So I've been reading some different threads on Edenfantasys in which vagina owners express their anxieties about their bits. They like a certain stimulation too much, not enough, they're too responsive or not enough.
I wanted to start this thread so we could all see how widespread anxiety about this part of our body is - and how we're not alone, or freakish or defective in anyway. This thread is open to posts from anyone that owns a vagina - whether you are a cis woman, trans man, genderqueer vagina owner or a trans woman (regardless of operation status or what your genitals look like, your anxieties about this body part are also more than welcome here). Those that do not relate to this subject in a firsthand way are more than welcome to listen - in fact, I strongly encourage it! - but are respectfully asked to not comment. I would really love to see this topic be a dialogue between those who share these anxieties, and sometimes the input of people that don't understand these issues firsthand can deter us from being totally honest. I do not mean to alienate anyone, just to create a safe space for this conversation. Like I said, EVERYONE is welcome to listen, and if you want to start a parallel thread for your input then by all means; I would actually love to read it.
So what are we talking about? Well, our insecurities, frustrations, hopes, goals, etc for this. It could be anything from not being able to have a vaginal orgasm to not being able to conceive to not actually having a vagina but enduring the pain and stress of body dysphoria. It can also be about what you love about your vagina or heck, what it's learning to do! Starting...now!
I wanted to start this thread so we could all see how widespread anxiety about this part of our body is - and how we're not alone, or freakish or defective in anyway. This thread is open to posts from anyone that owns a vagina - whether you are a cis woman, trans man, genderqueer vagina owner or a trans woman (regardless of operation status or what your genitals look like, your anxieties about this body part are also more than welcome here). Those that do not relate to this subject in a firsthand way are more than welcome to listen - in fact, I strongly encourage it! - but are respectfully asked to not comment. I would really love to see this topic be a dialogue between those who share these anxieties, and sometimes the input of people that don't understand these issues firsthand can deter us from being totally honest. I do not mean to alienate anyone, just to create a safe space for this conversation. Like I said, EVERYONE is welcome to listen, and if you want to start a parallel thread for your input then by all means; I would actually love to read it.
So what are we talking about? Well, our insecurities, frustrations, hopes, goals, etc for this. It could be anything from not being able to have a vaginal orgasm to not being able to conceive to not actually having a vagina but enduring the pain and stress of body dysphoria. It can also be about what you love about your vagina or heck, what it's learning to do! Starting...now!