I wish that was multi-choice! Ha Ha. I hate forceful men. That is one thing that will piss me off and cause me to never speak to a person again. I've been with my partner for 5 years now and he's VERY generous and kind and cares completely about my part of the fun. Actually he cares more about how much fun I have than his own! But I remember how many awful "Dates" I came in contact with. One in particular would whine when he didn't get it! Once he told me "Well, I was hoping to get some pussy and leave!" WTF?! That's just begging to be dumped, but only after you're bitch slapped first! Lol. He also was very demanding. Never forceful, but so rude and demanding that you'd do what he wanted out of fear. He was the type who could cut right to the bone with his cruel, belittling words. Yes, I wasn't as smart of a person back then. Hard to believe, right? Lol JK.

I hate when men whine when you don't put out. I hate when they get frustrated during forplay. I also hate that like my ex, some think it's a 'race' and think it's only for the male's pleasure, not the woman. I could go on, but I won't. Lol.

cumming before I do and falling asleep - then the next time I want to have sex he whinges that the fact that I don't cum from his penis alone makes him feel like less of a man!

Too much kissing annoys me.

Hate when men forget about foreplay

There were several choices that I could have chose that I just picked a random one of the 3 or so.

My man is the only sexual partner I've had, and he's super considerate and very caring to ensure we both have a fantastic experience. He does sometimes get a little eager and attack my clit too soon, which makes orgasm harder for me, so we had a good chat recently about foreplay. He caught on immediately - love it!

Trying out different kinds of condoms after we had our daughter. All in the same day, mind you.
Glow in the dark condom: "I have a lightsaber!"
Sheepskin condom: "Baaaaaaaaaaa!"
Ultra thin condom: " It came off like a slingshot!!"
Ribbed condom: "Meh. I don't get much out of it." Me: "But I do." Him: "So what?"
Ultra thick condom: "It's like not having sex at all" (I was on top.. I couldn't keep going after that last comment...)

I hate it when a man won't put out. I love sex, a lot, and of course, the ONE TIME I don't feel up to it, you think I ever hear the end of it? Course not.

Everything! i wish you HAD "all of the above" as a option

Or try to suffocate me trying to kiss me while I'm orgasming ..... I just want to cum not have to think about kissing. I cum too hard to do anything but that!

my hubby is a bit of a wierdo i guess lol, his biggest obsession is getting me to multiorgasm into a quivering little puddle then sit there with a smug look of male satisfaction after hes done as well. basically he considers it an off night for him if he doesnt get at least five screaming ones out of me o.O some nights i kinda wanna say 'dear i dont think i can handle that! lets just go rough and quick and go to sleep!' lol. so i kinda wish i could add the option of: he just doesnt quit!

Mine is usually really good about things. But sometimes goes right for it when it is dry. I end up having to spit a bunch in my hand so I do not get hurt. I hate that.

First one reminds me of my first boyfriend. Having really low self-confidence about it and complaining about it OFTEN, as though he was not good enough - regardless to anything I said or did - was VERY frustrating. Also, "forget about foreplay and go straight for your dry pussy". Seems to be the majority, and the issue with my current bf. Frustrating.

My man is super considerate, waits for me to cum first and if he just can't wait then he will not rest until I have cum too. The only thing that irks me is when he won't put out. I know he's tired sometimes but it's sex come on now! My sex drive is higher. I want it daily or every other but we usually end up about three times a week or so.

I hate when you're just making out, and the guy just unbuttons their pants, and then try to push your head down for a BJ. Seriously, it is annoying and makes me not even want to go there, even though I generally like it.

They all piss me off. Lol.

My ex would whine about having to use lube because it meant I wasn't getting turned on enough. I think he really resented me for not being wetter.

He quit wanting sex more than maybe twice a month, which had to be when he initiated. If I initiated, I'd get turned down, usually with complaints about how I was too demanding.

If he initiated and I wasn't responsive (which was pretty rare, due to me hardly ever getting any) then he'd complain. Once he tried to have sex when I had a really bad cold. I felt wretched, and he tried three or four times before he realized I really wasn't going to put out.

If he caught me masturbating, he'd laugh at me.

I guess it's not hard to tell why he's my ex.



Current bf is pretty good with foreplay and sex and afterplay. I guess the only real complaint is that he likes to give oral, and I don't particularly like to receive it. But I doubt I'm going to get much sympathy for that one.

The most annoying thing my ex did was give up entirely. For most of our (very short) marriage, he expected me to get him hard, myself wet, and climb on top of him and bounce until we were both done. If I wanted a different position, I had to ask (and he'd whine). If I wanted foreplay, I had to ask (and he'd whine). I know now it's because he was getting his fun sex elsewhere, so he didn't bother to try with me anymore.

I've only spent one weekend with my new partner, and he hasn't really done anything annoying. Maybe a little more foreplay, but he's only my second partner and we haven't known each other for long enough to have a great rhythm down yet. But he did not whine when I asked him for things, and he did not insist I get on top and get us both off by myself.

juice me up babie .

Wow, several things that are terrible for them to do listed. Hard to choose. I have never had a guy get off before me and call it quits, though if one did i'd likely hit him
Most annoying thing I had an ex do was stop altogether when he would get too close to cumming during sex, even when I didn't want him to. Was always like seconds before I would have gone.

My boyfriend right now is a REALLY giving lover, so most of these aren't really an issue. My biggest one is that I have a HUGE sex drive and his is more "normal." I will say though, he does have one issue that I hate to say anything about, but totally hate:
He grabs my legs like a steering wheel ALL THE TIME. That sounds terrible, but it drives me nuts. I'm not a car! He'll need to re-position and just grab my ankles and "steer" me however I need to go. It's awful. I feel like it's such a small thing that I don't REALLY want to complain that much, though.