/2011
Contributor: Starkiller87 Starkiller87
Quote:
Originally posted by Rayne Millaray
Have you tried the Bow Mesh Corset by Coquette? I've found it seems to fit everyone nicely no matter their shape.
Ill have to check it out thanks. It looks really cute.
10/27/2011
Contributor: Rayne Millaray Rayne Millaray
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Originally posted by Starkiller87
I think I am way too much of a goof to ever get taken serious in real costume play. Like my boyfriend really likes costumes and thinks they are hot. But we get too giggly. So scenarios dont really work for us. We kind of fail.
We have a couple costumes but we don't really do the roleplay part. Generally speaking, I just wander the house in it till he throws me on the bed and fucks me silly!
10/27/2011
Contributor: Rayne Millaray Rayne Millaray
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Originally posted by Rarity
I have this problem as well! My boyfriend complains I laugh way too much during sex so there is absolutely no seriousness to it. I don't see a problem.
Lol. M and I get to giggling during sex, too!
10/27/2011
Contributor: Diabolical Kitty Diabolical Kitty
Quote:
Originally posted by Starkiller87
My problem is I have really big boobs and a tiny waist and than big hips. Like really hourglassy. But I always have problem getting the waist or the bra area to fit correctly on one piece. either one fits or the other. Im a pretty small girl its just ... more
See if you have a real corset none of that stuff would be a problem because that's what they are made for. You fit it to the point that you have an inch of skin showing between the laces.
10/27/2011
Contributor: Serenesub Serenesub
Quote:
Originally posted by Diabolical Kitty
See that corset is what is consider a costume corset vs a real corset. A real corset comes in numbers not sizes. Like I'm a 44 in a real corset size.
Yeah, my master is very definite on me sticking to real corsets. I rarely even look at corsets anymore without him, he's very particular.
10/27/2011
Contributor: Sir Sir
Quote:
Originally posted by Rayne Millaray
We have a couple costumes but we don't really do the roleplay part. Generally speaking, I just wander the house in it till he throws me on the bed and fucks me silly!
HAHA! How sweet.
10/27/2011
Contributor: Starkiller87 Starkiller87
Quote:
Originally posted by Rayne Millaray
We have a couple costumes but we don't really do the roleplay part. Generally speaking, I just wander the house in it till he throws me on the bed and fucks me silly!
Hahaha yeah that is basically what happens with us. I get dressed while hes doing something in another room and walk by casually and get pulled into the bedroom right away.
10/27/2011
Contributor: Rayne Millaray Rayne Millaray
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Originally posted by Serenesub
I think it makes sense. To the people that wear them they aren't a costume it's just their reality and what they like/are required to wear.
That makes sense.
10/27/2011
Contributor: Starkiller87 Starkiller87
Quote:
Originally posted by Diabolical Kitty
See if you have a real corset none of that stuff would be a problem because that's what they are made for. You fit it to the point that you have an inch of skin showing between the laces.
Real corsets usually cost a lot. Which I guess is also an issue. Ill have to do more research. Thanks for the advice though, I will make sure its not a costume one Im looking at.
10/27/2011
Contributor: Rayne Millaray Rayne Millaray
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Originally posted by Starkiller87
I think military is so out there and obtainable. Perhaps its too broad to fall under the fetish category. A lot of women love a man in uniform.
That is very true. A lot of them live in Virginia Beach. Lol. (A bunch of really big bases there.)
10/27/2011
Contributor: Diabolical Kitty Diabolical Kitty
Quote:
Originally posted by Starkiller87
Real corsets usually cost a lot. Which I guess is also an issue. Ill have to do more research. Thanks for the advice though, I will make sure its not a costume one Im looking at.
Not all real corsets cost a lot. I got one on clearance during valentines day for less than $40. I got another one at a transgendered store in my area for I think it was $35. All depends on where you shop. I know EF does have some real ones here on the site.
10/27/2011
Contributor: Pixel Pixel
Eeep! I'm here! Late, but still here. Do I get half a gold star?
10/27/2011
Contributor: Starkiller87 Starkiller87
Quote:
Originally posted by Diabolical Kitty
Not all real corsets cost a lot. I got one on clearance during valentines day for less than $40. I got another one at a transgendered store in my area for I think it was $35. All depends on where you shop. I know EF does have some real ones here on ... more
Id have to try one on in person first, Id want to make sure of my size before I started buying them straight off line.
10/27/2011
Contributor: Rayne Millaray Rayne Millaray
Quote:
Originally posted by Diabolical Kitty
See that corset is what is consider a costume corset vs a real corset. A real corset comes in numbers not sizes. Like I'm a 44 in a real corset size.
Yeah, it's definitely not one of the better ones, but it is a lot nicer than I expected. I don't own a real corset yet.
10/27/2011
Contributor: Rarity Rarity
Quote:
Originally posted by Starkiller87
Real corsets usually cost a lot. Which I guess is also an issue. Ill have to do more research. Thanks for the advice though, I will make sure its not a costume one Im looking at.
Are you looking for a real corset? Most corsets used for proper tightlacing are expensive but timeless-trends . com has lots of quality corsets going for about $99
10/27/2011
Contributor: Rayne Millaray Rayne Millaray
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Originally posted by Starkiller87
Id have to try one on in person first, Id want to make sure of my size before I started buying them straight off line.
There are places that do custom corsets. Getting a bra fitting would probably help with finding the size you need, if you haven't already.
10/27/2011
Contributor: Sir Sir
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Originally posted by Pixel
Eeep! I'm here! Late, but still here. Do I get half a gold star?
You know what I realized? We don't have star emoticons.

I would have given you one otherwise.
10/27/2011
Contributor: Rayne Millaray Rayne Millaray
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Originally posted by Pixel
Eeep! I'm here! Late, but still here. Do I get half a gold star?
You have to wear it on your nose! Glad you could make it
10/27/2011
Contributor: Pixel Pixel
Quote:
Originally posted by Starkiller87
Real corsets usually cost a lot. Which I guess is also an issue. Ill have to do more research. Thanks for the advice though, I will make sure its not a costume one Im looking at.
Timeless Trends link has some very reasonably priced steel boned corsetsé
10/27/2011
Contributor: Starkiller87 Starkiller87
Quote:
Originally posted by Rarity
Are you looking for a real corset? Most corsets used for proper tightlacing are expensive but timeless-trends . com has lots of quality corsets going for about $99
Eep I cant afford 99 dollars right now. Maybe after christmas. But Ill write down the web address to look. Thanks.
10/27/2011
Contributor: Rayne Millaray Rayne Millaray
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Originally posted by Sir
You know what I realized? We don't have star emoticons.

I would have given you one otherwise.
We definitely need a star emoticon.
10/27/2011
Contributor: Pixel Pixel
Quote:
Originally posted by Rayne Millaray
You have to wear it on your nose! Glad you could make it
Nooooo! Not on the nose! *hides*

@Sir lol. Thanks, the thought is appreciated! *grin*
10/27/2011
Contributor: Pixel Pixel
Quote:
Originally posted by Rarity
Are you looking for a real corset? Most corsets used for proper tightlacing are expensive but timeless-trends . com has lots of quality corsets going for about $99
Great minds think alike. I posted a link to TT just a few seconds after you.
10/27/2011
Contributor: Rayne Millaray Rayne Millaray
Are any of you dressing up for Halloween this year? Attending any Halloween parties? What're your plans?
10/27/2011
Contributor: Sir Sir
Quote:
Originally posted by Rayne Millaray
We definitely need a star emoticon.
HAHA! Indeed.
10/27/2011