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Contributor: AK Bunny AK Bunny
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Originally posted by ichwillwaffels
My boyfriend does not like masturbation at all. He is going to be moving away and I know I'll end up doing it. Something about it feels wrong though since I know he doesn't like it, but it isn't like I have other options. Am I just ... more
Ok, you're asking the opinion of people on a sex toy site- its going to be biased. That said, masturbating is a personal thing and even if he's not into it (which I can honestly say I've never heard a guy say that), that doesn't mean you have to agree. Masturbating is normal and healthy and unless it gets in the way of your life, go for it and don't feel bad about it.
08/27/2012
Contributor: kitty1949 kitty1949
It's your body, hon. Do what you want.
08/28/2012
Contributor: Claire-Bear Claire-Bear
If he doesn't want you to masturbate, that's very strange. It's your body. You're not cheating or doing anything morally or legally wrong.
08/28/2012
Contributor: konicaguy konicaguy
Quote:
Originally posted by ichwillwaffels
My boyfriend does not like masturbation at all. He is going to be moving away and I know I'll end up doing it. Something about it feels wrong though since I know he doesn't like it, but it isn't like I have other options. Am I just ... more
Better to masturbate than to cheat! I like to watch my wife...
08/28/2012
Contributor: Kitten has left the site Kitten has left the site
You shouldn't let that hold you back. Personally I masturbate even when hubby tells me to wait up but hey, he likes it. You're boyfriend will just have to get used to the fact that you're a normal human being with sexual feelings and wants and needs.
08/28/2012
Contributor: mbrdr2012 mbrdr2012
Some of us are raised in households where masturbation is a terrible thing. It took me years to realize "touching myself" was not a bad thing. lol

Does he say why he thinks its a bad thing???
09/01/2012
Contributor: sXeVegan90 sXeVegan90
He makes his own choices, as do you, and I don't see why you shouldn't. It's not cheating on him, and it's healthier to do so. If you're sexual, denying your sexual urges could lead you to cheat, so it's better to masturbate and fulfill those urges.
09/05/2012
Contributor: mh12 mh12
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Originally posted by Rin (aka Nire)
Honestly, I can't see letting a boyfriend's opinion on the matter influence me to that degree. It'd be like being told that I'm not allowed to orgasm on my own terms. I understand not wanting to make him upset, but if you need or want ... more
yeah. im curious too. maybe that could help your problem.
11/05/2012
Contributor: mh12 mh12
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Originally posted by SaMiKaY
Better to masturbate than to cheat right!?
excellent response
11/05/2012
Contributor: sexytileena / absolutely love sex sexytileena / absolutely love sex
No its fine
11/05/2012
Contributor: LAndJ LAndJ
His choice, it's not like you'd be forcing it.
11/05/2012