A pair of fuzzy red wrist cuffs, though we barely use them.
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What was your 1st BDSM toy?
04/02/2011
Wrist Cuffs
04/02/2011
Handcuffs were the first.
04/07/2011
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My first toy was actually a flogger that I made with the help of my then-boyfriend. It was completely for show and was never used for any actual flogging (for goodness sakes...I actually put little silver beads at the end of the falls! I can't imagine how much that would have hurt if I'd ever actually used it. LMAO).
Originally posted by
StrawberryEve
I'm very curious as to what everyone else started out with, because my own first toy came to me in a rather amusing way.
04/22/2011
Early in my marriage, I went with my sister to a sex toy party and on a whim, I purchased a nice starter set that includes wrist, thigh, and ankle restraints. My husband was pleasantly surprised when I showed him and we still use the set today.
04/22/2011
Technically speaking, nylon rope. But I braided it into my first flogger.
04/23/2011
Mine was a wrist and ankle cuff set
04/23/2011
Mine was a collar my first dominant partner gifted me.
04/24/2011
Mine was a pair of plain metal cuffs. I'm not really interested in them now - there's too many other nice ones I prefer.
04/25/2011
I bought multiple items initially: flogger, velcro wrist and ankle cuffs, and rope!
04/25/2011
I just recently bought my first actual "toy". Most of them have been given to others, but I have a wrist and ankle cuff set that I will be trying out soon. About 15 years ago I would use neckties for ropes and that was the first foray into BDSM play, gradually introed some cuffs, but I still like getting out the neckties...I am a very infrequent player, but look to try some more out in the future.
04/25/2011
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First was a paddle then cuffs and it has just grown from there.
Originally posted by
StrawberryEve
I'm very curious as to what everyone else started out with, because my own first toy came to me in a rather amusing way.
04/25/2011
A collar! I have had multiple collars for long before I got any other BDSM toys. :3
04/29/2011
Crops, whips, blindfold and more.
04/30/2011
Hmm. I actually don't think I've had a "real" toy of this nature till coming here. Till now, I just improvised!
08/09/2011
My first item was a crop I guess I did have a cheap pair of fluffy cuffs before that, but they never saw any action, so they don't count, lol
08/10/2011
black rope
08/12/2011
Clamps were my firsts.
08/14/2011
Mine were fuzzy pink handcuffs.
08/16/2011
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I've lived in San Francisco for several years and still have yet to make it to Folsom Street Fair. I keep saying "maybe this year."
Originally posted by
Sir
Mm, I want to go there so badly this upcoming year.
My first BDSM accessory was a collar. Admittedly I bought it because it was pretty and fit my gothy aesthetic but I definitely used it for "nefarious purposes."
08/17/2011
A scarf haha lots of uses.
08/19/2011
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The two best things in the world -- kink and Ren fairs!
Originally posted by
StrawberryEve
My first toy came to me when I went to a Renaissance festival with a large group of friends. I was mooning over this small black leather cat-o-nine-tails style flogger, but I was out of cash. So one of my friends offered to spot me the cash. He had
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My first toy came to me when I went to a Renaissance festival with a large group of friends. I was mooning over this small black leather cat-o-nine-tails style flogger, but I was out of cash. So one of my friends offered to spot me the cash. He had no clue I was wanting to be a Domme, but the rest of my friends knew. When we all met back up at the end of the day, I heard people say "Oh god, she found the ye olde medieval sex toy wall". The guy who bought me the flogger looked very confused, and I explained that I was really into BDSM. His face was redder than the yarn they tied the tails together with for the rest of the day.
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08/20/2011
Vegan jaguar cuffs
08/20/2011
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Our first bdsm toy was a crop from a store downtown Vancouver
Originally posted by
StrawberryEve
I'm very curious as to what everyone else started out with, because my own first toy came to me in a rather amusing way.
08/24/2011
My first bdsm toys were all pervertables - a wooden hairbrush very similar to this one if not this exact one]; both this style and this style clothespins; toy handcuffs; a variety of sizes of binder clips; tiny hair clips; and the twisty rod from a set of blinds.
The first official bdsm toys I purchased were this fur-lined paddle; these tong-style nipple clamps; and this cheeky slapper crop.
I've loved every single one of these toys (with the exception of the rod from the blinds) and continue to use most to this day.
The first official bdsm toys I purchased were this fur-lined paddle; these tong-style nipple clamps; and this cheeky slapper crop.
I've loved every single one of these toys (with the exception of the rod from the blinds) and continue to use most to this day.
08/24/2011
Q: What was your 1st BDSM toy?
A: My Man's hand smacking my butt.
A: My Man's hand smacking my butt.
08/24/2011
I didnt read everyone's posts before voting but I voted for other because I bought the undermatress bed straps, but then remembered for my 18th birthday my friends bought me some fuzzy hand cuffs. Completely forgot about those before voting, lol.
08/24/2011
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Collar! And it is still my fav one! *_*
Originally posted by
StrawberryEve
I'm very curious as to what everyone else started out with, because my own first toy came to me in a rather amusing way.
08/25/2011
A collar that my friend's older sister got me when I was 13/14.
08/25/2011
yay for ebay XD
they served their purpose well though! Need some sturdier things though. Maybe by an artisan instead of a company
they served their purpose well though! Need some sturdier things though. Maybe by an artisan instead of a company
08/31/2011