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Naked Reader Book Club Discussion: The Ultimate Guide to Cunnilingus and The Ultimate Guide to Fellatio

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Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
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Originally posted by Alan & Michele
We read the Ultimate Guide to Cunnilingus, but haven't got the Fellatio guide yet. It's definitely on our "to do" list though!
I am quite curious about the cunnilingus guide now...
06/08/2010
Contributor: MuffysPinguLove MuffysPinguLove
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Originally posted by Andromeda
So I haven't read The Ultimate Guide to Fellatio, but it's definitely going on my wish list! Those of you who have read it, does it give any special tips for uncircumcised guys? What about multi-orgasmic guys?
It touches on everything involved with fellatio I can think of, including both uncircumcised guys and multi-orgasmic guys
06/08/2010
Contributor: Peg Peg
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Originally posted by LicentiouslyYours
Me too!
Ditto
06/08/2010
Contributor: MuffysPinguLove MuffysPinguLove
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Originally posted by Airen Wolf
I am quite curious about the cunnilingus guide now...
I actually just added the cunnilingus guide to my wishlist, it sounds just as awesome as the Fellatio guide!
06/08/2010
Contributor: Andromeda Andromeda
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Originally posted by MuffysPinguLove
It touches on everything involved with fellatio I can think of, including both uncircumcised guys and multi-orgasmic guys
Awesome! Definitely going to have to pick this one up then.

As far as how-to's go.. I've read them before, but I've found that very few of them have anything new to offer. Looks like this one does, though.
06/08/2010
Contributor: ♥ Amanda ♥ ♥ Amanda ♥
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Originally posted by Alan & Michele
Ms. Blue has done it, or else I'm just a weird guy. Her chapters were broken up into many short sub-sections and written in a style that held my interest pretty well.
Don't think I have heard of that one. I must look into this. Thanks A&M
06/08/2010
Contributor: LicentiouslyYours LicentiouslyYours
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Originally posted by Andromeda
So I haven't read The Ultimate Guide to Fellatio, but it's definitely going on my wish list! Those of you who have read it, does it give any special tips for uncircumcised guys? What about multi-orgasmic guys?
This is something I want to know more about as well, the multi-orgasmic guy. It's one of the few mysteries left in my sexual exploration.

Does the book cover that at all?
06/08/2010
Contributor: ♥ Amanda ♥ ♥ Amanda ♥
From experience I have found that when giving oral sex to the "man",after coming he is way more sensitive than coming from intercourse. It would be very interesting to know why. Is this topic covered?
06/08/2010
Contributor: MuffysPinguLove MuffysPinguLove
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Originally posted by LicentiouslyYours
This is something I want to know more about as well, the multi-orgasmic guy. It's one of the few mysteries left in my sexual exploration.

Does the book cover that at all?
It mentions it under the chapter The Anatomy of A Man's Pleasure and also states that a book called The Multi-Orgasmic Man, by Douglas Abrams Arava and Mantak Chia, "revolutionized the way Western men control their orgasms." So, if your specifically looking for information on the multi-orgasmic man that may be a good book to pick up
06/08/2010
Contributor: clp clp
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Originally posted by MuffysPinguLove
It mentions it under the chapter The Anatomy of A Man's Pleasure and also states that a book called The Multi-Orgasmic Man, by Douglas Abrams Arava and Mantak Chia, "revolutionized the way Western men control their orgasms." So, if your ... more
Whoa. Perfect. Looking it up right now..

I'd think that is one book everyone could get behind!
06/08/2010
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
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Originally posted by Alan & Michele
It's normal, and will level off eventually. It's nice to see that a book has finally addressed that issue though, because it's something that sends most of us running to the doc at some point.
It's good to know that it's normal. Something most guys don't talk about but as I'm learning happens to em all...it's sad they don't talk about it!
06/08/2010
Contributor: Kristina Wright Kristina Wright
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Originally posted by Andromeda
So I haven't read The Ultimate Guide to Fellatio, but it's definitely going on my wish list! Those of you who have read it, does it give any special tips for uncircumcised guys? What about multi-orgasmic guys?
There isn't a specific chapter on uncircumcised men, but Violet does address the issue of cut vs. uncut. She does talk about the physiology of male arousal and references the book The Multi-Orgasmic Man for further information.
06/08/2010
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
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Originally posted by Andromeda
So I haven't read The Ultimate Guide to Fellatio, but it's definitely going on my wish list! Those of you who have read it, does it give any special tips for uncircumcised guys? What about multi-orgasmic guys?
Absolutely pages of info for uncut guys and their lovers! Multi orgasmic guys get special mention. It is very very all inclusive!
06/08/2010
Contributor: Andromeda Andromeda
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Originally posted by LicentiouslyYours
This is something I want to know more about as well, the multi-orgasmic guy. It's one of the few mysteries left in my sexual exploration.

Does the book cover that at all?
My boyfriend is actually naturally multi-orgasmic, though it's also something fairly easily learned. I wouldn't be surprised if there are certain oral techniques that enhance that ability, or use it to its fullest.
06/08/2010
Contributor: Andromeda Andromeda
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Originally posted by Airen Wolf
Absolutely pages of info for uncut guys and their lovers! Multi orgasmic guys get special mention. It is very very all inclusive!
Wooo! I'm excited to read this
06/08/2010
Contributor: Kristina Wright Kristina Wright
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Originally posted by LicentiouslyYours
This is something I want to know more about as well, the multi-orgasmic guy. It's one of the few mysteries left in my sexual exploration.

Does the book cover that at all?
Laurel ~ I would consider Violet's guide a good overview of all areas of fellatio. There really isn't any topic she doesn't touch on. And if you have more questions, she provides a very thorough list of references for information!
06/08/2010
Contributor: Kayla Kayla
I actually love reading how-to sex guides. It's amazing how much information can be contained in them. I try to read any one that I can manage to get my hands on.

I honestly haven't read any of Violet Blue's guides. I know I have her Fetish book next up for reading, but I haven't started it quite yet. From flipping through it, it looks like a good book though.
06/08/2010
Contributor: Kristina Wright Kristina Wright
I just wanted to mention that both books include erotic fiction by Alison Tyler, the editor of our previous book club discussion book, Afternoon Delight. Her stories very nicely complement Violet's friendly, informative tone.
06/08/2010
Contributor: ♥ Amanda ♥ ♥ Amanda ♥
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Originally posted by Kristina Wright
I just wanted to mention that both books include erotic fiction by Alison Tyler, the editor of our previous book club discussion book, Afternoon Delight. Her stories very nicely complement Violet's friendly, informative tone.
Okay, fellow peeps I am out for the night! Thanks for another great discussion and for all the info. Have a great night!
06/08/2010
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
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Originally posted by Kristina Wright
I just wanted to mention that both books include erotic fiction by Alison Tyler, the editor of our previous book club discussion book, Afternoon Delight. Her stories very nicely complement Violet's friendly, informative tone.
Loved Afternoon Delight and after reading snippets of Ms. Tyler's stories I am hooked...she is one talented lady!
06/08/2010
Contributor: MuffysPinguLove MuffysPinguLove
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Originally posted by Kristina Wright
I just wanted to mention that both books include erotic fiction by Alison Tyler, the editor of our previous book club discussion book, Afternoon Delight. Her stories very nicely complement Violet's friendly, informative tone.
I loved the erotic fiction and the pictures included in The Ultimate Guide to Fellatio, I thought they were a nice addition to the book.
06/08/2010
Contributor: Andromeda Andromeda
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Originally posted by Kristina Wright
I just wanted to mention that both books include erotic fiction by Alison Tyler, the editor of our previous book club discussion book, Afternoon Delight. Her stories very nicely complement Violet's friendly, informative tone.
The included erotica might be a good way of getting my bf to read the cunnilingus book :p
06/08/2010
Contributor: LicentiouslyYours LicentiouslyYours
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Originally posted by Kristina Wright
Laurel ~ I would consider Violet's guide a good overview of all areas of fellatio. There really isn't any topic she doesn't touch on. And if you have more questions, she provides a very thorough list of references for information!
I previously hadn't seriously considered either book, to be honest, but after reading her Guide to Porn and this discussion I will get both.
06/08/2010
Contributor: Kristina Wright Kristina Wright
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Originally posted by Andromeda
Wooo! I'm excited to read this
Violet also includes information for pierced guys!
06/08/2010
Contributor: Kristina Wright Kristina Wright
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Originally posted by LicentiouslyYours
I previously hadn't seriously considered either book, to be honest, but after reading her Guide to Porn and this discussion I will get both.
I think her guides appeal because they're the kind of books you'll read through once and then go back to later for reminders on specific techniques.
06/08/2010
Contributor: MuffysPinguLove MuffysPinguLove
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Originally posted by Kristina Wright
Violet also includes information for pierced guys!
I liked that she included a picture of the different kinds of piercings. I've never dated a guy who was pierced and I didn't really know what the different piercings looked like, but the picture helped clear that up
06/08/2010
Contributor: Peg Peg
Have a good night everyone.
06/08/2010
Contributor: Kristina Wright Kristina Wright
One aspect of Violet's guides I find particularly interesting is that this isn't the kind of book you hand to your lover and say, "Here! Learn what to do!" It's the kind of book that invites you to start a conversation with your partner, which sections speaking directly to the recipient and offering suggestions on how to make the most of his/her experience.

I find that many "how-to" articles about oral sex (or any kind of sex, really) put all the responsibility for pleasure on the one who is giving oral sex. This makes the act seem like something the giver is "performing" while the recipient is simply a passive participant. Violet addresses oral sex for what it is-- a mutually satisfying experience requiring two active and engaged participants.
06/08/2010
Contributor: Kristina Wright Kristina Wright
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Originally posted by MuffysPinguLove
I liked that she included a picture of the different kinds of piercings. I've never dated a guy who was pierced and I didn't really know what the different piercings looked like, but the picture helped clear that up
Ditto! I don't personally know any pierced men, but I found the information fascinating. I'm sure that just proves some dusty old Freudian theory...
06/08/2010
Contributor: Kristina Wright Kristina Wright
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Originally posted by Airen Wolf
Loved Afternoon Delight and after reading snippets of Ms. Tyler's stories I am hooked...she is one talented lady!
She most certainly is! As a fiction writer and someone who usually chooses a novel over a self-help book, I found the stories in these guides to be creative and inspiring. They're like little mini-desserts after you've gotten the how-to "main course!"
06/08/2010