Before receiving oral, do you need to freshen up?

Contributor: married with children married with children
not unless I am dirty and stinky. but we do most of our playing at night before bed.
07/30/2011
Contributor: v23 v23
If I was dirty/sweaty or something, I'd want to shower . . . only so my whole body could be clean. I've never had an issue with being fresh down there.
07/30/2011
Contributor: AlaskanBeauty AlaskanBeauty
I have to... after whole day of sitting in the office in the leather chair...
08/08/2011
Contributor: null null
Depends on the day, and what I've been wearing.
08/08/2011
Contributor: Miss Anonymous Miss Anonymous
freshen up first.
08/15/2011
Contributor: mcl272 mcl272
always freshened up regardless of the situation. he doesn't require it, it's more of a lady like thing to me.
08/15/2011
Contributor: IslandGoddess IslandGoddess
It all depends
08/19/2011
Contributor: Kim! Kim!
I would so much rather hop into the shower first. It's generally the end of the day and I've been running around cleaning or out and about doing things and I'd really rather not have someone's face down there after that!
08/19/2011
Contributor: Kynky Kytty Kynky Kytty
It depends on days and how long ago my last shower was (previous night or the same morning changes things).
11/03/2011
Contributor: MrWishyWashy MrWishyWashy
I prefer to freshen up...
11/03/2011
Contributor: WhoopieDoo WhoopieDoo
If it's been a long or hot day, I need to freshen up. Otherwise, no.
11/03/2011
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
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Originally posted by Rossie
If your partner wants to go down on you in the middle of the day, do you call a halt and go freshen up first, or let him/her taste you on the spot?
It's polite to freshen up.
11/05/2011
Contributor: TameTemptress TameTemptress
I prefer to take a shower before bed, which is just when we usually have time to play...works out perfectly, but if I took a shower earlier in the day I don't run to freshen up first, and I don't run to freshen up if we happen to be able to sneak away for time to ourselves during the day either.
11/11/2011
Contributor: AmethystSmoke AmethystSmoke
I prefer to freshen up (he has never asked me to do so, though) if it's later in the day and I haven't showered since bedtime the night before but it's certainly not something I feel I have to do.

Like many others, we both shower before bed and since that's our usual play time it works out just fine.
11/11/2011
Contributor: GonetoLovehoney GonetoLovehoney
It depends on if I was aroused earlier and didn't clean up or if I've been sweating a lot. Otherwise,I don't need to freshen up, it's already clean.
11/11/2011
Contributor: tlaskowski tlaskowski
Quote:
Originally posted by Rossie
If your partner wants to go down on you in the middle of the day, do you call a halt and go freshen up first, or let him/her taste you on the spot?
sometimes on the spot but most of the time i need to go wash 1st to make me feel better
11/12/2011
Contributor: tlaskowski tlaskowski
Quote:
Originally posted by dezzydezire
I have to freshen up or im to worried to enjoy it.
agree!!!
11/12/2011
Contributor: tlaskowski tlaskowski
Quote:
Originally posted by Shellz31
I don't mind if a partner doesn't wash straight before - as long as I know their hygiene standards!
But I want to freshen up so I feel confident, directly before a partner performs oral on me.
im the same!
11/12/2011
Contributor: Breas Breas
I'd prefer to before hand yes
11/12/2011
Contributor: WetJenn WetJenn
Quote:
Originally posted by Rossie
If your partner wants to go down on you in the middle of the day, do you call a halt and go freshen up first, or let him/her taste you on the spot?
If I have been doing stuff that can cause me to sweat or something, I will go freshen up otherwise I will let him go to town. lol.
11/12/2011
Contributor: eeep eeep
If I've been working out, or doing something where I feel like I need to, then I go freshen up. Otherwise Let him at it on the spot. Women seem to worry about freshening up a lot, whereas most men never even think about cleaning themselves up before wanting us to go down on them. Seems a bit lopsided to me. Plus most guys seem more irritated at having to wait than worried about if she's tidied up first.
11/12/2011
Contributor: Art & Sensation Art & Sensation
More often than not we take a bath or shower before we have sex, so I voted yes.

It depends, but ever since she once commented that my crotch smelled like a subway during a quickie, I've been rather careful keeping it clean down there, haha.
11/13/2011
Contributor: GoneBabyGone GoneBabyGone
I don't particularly care for oral but when he insists on it I have to freshen up. I won't be able to get any enjoyment out of it at all if I don't.

I bathe and clean my self regularly but I still have a lingering paranoia of odors.

I work in customer service you run into a lot of stinky people, I think that's what makes me worry. I don't ever want to be the stinky woman that doesn't realize she is "the stinky lady".
11/23/2011
Contributor: PassionateLover2 PassionateLover2
Quote:
Originally posted by eeep
If I've been working out, or doing something where I feel like I need to, then I go freshen up. Otherwise Let him at it on the spot. Women seem to worry about freshening up a lot, whereas most men never even think about cleaning themselves up ... more
I totally agree with 'eeep'.

I also saw in an earlier post by 'Gunsmoke' posted 4 months earlier referring to an original post by 'P'Gell': "I'm sweaty." He says, "I want your sweaty and dirty!" (of course "I'm not dirty, but he likes the sound of talking like this")

You got to go for it; timing is everything.
11/28/2011
Contributor: Bonesdance Bonesdance
I always want to make fellatio as pleasant as possible for my wife, so whenever there's even a chance that she'll be blessing me with that gift I'll make sure to be as fresh and clean as possible.
11/28/2011
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
Quote:
Originally posted by Bonesdance
I always want to make fellatio as pleasant as possible for my wife, so whenever there's even a chance that she'll be blessing me with that gift I'll make sure to be as fresh and clean as possible.
I'm sure your wife appreciates your thoughtfulness!
11/28/2011
Contributor: mandaj mandaj
freshen up!!! most def, but he doesnt care. i just want to
11/29/2011
Contributor: RedGoddess RedGoddess
i like to freshen up so i feel clean, but he doesn't care most times....go to town.
11/29/2011
Contributor: zeebot zeebot
I'd probably suggest it but wouldn't insist on it.
11/29/2011
Contributor: Cookie Monster Mike Cookie Monster Mike
I generally always try to have any kind of sex as clean as possible, ill clean up before and after. But only before if I need a shower for the day in general.
11/29/2011