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What was your 1st BDSM toy?

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Contributor: StrawberryEve StrawberryEve
I'm very curious as to what everyone else started out with, because my own first toy came to me in a rather amusing way.
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
clp , Jenniae09 , DustBunny , potstickers , Angel deSanguine , Lucidity , Xavier7 , Mistress M. , (Re)tired Stripper , bashfulhedonist , RosesThorns , Pixel , k3 , Vanessa Weiss , Ghost , Miss May , Screen Door , qqqqqqqqqqqq , Eva Schwaltz , geliebt , Jroc , KyotoAngel , Allstars316 , Vanille , glassdoll , Kendrir , GONE! , TransMarc , Greenleaf , little miss kinky , VelvetDragon , KrissyNovacaine , plaidvulva , woofcub , Mitzuki , aubergine-sway , Boyqueen , smlove , amenti , SaucyxGirl , gwenevieve , pootpootpoot , LoneOokami
43  (15%)
Sir , Destri , Trashley , LavenderSkies , Lady Venus , fghjkl , Jimbo Jones , moonlitlilly , PrettyChicka , Kayla , SexyTabby , Kestrel , married with children , Stujen , rdytogo , Two Loves , C4ss , Dusk , Zerudahime , Emma (Girl With Fire) , AussieSarah , Natural Woman , VenusianThunder , Gallowraven , swf , Lio , vanillaSpice , Kissaki , TheSinDoll , Hallmar82 , *Huxley* , ellejay , danila , Epicurean , IrishLassie , BadassFatass , Cream in the Cupcake , toxie m , Scarlette , Joie de Cherresse , idunshire , Enchantedkitty , tickle me pink , sexyk515 , indiglo , Sohotdinosaur , MaryExy , Ajax , SirTouchAlot , The Curious Couple , Shellz31 , CD37 , systematicweasel , freakincage , Princess-Kayla ♥ , carenautilus , ToyBoy , EvilHomer , AndroAngel , Screaming Violet , Collogue , Chilipepper , SiNn , Jimmy Stevenson , Errant Venture , Chaotic Rantings , mistressg , Rawhide , jeangel246 , Stagger13 , Katelyn , TameTemptress , Squeaky , JackRaiden , pokefan15 , gsfanatic , bobomomo , HannahPanda , woodsdragon , treefrog88 , joz , Geogeo , Undead , Various , Bbiz , sexxxkitten , quinceykay , MidnightStorm , thisisadeletedaccount , pinkpottergirl , BlooJay , Love Obsessed , talon4196 , Ashley B , ghent529 , kristina0121 , Bethy Cassatt , tami , bog , Lildrummrgurl7 , Dawkins , chicagobearsfan , WordsmithingImp , Dear Ruby , SecretKinksters
105  (36%)
StrawberryEve , Tart , Madeira , Airen Wolf , Lady Neshamah , leanright69 , Lilgirlsunshine , Ms. Paprika , PuddlePuppy , JessCee , Rarity , BloodHound , M.O.'s Girl , thekindthorn , Mhay64 , Lavendar , geekkink , SavingMyself , Sparowfang , Nyx (Under the Covers) , Lacey- , ann66
22  (7%)
removedacnt , dv8 , darthkitt3n , Elbert's Angel , wetone123 , SweetieLuv , Kitka , Steveyb , HusbandandWife , Beck , Strider , hotinpink
12  (4%)
Lummox , Mocha98 , zracer , Valentinka , lainebug
5  (2%)
leatherlover , Rockin' , Yoda , Owl Identified , sexyintexas , Ivy Wilde , Ms. N , SubmissiveFeminist , BurntToast , blackadeezee , TheHardOne , llellsee
12  (4%)
JayBack , Kim! , lucymalfoy , Mistress Kitty , Not here , Miss Morphine , Taylor , Miss T , VanillaCupcake , Ava5 , briluminary , AvianMinded , bunny love , domsub1993 , faust , SomeGirl , planetrees , Dixiemomma , sexystuffeve , Stinkytofu10 , Missmarc , Mwar , hall5885 , Antipova , zeezee , KRD , digit88 , novanilla , Gracefire , Eugler , fizzygato , twelve13
32  (11%)
Selective Sensualist , namelesschaos , GeekWife , HisLittleGirl , ZenaidaMacroura , KnK , sbon , seaofneptune , Mr. & Mrs. Peg , DuchessFaye , Redboxbaby , Mr.Skillfu , Mr. E , Lady Marmelade , Naughty Student , Miss Madeline , Red Vinyl Kitty , TboyTy , A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) , RammaJamma , kinky dude , Anjulie , tigerkate , Kitt Katt , ac0313 , Cedarlooman , ScarlettSeraph , DixieDoo , Scott Ghost , Kake aka PoeticErotica , padmeamidala , P'Gell , caligaliber , JRabbits , strawberrystwstd , Love Perpetua , ily , BlackxxxRose , (k)InkyIvy , Jake'n'bake , hyacinthgirl , solita , Entropy , dks210 , corsetsaurus rex , ScarletFox , tammyandy69 , Ilovelingerie , MissMod , Lilith Bealove , CadmiumKitty , Forever Hers! , MK434 , violets , tunacan75 , SMichelle , roskat , SF , AmberLeigh , A Good Girl , spiced , DenRu85 , godot , MagneticDuke
64  (22%)
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Contributor: StrawberryEve StrawberryEve
My first toy came to me when I went to a Renaissance festival with a large group of friends. I was mooning over this small black leather cat-o-nine-tails style flogger, but I was out of cash. So one of my friends offered to spot me the cash. He had no clue I was wanting to be a Domme, but the rest of my friends knew. When we all met back up at the end of the day, I heard people say "Oh god, she found the ye olde medieval sex toy wall". The guy who bought me the flogger looked very confused, and I explained that I was really into BDSM. His face was redder than the yarn they tied the tails together with for the rest of the day.
11/26/2010
Contributor: Sir Sir
Cuffs, unless you count the floggers that were my parents. Next to cuffs were collars.
11/26/2010
Contributor: Selective Sensualist Selective Sensualist
We bought a pink and black crop with a pink heart-shaped contact end that had little cut-outs showing black hearts underneath a few years ago at a local store. I have gone crazy looking for it because I know we still have it here somewhere! It looks like one of the Ruff Doggie crops that is currently available for sale here on EF. Everytime I see it when browsing it makes me want to find ours even more!
11/26/2010
Contributor: Trashley Trashley
Cuffs, because I had them as a good old standby as the teenage slut I was.. but my real for BDSM purposes product was probably the flogger I got here at EF. I've had whips, but I've always ended up giving them away as gifts.
11/26/2010
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Cuffs
11/26/2010
Contributor: clp clp
My first puppy collar, complete with puppy tag and owner's info.
11/26/2010
Contributor: namelesschaos namelesschaos
I consider my first pair of nipple clamps to be my first BDSM toy.
11/26/2010
Contributor: fghjkl fghjkl
A furry pair of hand cuffs
11/26/2010
Contributor: GeekWife GeekWife
My first toy was rather a set of them: sparkly velcro cuffs, a fuzzy silver paddle, and a blindfold. Pretty meek compared to the stuff I like now
11/26/2010
Contributor: StrawberryEve StrawberryEve
Quote:
Originally posted by Selective Sensualist
We bought a pink and black crop with a pink heart-shaped contact end that had little cut-outs showing black hearts underneath a few years ago at a local store. I have gone crazy looking for it because I know we still have it here somewhere! It ... more
Crap I knew I forgot something, a crop!
11/27/2010
Contributor: Mocha98 Mocha98
Well it was a tickler and blindfold.
11/30/2010
Contributor: Kayla Kayla
Ours was the "Sexy Slave Kit" we found at a local Spencers gift shop. It served us well, and we gave it away to another beginning couple.
11/30/2010
Contributor: HisLittleGirl HisLittleGirl
Plain paraffin candles. I didn't count the plain landscaper rope from his business.
12/01/2010
Contributor: Rockin' Rockin'
I'm pretty sure the first actual bdsm toy I got was the Player Paddle. Might have used other things as restraints before that, but didn't have stuff that was designed to be bdsm gear.
12/01/2010
Contributor: ZenaidaMacroura ZenaidaMacroura
I think my first BDSM item was a kit with a blindfold, crop, and velcro cuffs.
12/02/2010
Contributor: DustBunny DustBunny
I was collared 4 years ago this Christmas and it's been my favorite item for sure. While he isn't that into BDSM it was nice to see him get it for me when it was something I really wanted.
12/03/2010
Contributor: KnK KnK
Ì haven't gotten anything yet, but I want a paddle real bad!!! There's a lot of pretty ones on this site.
12/04/2010
Contributor: Lady Neshamah Lady Neshamah
i got an amazing custom rubber flogger as a gift 13 years ago from the woman that trained me.
12/05/2010
Contributor: Mistress Kitty Mistress Kitty
My "rope" was actually a bunch of shoelaces tied together by my husband (boyfriend at the time).
12/07/2010
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
Quote:
Originally posted by StrawberryEve
I'm very curious as to what everyone else started out with, because my own first toy came to me in a rather amusing way.
link This is my first BDSM toy I ever owned though not the first I have played with.
12/11/2010
Contributor: Not here Not here
My first BDSM accessory was the Japanese Silk Love Rope but it wasn't a favorite of ours. It worked out well enough, but got frayed a couple months after we purchased it and it just wasn't sturdy enough for our liking, so we threw it away a while ago.
12/11/2010
Contributor: Miss Morphine Miss Morphine
My first toy ever was a 40 ft. length of bamboo rope that was dyed bright pink. It's still one of my favorites, I just have more of it now and in a variety of colors.
12/12/2010
Contributor: rdytogo rdytogo
Blindfold and wrist cuffs
12/12/2010
Contributor: sbon sbon
I don't have any yet, but I will soon be acquiring some wrist cuffs. I would love any suggestions from those who are more experienced than I.
12/13/2010
Contributor: C4ss C4ss
Wrist cuffs
12/28/2010
Contributor: potstickers potstickers
My first toy was a pink collar, bought at Folsom street festival in San Francisco.
12/31/2010
Contributor: StrawberryEve StrawberryEve
Quote:
Originally posted by potstickers
My first toy was a pink collar, bought at Folsom street festival in San Francisco.
I am jealous. I've wanted to go to that festival for years, but I'm never in town when it's going on. Not like family there would be interested in going there!
01/06/2011
Contributor: Sir Sir
Quote:
Originally posted by potstickers
My first toy was a pink collar, bought at Folsom street festival in San Francisco.
Mm, I want to go there so badly this upcoming year.
01/06/2011
Contributor: seaofneptune seaofneptune
Mine were wrist and ankle cuffs with tethers in one set. That was my first and not my last!
01/06/2011