Do you have a better orgasm by yourself or with your lover?

Contributor: AngelicaU AngelicaU
When I masturbate I can cum several times, but after a few it just gets a little boring. It feels good, but I'm not into it. When I have sex with my boyfriend, I have orgasm after orgasm in every position, several times and they all feel absolutely amazing!
03/08/2011
Contributor: MrRainybowbow MrRainybowbow
havent gotten that far with my lover yet and never had one with a bf.
03/08/2011
Contributor: Mz.GreenEyez Mz.GreenEyez
Definitely better with my husband...they are longer and stronger.
03/10/2011
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
I prefer orgasms with my husband, I want both physical and psychological satisfactions! I hate getting that empty feeling when I reach orgasm by masturbation with a toy.
04/06/2011
Contributor: Mommy2 Mommy2
Always better alone.
04/06/2011
Contributor: extrafun extrafun
I have had some really good ones by my self but, I must say the best ones are with help.
04/06/2011
Contributor: Lithaewyn Lithaewyn
I'm pretty lazy when it comes to masturbation because unless I'm really horny and my husband is unavailable, I'd much rather have sex with him than spend all that energy on a dildo!

However, I can have orgasms with dildos that I can't have with my partner. My Pure Wand does amazing things to me.
04/06/2011
Contributor: Seharra Seharra
They're usually better when I do it myself, but I already know what I want and use really fantastic toys. I guess it depends on the other person... some people are just better than others. :p
04/08/2011
Contributor: Joie de Cherresse Joie de Cherresse
With my husband, no doubt!
04/08/2011
Contributor: link82 link82
It depends...
04/09/2011
Contributor: NarcissisticLust NarcissisticLust
I always have a better, stronger, deeper and longer lasting orgasm with my lover than alone. No competition
04/09/2011
Contributor: tickle me pink tickle me pink
When I'm with my husband they're a thousand times better than when I'm alone!
04/09/2011
Contributor: nicole07 nicole07
better by myself
04/09/2011
Contributor: Fuck it. Fuck it.
Better with a partner, but I'm more consistent by myself. Oh well. That just means we have to practice more, right?
04/21/2011
Contributor: The Curious Couple The Curious Couple
Always better with my fiancee!
04/25/2011
Contributor: froggiemoma froggiemoma
more often by myself
04/27/2011
Contributor: brian691986 brian691986
Quote:
Originally posted by Stnjbe1021
I wonder if I'm the only one who has a better orgasm when I pleasure myself...or if maybe I'm just not giving my lover the chance to make me orgasm like I can...hmmm
self pleasure is the best
04/27/2011
Contributor: Howells Howells
No better either way but there is a difference. It's only different, not better. Feel me?
05/25/2011
Contributor: liilii080 liilii080
I love them both but usually I have better O's by myself because I am in complete control and know just what to do. It's not always as easy to communicate that to a partner.
05/25/2011
Contributor: GravyCakes GravyCakes
Quote:
Originally posted by Stnjbe1021
I wonder if I'm the only one who has a better orgasm when I pleasure myself...or if maybe I'm just not giving my lover the chance to make me orgasm like I can...hmmm
my guy has recently gotten REALLY good at giving me oral.
05/28/2011
Contributor: cobiffle cobiffle
with wife by far, its so much better when not done by yourself
05/28/2011
Contributor: Cedarlooman Cedarlooman
Always better with a partner, no question. Usually if I am wanking, it is just to get off for stress relief or pressure relief ).
05/28/2011
Contributor: soyandapplecrisp soyandapplecrisp
The intensity of my orgasms differ more from the differences in stimulation and pace so one time masturbating might be more intense than with my boyfriend but other times it's the other way around. I voted by my partner, because even the times it's less intense it's so much more satisfying.
07/01/2011
Contributor: big b big b
with the wife
07/01/2011
Contributor: salaciousrex salaciousrex
I have better clitoral orgams when I do it to myself whether I'm solo or with my partner. But I can't have an orgasm from g-spot stimulation by myself I've only been able to with my guy
07/27/2011
Contributor: guard083 guard083
With someone
07/27/2011
Contributor: N&M N&M
Much better with my wife
08/09/2011
Contributor: Ms. Spice Ms. Spice
my lover. he knows how to hit all the right spots and i just love being with him during our personal time
08/09/2011
Contributor: Alyxx Alyxx
I have much more satisfying orgasms with my boyfriend than alone. Maybe not "better" but more satisfying because there's an emotional aspect that isn't there when I'm alone. The orgasms I give myself are often harder and stronger, though.
08/10/2011
Contributor: frisky069 frisky069
Quote:
Originally posted by Stnjbe1021
I wonder if I'm the only one who has a better orgasm when I pleasure myself...or if maybe I'm just not giving my lover the chance to make me orgasm like I can...hmmm
mine are better with my lover =]
08/21/2011