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How many sexual partners have you had?

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Contributor: Mister CreamySweet Mister CreamySweet
Quote:
Originally posted by Nashville
I know many of my friends and I used to "compare notes" of our sexual partners and how many we had. I had a running tally of how many men my best friend had been with which was remarkably easy to keep because it never exceeded past ... more
5 Before my wife - my wife- plus one after that was part of a couple the one and only time we ever met up with a couple and swapped but we all did it on the same bed... so 7. I was number 10 for my wife and she has had 16 since so 26. Plus a couple she has only given oral or hand jobs to - plus four chicks.
10/07/2011
Contributor: Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama
Wow. One - my husband of 32 years.
10/09/2011
Contributor: zeb zeb
Three
10/16/2011
Contributor: zeb zeb
Three
10/16/2011
Contributor: arewehavingfun? arewehavingfun?
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Originally posted by ScottA
Put me down as a single-partner guy, and I married her.
Good for you!!! I bet it was love at first sight for you. Keep it up--you are now on my list of the top 10 men!!!
10/28/2011
Contributor: arewehavingfun? arewehavingfun?
I started having sex at 21--I am now 28. I think I've had sex with 6 men--only 1 one night stand but we hit it off and I thought we were going to be together forever. He really jaded me and now I have a tough time trusting men around sex--alot of my women friends feel the same way. Even her some of the postings support my feelings.

How many of you men would come on to your gals after a big blowup, a cool down of an hour or so, and then you get together and without working on the problem just want to have sex and don't understand why your woman isn't interested?

For the women--does this sound all too familiar?
10/28/2011
Contributor: mudpie mudpie
About five, depending on how I choose to define sex.
11/13/2011
Contributor: eeep eeep
I've never been ashamed of my number, as its low but not inexperienced either. I do sometimes feel a bit inexperienced compared to some of my friends who have much higher numbers.
11/20/2011
Contributor: Art & Sensation Art & Sensation
One; my amazing girl.

And I seriously hope that won't ever change.
11/20/2011
Contributor: sweetcaroline sweetcaroline
as many as can get the job done :p
12/06/2011
Contributor: pixxie87 pixxie87
too many partners is a scary thought. how can ppl have so many partners? sex should be more than physical. sex is special and should be with someone special.
12/10/2011
Contributor: SaMiKaY SaMiKaY
I am on my 6th male partner, and that is where I intend on staying. =D
12/10/2011
Contributor: Beck Beck
More than 5 less than 10, 6males 2 females, so 8.
12/10/2011
Contributor: Megan Jean Megan Jean
Virgin in the house!
12/21/2011
Contributor: geliebt geliebt
I've had two. I think "normal" is whatever any one person decides is okay for them. I have no idea how many partners I'll have been with by the end of my life, and I don't really care!
01/04/2012
Contributor: BobbiJay BobbiJay
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Originally posted by Perish
Wow some has done a 100 people...that blows my mind lolz.
Me too kinda.
01/22/2012
Contributor: Teaser Teaser
I would like to see this poll set up differently, with single choices for 0 - 20 or so. 1 to 3 and 3 to 5 overlap and a person could actually be in both places. Interesting though.
02/01/2012
Contributor: Apirka Apirka
20 to 30 here... I'm too tired to actually really think about it and count at the moment. Though I could probably give you a more exact number of ones that I actually wanted to have sex with out of those.
02/02/2012
Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
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Originally posted by Oggins
Where's the option for "I don't remember." LOL! Perhaps I've now said too much......
ha, i was glad the higher numbers were in lump sums. i dont remember exactly either. i have a guesstimation though.

30-40. there, i said it. probably more like 40 if you count sex with gals. and more like i'm not even counting that high if things other than PIV or cunt on cunt sex count. sheeesh.
02/02/2012
Contributor: Brandonn Brandonn
high number
02/02/2012
Contributor: Badass Badass
there is no "too many", only sexual compulsion.. which is an awesome thing.
02/06/2012
Contributor: noelleish noelleish
none
02/18/2012
Contributor: Lano4ka Lano4ka
20-30
02/19/2012
Contributor: Sunshineamine Sunshineamine
Not a ridiculous amount but more than I would like. Hindsight is 20/20 though
02/19/2012
Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
I've been with two men. One was my ex husband, the other my husband now. Other than that, I've only kissed two guys (aside from the men I've slept with) and one boyfriend felt my breasts, haha...that was it!
02/19/2012
Contributor: sweetcuppincakes sweetcuppincakes
I expected to see higher numbers. Interesting.
02/19/2012
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by Nashville
I know many of my friends and I used to "compare notes" of our sexual partners and how many we had. I had a running tally of how many men my best friend had been with which was remarkably easy to keep because it never exceeded past ... more
Why do we think those who list 100+ are probably making it up or just having fun with that answer. Short of someone who is in the "sex trade", it would take a LOT of time and a WHOLE lot of work to get to those kind of numbers.
02/19/2012
Contributor: Ahatmadeofshoes12 Ahatmadeofshoes12
There is no such thing as "too many", "too few" or "normal". Everyone is different and everyone has completely different life experiences. I don't judge people for the number of partners they've had. There is nothing wrong with having sex with lots of people if one does it safely and consensually.
02/26/2012
Contributor: Harpina is gone Harpina is gone
I've had 6.
03/17/2012
Contributor: DiamondKoala DiamondKoala
4ish depending on how you count it, but only two were really considered an important event for me.
03/18/2012