What was your 1st BDSM toy?

Contributor: PuddlePuppy PuddlePuppy
Mine was a home made rope cored black duct tape flogger.
08/31/2011
Contributor: domsub1993 domsub1993
Quote:
Originally posted by StrawberryEve
I'm very curious as to what everyone else started out with, because my own first toy came to me in a rather amusing way.
Ankle/wrist bed restraint!
08/31/2011
Contributor: qqqqqqqqqqqq qqqqqqqqqqqq
I was 16 and lived in a very conservative christian household in which BDSM was considered to be very wrong. I ended up going to a friends house and giving him money for a collar, which he bought online for me and had it shipped to his address instead.
09/01/2011
Contributor: JRabbits JRabbits
Mine was a set of silky sash restraints.
09/01/2011
Contributor: Jimmy Stevenson Jimmy Stevenson
Handcuffs, at the time seemed pretty extreme, now it is pretty vanilla. I'm looking to try shocking soon, but I don't think she is as excited.
09/03/2011
Contributor: SiNn SiNn
Quote:
Originally posted by StrawberryEve
I'm very curious as to what everyone else started out with, because my own first toy came to me in a rather amusing way.
cuffss and collar baught same day
09/03/2011
Contributor: Jimmy Stevenson Jimmy Stevenson
Handcuffs
09/04/2011
Contributor: Errant Venture Errant Venture
My first was a pair of handcuffs. I loved those things! Until I lost them a while ago . But my first 'real' BDSM toy was a cane, long before I was even into BDSM. Sadly, it broke when it impacted the lampshade, rather than my ex's tush.
09/08/2011
Contributor: faust faust
Bondage rope, of course
09/10/2011
Contributor: Eva Schwaltz Eva Schwaltz
A black spiked collar.
09/12/2011
Contributor: strawberrystwstd strawberrystwstd
Quote:
Originally posted by StrawberryEve
I'm very curious as to what everyone else started out with, because my own first toy came to me in a rather amusing way.
wax!
09/15/2011
Contributor: mistressg mistressg
Really cheap handcuffs.
09/15/2011
Contributor: Love Perpetua Love Perpetua
Mine were the under-the-bed restraints from Sportsheets. Wrist cuffs & ankle cuffs, perfect for being tied up spread-eagle on the bed! Mmmm. I wish I hadn't left those at my ex's place.
09/16/2011
Contributor: geliebt geliebt
The first one we actually bought was a collar, years ago. It was a really simple thing and has long since broken
09/19/2011
Contributor: Rawhide Rawhide
Unless you count improvised toys (duct tape, rubber bands, etc) my first piece of dedicated bondage equipment was a set of wrist cuffs
09/19/2011
Contributor: Collogue Collogue
Quote:
Originally posted by StrawberryEve
I'm very curious as to what everyone else started out with, because my own first toy came to me in a rather amusing way.
my FIRST first was a pair of metal handcuffs from ebay.. those never reallllly got used. my first thing that got used in a real way were black leather wrist and ankle cuffs from ebay. They soooo need to be replaced!
11/11/2011
Contributor: BlackxxxRose BlackxxxRose
My first bdsm toy was bed restraints. Then we added cuffs, various spanking toys, clamps and candles. Now we typically only use the spanking toys though.
11/20/2011
Contributor: Breas Breas
handcuffs.. the metal ones that hurt lol
11/20/2011
Contributor: (k)InkyIvy (k)InkyIvy
My first BDSM toy was a cheap set (though, I still have it). It was a set of fake leather wrist restraints that were attached by chain to a matching collar.
It's not sturdy enough to stand up to the rougher kind of play that we're into now, but it's still fun to use on occasion.
12/03/2011
Contributor: Jake'n'bake Jake'n'bake
Mine was 3 at once, actually. Clover clamps, a spreader bar and a flogger.
12/06/2011
Contributor: SweetieLuv SweetieLuv
whip here
12/19/2011
Contributor: SweetieLuv SweetieLuv
Quote:
Originally posted by LavenderSkies
Cuffs
cuffs came with my whip lol
12/19/2011
Contributor: KyotoAngel KyotoAngel
My first was a black nylon doggie collar I got at a pet store a few years before I became more open about my interest in BDSM.
Now that I'm open about it though I don't feel as awkward purchasing kinky toys. x'D
12/19/2011
Contributor: Ms. N Ms. N
Electric paddle
12/19/2011
Contributor: Allstars316 Allstars316
Collar, It was given to me by my owner. I'm a puppy.
12/19/2011
Contributor: SomeGirl SomeGirl
A very long time ago I bought my first "corset" and some rope. I approached the boy I was dating, while wearing my corset, and asked him to tie me up. He had no idea what to do, and I think it took him by surprise that I was kinky.

Since that day, I have expanded my collection of kinky toys, and it keeps growing.
12/19/2011
Contributor: hyacinthgirl hyacinthgirl
The first thing that I got was a ball gag.

I have some scarves and blindfolds and such, but those aren't exclusively kink gear. I wear the scarves now and again, and wear the blindfold every night because I'm light sensitive when I'm trying to sleep.
12/20/2011
Contributor: Vanille Vanille
My PawStar collar, which ended up being too heavy due to the giant O-ring.
12/20/2011
Contributor: Kendrir Kendrir
My first was the crave collar with clamps I purchased not too long ago. Love it
12/26/2011
Contributor: Entropy Entropy
Quote:
Originally posted by StrawberryEve
I'm very curious as to what everyone else started out with, because my own first toy came to me in a rather amusing way.
It wasn't really a toy. She put a ring on my pinkie and told me "You're mine now." We later traded the ring up for something more discreet, but it's still important to me.
12/28/2011