The New Intimacy

Do you have a better orgasm by yourself or with your lover?

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Contributor: jr2012 jr2012
my partner. He's so attentive and diligent and patient, and always makes sure I cum (usually multiple times, too).

When I'm by myself I tend to rush, and turn that vibe all the way to high! I don't know why I get impatient to orgasm, but I'm trying to slow it down.
10/21/2012
Contributor: MidnightStorm MidnightStorm
Definitely with my boyfriend! Although sometimes they're a little TOO intense.
10/21/2012
Contributor: Geogeo Geogeo
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Originally posted by Stnjbe1021
I wonder if I'm the only one who has a better orgasm when I pleasure myself...or if maybe I'm just not giving my lover the chance to make me orgasm like I can...hmmm
myself, since it's the only time i get off
10/21/2012
Contributor: Stagger13 Stagger13
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Originally posted by Stnjbe1021
I wonder if I'm the only one who has a better orgasm when I pleasure myself...or if maybe I'm just not giving my lover the chance to make me orgasm like I can...hmmm
They are all good but she makes it even better!
11/16/2012
Contributor: True Pleasures True Pleasures
I have better orgasms by myself, but nothing can replace sex, even if it is still a little awkward after all these years. We're still like a couple of teenagers that don't know how to act around each other. :p
11/27/2012
Contributor: Martiniman Martiniman
Better with my wife.
11/28/2012
Contributor: Babylove09 Babylove09
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Originally posted by Stnjbe1021
I wonder if I'm the only one who has a better orgasm when I pleasure myself...or if maybe I'm just not giving my lover the chance to make me orgasm like I can...hmmm
I'd say better with my hubby.
11/29/2012
Contributor: Rory Rory
I never play solo so better with him!
11/29/2012
Contributor: Leather & Lace Leather & Lace
Usually with a lover, yes.
11/29/2012
Contributor: wicked48 wicked48
In the past, with my boyfriend. Since I'm currently single, by myself!
05/28/2013
Contributor: SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
Better with my man.
05/31/2013
Contributor: dancingduo dancingduo
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Originally posted by ToyTimeTim
The best orgasms come when I am with the wife, hands down.
same here, especially if I combine toys with wife. Combination of sex +P-spot massager was mind-blowing.
06/01/2013
Contributor: sXeVegan90 sXeVegan90
Mine have always been better with a partner.
06/01/2013
Contributor: karenm karenm
They're better with him.
06/02/2013
Contributor: Nezzie13 Nezzie13
Better with my lover. He arouses me more than anyone else on the planet; including me!
06/02/2013
Contributor: Jaybird Jaybird
They tend to be best for me when my girlfriend gives me oral. Those are pretty amazing.
06/03/2013
Contributor: BrittaniMaree BrittaniMaree
Better by myself for my clit but he does well with my G spot
06/10/2013
Contributor: chicmichiw chicmichiw
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Originally posted by Stnjbe1021
I wonder if I'm the only one who has a better orgasm when I pleasure myself...or if maybe I'm just not giving my lover the chance to make me orgasm like I can...hmmm
Aw, by myself for me. But I know that my guy says it's better with me, so I'll take the compliment.
06/10/2013
Contributor: Sweet-Livy Sweet-Livy
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Originally posted by Naughty Student
I cannot give myself the amazing orgasms my man gives me when we make love. I wish, everytime would be amazing on my own. I get pretty good orgasms alone, but I have never been able to give myself an orgasm where I have gone in convulsions like my ... more
I believe the same would apply to me. I have the best boyfriend ever.
03/24/2017
Contributor: Sweet-Livy Sweet-Livy
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Originally posted by NarcissisticLust
I always have a better, stronger, deeper and longer lasting orgasm with my lover than alone. No competition
This would apply to me as well.
03/24/2017
Contributor: Sweet-Livy Sweet-Livy
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Originally posted by MissCandyland
Always better with my boyfriend.
I haven't had sex yet but I would imagine it would be better with him.
03/24/2017
Contributor: Sweet-Livy Sweet-Livy
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Originally posted by karenm
They're better with him.
Mine would be better with mine too.
03/24/2017
Contributor: frisky069 frisky069
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Originally posted by Stnjbe1021
I wonder if I'm the only one who has a better orgasm when I pleasure myself...or if maybe I'm just not giving my lover the chance to make me orgasm like I can...hmmm
I've had some really great ones by myself but I've also had some equally great ones with my lover.
11/10/2019
Contributor: HotCherryPie88 HotCherryPie88
This really depends on who I'm with at the time. I've had better orgasms with my lovers at times and also had better orgasms alone at other times. It depends on what type of lover the other person is.
11/12/2019