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Contributor: MrKite MrKite
Quote:
Originally posted by Rossie
If your partner wants to go down on you in the middle of the day, do you call a halt and go freshen up first, or let him/her taste you on the spot?
I think most everyone would prefer to have the chance to freshen up but sometimes that's not possible. If there is no time for a shower or it's just completely spontaneous I don't worry about it and hope for the best. I've never gotten a complaint.

If going down on my girlfriend I prefer if she showers but it's not a huge deal. If she doesn't taste as good as usual I just limit my time down there.
11/30/2011
Contributor: Caprieclipse Caprieclipse
freshening up just helps me not to worry, makes me feel better!
12/08/2011
Contributor: pixxie87 pixxie87
come one ppl, lets keep ourselves clean before any action
12/12/2011
Contributor: geliebt geliebt
I definitely do. Even if I'm not ACTUALLY sweaty and icky, I still feel that way if I haven't had a shower all day. I just can't feel sexy!
12/13/2011
Contributor: K101 K101
I never need to freshen up. Now if I hadn't showered then I would, but I don't go without a shower. I don't ever have a smell, thankfully, so there are no worries there. Sometimes if there's some discharge (sorry for that yuckyness!) I will tell him to hold on while I use a wet cloth to get rid of excess and he says NOOOO! PLEASE DON'T! Lol. If I had a smell he'd be happy to let me know. Lol.
12/13/2011
Contributor: Megan Jean Megan Jean
I don't find it to be necessary.
12/25/2011
Contributor: RavenWolf88 RavenWolf88
Quote:
Originally posted by Yaoi Pervette (deleted)
Depends. If I was doing something dirty and sweaty all day and felt really ripe, I might want to freshen up before doing anything. Other than that, I don't worry too much about it.
Same here.
12/26/2011
Contributor: Doah Doah
If she doesn't mind, I don't, otherwise I go wash up.
01/03/2012
Contributor: Undead Undead
Quote:
Originally posted by Rossie
If your partner wants to go down on you in the middle of the day, do you call a halt and go freshen up first, or let him/her taste you on the spot?
If I'm somewhere where I can freshen up I will.
01/04/2012
Contributor: NaughtyMommy NaughtyMommy
I let him go with it. If it needs it he will say so. If he got off in it the night before and wanted to before I got a shower( like wanting to wake me up to it) I want to freshen up.
01/12/2012
Contributor: kawigrl kawigrl
depends
01/13/2012
Contributor: Tess Tess
Quote:
Originally posted by Rossie
If your partner wants to go down on you in the middle of the day, do you call a halt and go freshen up first, or let him/her taste you on the spot?
My partner actually loves me au naturelle when she is feeling randy and spontaneous. I used to have to fight the urge to go freshen up and instead go with the moment. I haven't looked back since
01/14/2012
Contributor: ninja250 ninja250
Not unless i just got all sweaty before.
01/14/2012
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by Rossie
If your partner wants to go down on you in the middle of the day, do you call a halt and go freshen up first, or let him/her taste you on the spot?
Funny that we were just taking about this topic with our Friday night "free for all talk" dinner group!!!
01/14/2012
Contributor: Daemonin Daemonin
I go clean up if possible, but sometimes he won't let me. Guess it would ruin the mood otherwise.
01/14/2012
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
Funny that we were just taking about this topic with our Friday night "free for all talk" dinner group!!!
Apparently I've started an interesting topic, responses are still coming in five months later!
01/15/2012
Contributor: Cherrylane Cherrylane
Sometimes I'd prefer/insist to, but that's usually after I've been doing some activity like riding horses or have just worked out.

I'm pretty obsessive about hygiene down there though so other than that I don't have much need to freshen up because I'm pretty fresh already.
01/15/2012
Contributor: LAndJ LAndJ
I've been with him nearly 3 years, he's never complained. So, I rarely freshen up beforehand, only if I know I'm gross smelling down there.
01/15/2012
Contributor: Lano4ka Lano4ka
Depends on the situation.
02/12/2012
Contributor: Nazaress Nazaress
If I know it's not too bad, I'll let him. But I doubt he'd do it spontaneously, anyway. He's a little selfish. We're working on that. He's doing a LOT better. He got me off six times from oral last night!
02/12/2012
Contributor: Greenleaf Greenleaf
Always freshen up. I'm really paranoid/ocd about cleanliness.
02/12/2012
Contributor: PDXlady PDXlady
He's the one who's going to be down there so it's his call. He almost never cares so why bother.
02/13/2012
Contributor: SecretToyLover2 SecretToyLover2
Honestly, I will rarely go freshen up unless there's a HUGE need to. I'm not the kind to get foul odor/tastes down there. Of course, I do have my days where maybe I ate too many onions or a lot of asparagus. I'm sure others who have done this understand what I mean. In that instance, I will sponge bathe my kitty before any fun happens.

However, in the instance that I've been at work all day or I literally just got back from a jog, my babe knows to let me shower first. It's not that I'm worried about what he thinks - it's that I don't feel comfortable all sweaty and dirty. I don't really stink from sweating, but it feels gross to me.
02/13/2012
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
Quote:
Originally posted by Nazaress
If I know it's not too bad, I'll let him. But I doubt he'd do it spontaneously, anyway. He's a little selfish. We're working on that. He's doing a LOT better. He got me off six times from oral last night!
Wow, that's awesome!
02/13/2012
Contributor: kittychilla kittychilla
sometimes i'll freshen up, but if its in a situation where i can't, well...i'll still let them go for it.
02/13/2012
Contributor: lokoum lokoum
Quote:
Originally posted by Rossie
If your partner wants to go down on you in the middle of the day, do you call a halt and go freshen up first, or let him/her taste you on the spot?
I like to shower first and will sometimes request the same. However, it's not always necessary. If it is "planned" sex, we'll shower together first, otherwise it won't matter and we will just get used to tastes/smells.
02/18/2012
Contributor: Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
My GF likes it best when I am showered and clean. I like to make the experience as positive and enjoyable for her, so I clean myself before getting oral.
02/18/2012
Contributor: sarki sarki
I need to freshen up
02/18/2012
Contributor: Jake'n'bake Jake'n'bake
Freshen up. I kind of hate the idea of a face in my bits unless I don't feel offensive in the smell/taste department.
02/18/2012
Contributor: Kitt Katt Kitt Katt
I normally freshen up before any sexual activity.
02/18/2012