I recently had a miscarriage so i was told that it wasnt safe for me toget pregnant for 1-2 years. it could be fatal to both me and the baby. so with that being said i would sadfully haave to abort. it would be heartbreaking but lifesaving.
If you found out you were pregnant today...
01/16/2013
We have 2 boys right now (3 yrs and 5 1/2 mo) so I would be on the fence, but think I would be mostly happy. But then worried about bills and stuff because its hard enough with 2 for us right now.
01/20/2013
For me it would depend on who the babys daddy is.
01/20/2013
Oh, that's rough. This is not the time in my life, I need to work on that first.
01/21/2013
I'd do something about it. No way can I have a kid. It would ruin our lives.
01/21/2013
I'd be surprised, one because I'm not ready for a child and two I'm on my period right now so I would wonder what was up.
01/21/2013
I would be extremely scared. It's not that I wouldn't want the baby, but because of my IUD. Not safe for either the baby or me. Extremely dangerous.
02/25/2013
I would get an abortion.
02/26/2013
id be confised
02/26/2013
I would love to have another child.
02/26/2013
I would be overwhelmed because we already have two kids and are happy with our family as is and my husband had a vastetomy so is would definitely be unplanned. That being said, we have always agreed that if I would get pregnant after his surgery, it was meant to be and we would embrace it as a blessing.
02/26/2013
Ecstatic that I could be so at my older age when I gave it up so long ago....
02/27/2013
Worried, anxious, upset. I would definitely get abortion. I don't want a child right now and I don't think I ever will.
02/27/2013
i would not be happy at all
02/27/2013
I would be confused because I haven't done anything sexual for awhile.
02/27/2013
I don't want to get pregnant but if I ended up pregnant I would keep my baby.
02/27/2013
I am in no position for a baby. Too much work and school.
02/27/2013
I would not know what to do about that in my current situation, and it would be complicated on every possible level. But... I have one child, and I would probably figure a way to make it work out, even on my own. I don't think I could go through with an abortion even if it was convenient. Adoption, maybe.
03/10/2013
I'd be very confused because my partner is sterile. But I would also be relieved because I would probably be having a lot of mood-swing sympoms/etc and not know what was going on until I find out I'm pregnant. I'd have an abortion, because the safety of the child would be at stake if i took testosterone.
03/10/2013
I'd abort it immediately and have some words with my doctor who successfully sterilized me. If it somehow failed, I'd expect a re-do free of charge!
03/11/2013
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I am sorry for your loss.
Originally posted by
KinkyNicki92
I recently had a miscarriage so i was told that it wasnt safe for me toget pregnant for 1-2 years. it could be fatal to both me and the baby. so with that being said i would sadfully haave to abort. it would be heartbreaking but lifesaving.
03/11/2013
I would just feel horrible
03/11/2013
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FREAK OUT since my tubes are tied!!
Originally posted by
Lildrummrgurl7
If you or your partner found out you were pregnant today, with your current life situation, how would you feel and what would you choose to do?
03/11/2013
I'd freak out. I'm 20 and a college drop out with only a little work here and then. I couldn't support a child and I can't even think about having to make a decision like abortion or adoption. I actually worry about this because I am on depo but me and my bf have unprotected sex and I do fear becoming that 1 in 100 statistic. :O
03/12/2013
I Would be pretty freaked out because i just had a baby thats 7 months old so having another right now would be crazy and not in the plan but i would of course keep it and love it unconditionally and enjoy having two babies. I would then march my husband down and have him immediately snipped, no more babies after that.
03/12/2013
We're thinking of trying for #2 right away, so if #2 wants to come along on their own terms before then, yay! Trying was not so much fun last time around, so I'd really rather it happen on it's own this next time. I'd be worried and anxious too, though. I'm not back on my prenatals and supplements yet, need to be eating better, etc. before we go for #2
03/15/2013
I'd want to contact the news or head to The Vatican to report my immaculate conception, as it's been several years since I've been touched. I can't help but laugh hysterically when a doctor asks if I may be pregnant. I give them the immaculate conception answer too.
Seriously though, if I was sexually active, I'd be scared sh*tless. I'm not in a position in life where I can afford taking care of me, much less anyone else. I like kids, don't want to have them. I'd give the child up for adoption, I wouldn't do an abortion as it was my/his/both our faults for not being more careful. That being said if I was raped, I'm going to abort. I'm not going to carry a reminder of that for 9 months and possibly have one in my life even longer.
Seriously though, if I was sexually active, I'd be scared sh*tless. I'm not in a position in life where I can afford taking care of me, much less anyone else. I like kids, don't want to have them. I'd give the child up for adoption, I wouldn't do an abortion as it was my/his/both our faults for not being more careful. That being said if I was raped, I'm going to abort. I'm not going to carry a reminder of that for 9 months and possibly have one in my life even longer.
03/15/2013
Definitely hope that I do not have to deal with this situation. I am definitely not ready for kids. I don't actually think I want them ever.
03/15/2013
Upset
03/19/2013
I would be HAPPY, I got my tubes tied during my previous marriage that I just knew would last forever.... then after 9 years divorced. I am married again and wish more than anything I could have a child with him.
06/27/2013