I've gotten very frustrated with a partner & short tempered over this before. *Face of shame* I don't react well to it. I get really pissy & upset. It hasn't happened in a long ass time, though.

keep trying till it happends

Just keep trying, if it doesn't happen, oh well.

I've never orgasmed from intercourse. I have to have clitoral stimulation to cum, so I'll get out my vibe after sex with or without him in the room. Usually he gets me off before sex though.

I get angry. I'm one of those lucky women who almost always has an orgasm. It's more difficult for me not to have one than to have one. If things aren't going as well as they should I ask (or order ) my partner to lay on their back and let me do the work. If they are unwilling to do that I feel perfectly justified in telling them it wasn't worth me pulling my clothes off.

Ive had bfs in the past that would cum before me and that made me MAD!!!

However, current bf is ALOT better and I actually get to have multiple Os w/him!

I'll tell my girlfriend its not working for me and usually she understands and will watch as I take care of it myself which gets us started all over again

I get tired of getting close, and eventually just give up. There are some nights I won't be able to finish...and I'm okay with that

This is a very frustrating situation. I work on it myself until I get there, usually.

I really don't have sex to have an orgasm... my focus is totally on my partner and pleasing him, so most of the time I really don't mind if I don't orgasm.

I generally don't orgasm during sex unless I've planned on it. If I ask him to make me come, he usually will. Otherwise, just helping him reach orgasm is usually enough for me. I don't have to come to be satisfied.

For me, I really don't care if I have an orgasm or not, as long as my men get their's I'm secure in the knowladge that I was able to get them off.

I don't care. I don't go into sex looking for an orgasm. I'm more there for the journey.

There should really be an 'other' option here! I almost never orgasm during sex...so I masturbate afterwards, but he doesn't leave the room!! He cuddles me while I do it so it's even better. ^_^ I really hope I can experience an orgasm during sex with my current (and longest) partner soon <3333

I am no where near menopause and I know exactly how you feel. In fact, the idea of menopause and it getting even harder to orgasm is pretty scary. I don't usually go into sex with the expectation of orgasm, I usually just want to have fun and enjoy the sensations. The problem comes when I get so damn close(!%*&^) and I just can't go over the edge. I can literally be quivering with the tension totally convinced that the orgasm is starting and it just doesn't happen. I want to scream! I can use the most powerful wands and it doesn't matter, they usually just hurt or make me numb. I haven't actually cried about it, but it usually makes me angry and frustrated. Not at my partner though, there is usually nothing either of us can do to make me come when I get like this. I get mad at my body, for not giving me release. I wouldn't say that I experience actual pain afterwards, but I can crave the release so bad for a while after that it might border on being called pain. I would say that this happens about half the time I "go for the O." I think for me this is mostly because I am on antidepressants that interfere with my libido and orgasms. I used to basically never orgasm, but I've switched meds about 6 months ago and I've gotten a lot better. Obviously its a work in progress though I think a lot of people don't realize that there are women who, at least some of time, are truly physically unable to orgasm through no fault of their own or partners. Also it's not just a matter of not being focused on orgasming as the end goal. It's about being unable to find a release to intense sexual tension and then having to go about your day dealing with that tension and stress all day.

Lately its been more difficult for me to orgasm during sex, I'm not quite sure why. My boyfriend tries his hardest until I get there, we pretty much go at it until he can't last any longer. When it doesn't happen I get a bit frustrated, but usually I just whip out my vibrator and can orgasm that way. It's annoying though when the sex feels more amazing than normal and I just can't reach orgasm!

If it happens to me, I either get a toy out or keep trucking along.

I do get upset if I could have but lost it during our session..but most of the time it's ok. I'll just wait til next time...

It's super frustrating to me, but I can usually manage it eventually.

it's not a big deal if I don't though it is frustrating if I feel really close and then it goes away or my boyfriend finishes first

Sucks when I want one and it just won't come!

Aw, don't feel bad. It sucks and makes me want to cry too.

I have a clitorial orgasm every time I want to.

There is nothing more frustrating than not being able to come. Atleast to me. Sometimes I'm having great sex and I don't come, it's really weird.

Honestly, I just feel bad because my fiance thinks HE did something wrong! no, that is not true, but he may think that it is! But I usually don't worry about it