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Contributor: Mrs.Tee Mrs.Tee
Quote:
Originally posted by Lildrummrgurl7
If you or your partner found out you were pregnant today, with your current life situation, how would you feel and what would you choose to do?
Confused because i am on birth control
12/01/2012
Contributor: atryonix atryonix
I would be very confused since I can;t have anymore kids but I would be happy about it too
12/01/2012
Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
I already have three beautiful babies, but I feel done. I have an IUD and my first fear would be having a miscarriage when it would be removed. I would be overwhelmed and worried, but happy to a small degree. I love being a mom, and would welcome another surprise into our family if it came to that.
12/01/2012
Contributor: Rory Rory
The only man I have sex with got a vasectomy 11 years ago!!!
12/01/2012
Contributor: KrazyKandy KrazyKandy
My heart would drop but I would be happy.
12/12/2012
Contributor: No-nita No-nita
NOPE nope nope nope. No babies for me, not now, not ever. I would flip my shit if I spent hundreds of dollars on an IUD and was looking into sterilization only to have it fail. I would absolutely be heading to a clinic within the HOUR I found out. Not happening.
12/12/2012
Contributor: EdenG EdenG
Quote:
Originally posted by sexxxkitten
Worried and overwhelmed for sure. I would keep it.
same here. Even though I think we would be good parents we are by no means in a position where we could take care of a child the way I think one should be raised (money, size of home, etc..etc)
12/12/2012
Contributor: Raymaker Raymaker
I guess I'll be getting an appointment for the abortion of the next messiah because I'm a virgin.
12/12/2012
Contributor: Robespierrethecat Robespierrethecat
I'd be confused. I'm on birth control and it's been working great. If somehow I was pregnant, I would definitely have an abortion. It's not something I'd have to think twice about. I'm not ready for children or pregnancy.
12/12/2012
Contributor: woodsdragon woodsdragon
We both want kids but right now financially is not a great time. However, if we found we were pregnant, we would keep the baby and find a way to make it work!
12/12/2012
Contributor: LeeBee LeeBee
I would abort as soon as possible. My body cannot physically handle a pregnancy, and some of the medications that I need to be on would harm the fetus.
12/13/2012
Contributor: Martiniman Martiniman
Since I've had a vasectomy I'd be very upset. Yeah, I know they're not 100%, but I'm just answering the basic question.
12/18/2012
Contributor: Upyourreviews Upyourreviews
Quote:
Originally posted by Lildrummrgurl7
If you or your partner found out you were pregnant today, with your current life situation, how would you feel and what would you choose to do?
I would be distraught but I would do my best to be a good parent anyways.
12/18/2012
Contributor: Adriana Ravenlust Adriana Ravenlust
I would wonder how the fuck.
12/18/2012
Contributor: RavenInChains RavenInChains
Quote:
Originally posted by Lildrummrgurl7
If you or your partner found out you were pregnant today, with your current life situation, how would you feel and what would you choose to do?
I would definitely be confused, since I have an IUD birth control. I'd be very upset and overwhelmed as well because of finances. We have one child and we aren't ready for another.

However my choice to parent or seek an abortion would depend on my doctors opinion. Getting pregnant on an IUD can be dangerous. If it could be removed safely then I'd choose to parent, if there was any risk of complication or potential for harm to the child I'd get an abortion.
12/22/2012
Contributor: Intrepid Niddering Intrepid Niddering
I'd be completely freaking out, worried, anxious, confused. I'd be terrified. I'm a huge worrier. However, I believe I would parent it or put it up for adoption. I would not abort unless absolutely necessary.
12/22/2012
Contributor: my name my name
Happy
12/29/2012
Contributor: ARPKasso ARPKasso
Very confused.
01/04/2013
Contributor: Trysexual Trysexual
Its highly impossible it could happen to us..so confused.
01/04/2013
Contributor: Bittenflame Bittenflame
It would have to be the coming of jesus christ again lol
01/04/2013
Contributor: wrecklesswords wrecklesswords
First of all I'd be confused since I'm in a lesbian relationship and neither of us are actively seeking anything to aid in either of us getting pregnant.

But, if we were, I'd be overwhelmed since neither of us are in any shape to fully take care of ourselves financially, let alone another human life.

She and I are still too young and too torn between if we want/are ready for children. We know that if we stay together for several more years, we might be ready to maturely and seriously discuss it. But as for right now, we are not ready to be parents. We are barely ready to be adults. She is 23 and I'm 25. We have some growing up to do before we can raise a child. Not only that, but we need careers, not jobs.
01/04/2013
Contributor: TexasBrat TexasBrat
If I found out I was pregnant, I'd believe in immaculate conception. I haven't had sex with another person in almost 8 months.
01/05/2013
Contributor: Beautiful-Disaster Beautiful-Disaster
confused..
01/05/2013
Contributor: Beautiful-Disaster Beautiful-Disaster
well... actually i think i'd feel pretty much every emotion possible.
01/05/2013
Contributor: gorgeous gorgeous
Scared.... Terrified... but I would keep my baby
01/05/2013
Contributor: RedGlitter RedGlitter
I'd be happy! BUT I'm certainly not TRYING to have one, now! I am not where I would like to be when I DO get pregnant, but I am happy in my relationship and we would have enough money (HOPEFULLY!) to have a baby.
01/05/2013
Contributor: marriedlady123 marriedlady123
Thrilled! But I think I'm in the minority here!
01/14/2013
Contributor: FlashFuchsia FlashFuchsia
I'd be pretty shocked if I woke up pregnant.
Since I'm a man.

Also because I DON'T KNOW NOTHIN ABOUT BIRTHIN NO BABIES MISS SCARLETT
01/14/2013
Contributor: kaykay0427 kaykay0427
I can't wait to have my second child....
01/14/2013
Contributor: falalena falalena
Quote:
Originally posted by Lildrummrgurl7
If you or your partner found out you were pregnant today, with your current life situation, how would you feel and what would you choose to do?
i would be happy and excited, but angry and upset at the same time. if possible, we would parent it.
01/16/2013