And yet the pool of adopted children as opposed to the pool of children raised by their bio families is much smaller so the results are going to be skewed. Not all adopted kids feel blessed, not all of them do better than children left in their bio-parents homes on ANY test.

There are a ton of issues with adoption that aren't being brought up here and this isn't the place to discuss them. The only thing that can be said is if you don't agree with abortion DON'T HAVE ONE. Freedom of choice is our right as humans and until that fetus is an infant the body it is growing in belongs to the woman. It is HER choice and SHE will face the consequences. Unless you are willing to adopt and care for EVERY child of every woman denied the right to choose you have no right to call the women names or shame them. Unless YOU are willing to be the adopted mama of every unwanted child you don't have the right to scream you are the better person! Sure there are parents out there looking to adopt that cute little bundles of joy but are they FIT parents? You can't know and since you don't have the time to check up on EVERY SINGLE ONE of them then the point is moot.
Want to make a difference in a baby's life? Find a scared woman and pay her way until the child is born and then raise it as your own...THEN you have walked your talk. It's easy to judge...not so easy to be judged.
For the record I was told I was unfit to be an adoptive parent because I was Wiccan and we are middle income...so NO not every family who wants a baby is deemed WORTHY to have one "GIFTED" to them. Stormy is right there are children who wait for their entire childhoods for someone to be deemed worthy to parent them...ask any gay couple what I mean.
Walk a mile, people, walk a mile... less