I'm the same way. Sometimes he actually prevents me from taking a little sponge bath. I try to beg off, telling him "I'm sweaty." He says, "I want you sweaty and dirty!" LOL! (I'm not "dirty" but he likes the sound of talking like this.)

I think we women were raised with so much shame about our bodies in general and our genitals specifically, that we feel we have to do this. At least that's the way I feel.

Like some of the men have said, most men actually LOVE going down on their partners. Believe me, nothing makes a woman happier than to be told her man (or woman) loves to go down on her. My Man frequently tells me he does it because he LOVES to, and it feels so good to know he loves it.

Guys, TELL your partner you love it. You'll make her day, and most likely get laid more often. less