Wrist cuffs. Ankle cuffs followed shortly after that.
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What was your 1st BDSM toy?
01/06/2011
I made a bunch of paddles and floggers for our own use before buying anything in that category. The first purchased BDSM toy was tweezer style nipple clamps.
01/08/2011
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my first was furry hand cuffs. purple leopard print, lol. I found them to be mostly useless, and very uncomfortable. so I started looking into ropes and straps with cuffs that were made of a sturdy but more comfortable material.
Originally posted by
StrawberryEve
I'm very curious as to what everyone else started out with, because my own first toy came to me in a rather amusing way.
01/10/2011
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My first BDSM toy was a straitjacket!! My boyfriend enjoys being very accurate for Halloween and one year before he met me he dressed as a mental patient. Known for going all out, he decided to buy a medical grade straitjacket.... After he learned that I was into BDSM he decided to test the waters and try putting me in it. I didn't really take much convincing. I love that thing. While it used to be used primarily for dominance play, it's not more like my security blanket, and a reward. If I've been a good girl, I'm allowed to snuggle up to him in my jacket and fall asleep against him. It's far more relaxing than I ever would have imagined.
Originally posted by
StrawberryEve
I'm very curious as to what everyone else started out with, because my own first toy came to me in a rather amusing way.
01/10/2011
Under the Bed restraints and Spartacus crop.
01/22/2011
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Mine was a collar. I've always loved collars.
Originally posted by
StrawberryEve
I'm very curious as to what everyone else started out with, because my own first toy came to me in a rather amusing way.
01/23/2011
I bought them while on a trip to New York. I wore them off and on for a few days. I was so excited. I still have and very much love them.
01/25/2011
Mine was clothes pins nipple clamps.....oh so good
01/25/2011
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Wrist cuffs, that is.
Originally posted by
TheSinDoll
I bought them while on a trip to New York. I wore them off and on for a few days. I was so excited. I still have and very much love them.
01/26/2011
Rope and still a fav!!
01/27/2011
Many years ago, early in our marriage, my wife attended a toy party and purchased Rachel's Play-Pak
It was actually a pretty nice starter set. Wrist, ankle and thigh restraints along with a pair of tethers. It was perfect for us at the time. We used it in every possible configuration. Good times.
It was actually a pretty nice starter set. Wrist, ankle and thigh restraints along with a pair of tethers. It was perfect for us at the time. We used it in every possible configuration. Good times.
01/27/2011
It was a light bondage kit. We don't use it much anymore, I'm thinking of getting some plushy cuffs with a paddle to rekinddle interest for my partner.
02/01/2011
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I guess you could consider it a paddle of sorts...
Originally posted by
StrawberryEve
I'm very curious as to what everyone else started out with, because my own first toy came to me in a rather amusing way.
My first BDSM toy was a 5 gallon paint stirrer stick from Home Depot. I still love to be spanked with those.
02/02/2011
Oh wow. I actually have no idea! It was so long ago that I really can't remember. It was *probably* a collar or leash.
02/03/2011
Wrist cuffs. I'm a sucker for a pretty/strong pair of cuffs.
02/03/2011
I got an underbed restraint kit by sportsheets. They had it at Spencer's when I was about 15, I HAD to have it! And so began the trip down the twisted slippery slope
02/04/2011
It was a kit: a blindfold, cuffs and a rubber whip.
02/19/2011
Plain ol' handcuffs.
02/19/2011
The 1st thing we got was wrist cuffs that connected to a leather collar. We recentely just bought our 1st crop.
02/19/2011
My first was handcuffs...seems like forever ago, haha.
02/19/2011
Lame metal handcuffs were where I started out
02/20/2011
My first was a crop, I still love using it. After that came a collar.
02/20/2011
My first toy was a humbler with crusher attachment I was 16 and me and my best mate thought we would like to try it as it looked interesting never looked back and shes still my best mate even after some of the stuff i have been through
02/23/2011
Wrist and ankle cuffs, that tied to the bed. Escape wasnt an option, lol.
03/05/2011
I made our 1st toy. It was a flogger. I formed the handle out of an erotic peice of wood that was in my father-inlaws shop. I made the handle about 8 inches long and formed it with ridges for gripping but also for sensation play if inserted. The lashes are made out of flease that is braded together. There are a total of 13 lashes one for each year of marrage. That was 12 years ago and we still break it out once and a while. Is a very cool toy, and oh so soft but oh so naughty.
03/05/2011
Technically, my first toy was a nylon rope from the local grocery/hardware store back in my freshman year of college. With only a debit card and a paranoia of someone seeing my purchase history, I didn't want to buy anything from a sex shop or online, Ha. It was good for practicing knots, but horrible actually put into practice (ouch!), but it was a learning experience. Tied myself to a desk and couldn't get out of it on my own, missed one of my lectures. So, safety scissors were my next purchase.
Fast forwarding a few years, my first actual BDSM toy purchase was a roll of bondage tape, which I still have fun with to this day. Disposable, versatile, and you can make outfits out of it, blindfolds, or gags, which is fun. While I can't tie any knots with it, it still gets pulled out of the toy box more often than my rope, simply because it's quicker and easier to play with in the dark, my Dom knows I like rope, but he's still learning to tie knots.
Fast forwarding a few years, my first actual BDSM toy purchase was a roll of bondage tape, which I still have fun with to this day. Disposable, versatile, and you can make outfits out of it, blindfolds, or gags, which is fun. While I can't tie any knots with it, it still gets pulled out of the toy box more often than my rope, simply because it's quicker and easier to play with in the dark, my Dom knows I like rope, but he's still learning to tie knots.
03/06/2011
an collar shortly followed by a rubber flogger
03/13/2011
Clothespins--a classic!
03/13/2011
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cuffs
Originally posted by
StrawberryEve
I'm very curious as to what everyone else started out with, because my own first toy came to me in a rather amusing way.
04/02/2011
The first BDSM toy I bought for myself were the etherea silk cuffs. They aren't terribly rough and tumble though
04/02/2011